Los Angeles, CAUSA 90025
October 25, 2011
To me it means that love and sex are not limited commodities, and that one can be involved in multiple relationships without diminishing them.
I am essentially "polyamorous curious" at this point. I have never had a satisfying monogamous relationship before despite two decades of trying it, and I am at the point in my life where I find that I do not want a monogamous relationship; it seems "old fashioned" and limited. On the other hand, I do not have extensive experience with the poly lifestyle. I have friends who are polyamorous and by talking to them I started to wonder if perhaps this was the ethical sexual philosophy that best suits me. I am interested in finding out more about how these relationships work for others.
I'm not anybody's primary, let's put it that way.
I do not have children.
I am only beginning to figure this out. I think I might be a person who does not settle into a "primary relationship," and be serially single, involved with other single poly women or with people who have a strong primary partner. I am open to a primary partner happening if I find a woman who provides the perfect balance for it. I am still exploring the options at this point.
My name is Ryan Harvey, and I'm a thirty-nine year-old male living in Los Angeles. By profession, I'm a struggling (although award-winning) science-fiction and fantasy novelist. My other loves are movies, swing dancing, and books books books.