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Van Nuys, CA

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April 20, 2012

Your answers will be visible to everyone. This is like a resume to tell the other members what you are looking for. This is NOT a "swingers" group so please reflect this in your answer. What does the word polyamory mean to you?

For me, it's being attracted to and able to love more than one person emotionally and sexually in an open and honest way. It isn't necessarily absent of jealousy, but that jealousy is fleeting, it gets managed, and isn't long-term or infectious. It is an absolutely incredible, beautiful, humbling thing.

Why did you join the polyamory meetup group?

My husband and I aren't really close to people who share our same beliefs. It would be nice to have that in our lives. Spending time with friends who get it, who are accepting and don't judge would be refreshing. It would be helpful to know what other poly people believe, what has worked, what hasn't, etc. We are very secure people, and just want to get to know others.

Are you currently involved in a poly relationship? How many individuals in your "tribe"?

Yep! There are 4 of us. :)

Do you have any children? What are their ages? (helps in planning activities)

No children.

What would your ideal poly relationship look like?

This is not something I can plan for, figure out, or know beforehand. A person or persons added for the long-term, short-term, on and individual basis, or shared between us... it's all good. Ideally it will be about what feels right, natural, or fun.


Above all, I am an artist in everything I do. I like trying new things, whether it's food, activities, people, or whatever. If it's interesting, I'm drawn to it. I am in a satisfying, polyamorous marriage and am open to what the world throws my way.

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