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Member of Dea Noctis tribe


Burbank, CA
Hometown: San Fernando Valley

Organizer since:

June 3, 2008

Your answers will be visible to everyone. This is like a resume to tell the other members what you are looking for. This is NOT a "swingers" group so please reflect this in your answer. What does the word polyamory mean to you?

Polyamory is about forming deep, long lasting committed love relationships with multiple partners so that all the individual needs of each partner are addressed without placing undue stress on any one individual to be something they are not.

Why did you join the polyamory meetup group?

To find friends with similar ideals for support and friendship. I also started this meetup to bring people together and provide a safe and stable hub for fostering new friendships with a basis in understanding. I am not looking for new partners. While the ability of the heart to love is unlimited, time is not. Adding new partners would not be fair to anyone involved.

Are you currently involved in a poly relationship? How many individuals in your "tribe"?

Yes, I am actually in a large "tribe" that we recently named the Dea Noctis tribe. We have an inner core of fluid bonded individuals and adhere to a strict fluid bond protocol. Within the tribe, not everyone is involved with everyone else, but we do all get along and know about one another. Due to the dynamic I am currently in and where I am in my life, my plate is very full and I am not adding any partners. I am not interested in sex partners outside of my current poly relationships.

Do you have any children? What are their ages? (helps in planning activities)

Yes, 2 children, ages 14 and 17. My kids usually accompany me to meetups.

What would your ideal poly relationship look like?

Multiple Primary Partners - Open Model - See the "About Us" Page for Model types. I need to have a deep connection with my partners, while still recognizing their needs to be open. I thrive in multiply committed relationships.


I am currently in a successful poly tribe called the Dea Noctis tribe. Our longest inner relationship is 21+ years and still going strong. I have been a part of this tribe since 2005. I have been poly since 1992. I also have two teen boys.

What Deborah is saying about this Meetup Group

This is a GREAT group of people. I had a wonderful time and am looking forward to seeing everyone again next month!

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