This is a group for people interested in face to face real contact with others for the purpose of building relationships premised on being real and yourself. We use methods of process-oriented psychology to explore subjects which are normally difficult to tackle, such as shyness, anxiety, desire, self-esteem, etc. Our meetings include facilitated dialog, body-oriented and movement exercises, improvisation and role-play, dreaming and art. These are alcohol-free events. We welcome all favors of culture and sexuality, because we deeply believe in learning from diversity, not shying away from it. We are here to learn and explore, so we will be experimenting with different approaches and formats as time passes and new ideas emerge. We are here to bring people together in all intensity and emotional complexity that this entails.

Update: some people are asking about age of the members. I want to answer it here because I'm sure it's a question on the mind of many. This is not a usual dating group, because everyone who is looking for a real relationship knows that it's a long and difficult process. So my commitment to everyone is that at the very least everyone will learn something from our gatherings, even if in the end more time will be spent looking for that special person (or people) you will ultimately consider your partner (according to whatever criteria you truly desire). To this end I will not be restricting our meetings to any specific groups (age, background or even sexual orientation), because I deeply believe in learning from diversity of everyone's experience, without exception.
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  • November 10, 2013 · 5:00 PM

    "Be you" meetup

    2 Relationship seekers

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