Welcome, like-minded women of the Triangle!

Women: have you ever felt an attraction to another woman? Bicurious and bisexual females are everywhere and now there's a Meetup to support you! Women who are single or married, currently in a relationship with a male OR female... let's get together and socialize, get to know other people and just be who we are!

Here's a little about what to expect when becoming a member of our group. I have to thank Ella for writing this for us! It really sums up what to expect as a woman of Dual!

This group is made up of a large group of women from all different walks of life. We all have one thing in common: our dual attraction to both women and men. This attraction varies to different degrees. Some are attracted more to men than women; for others, it's just the opposite. Some are in the early stage of discovering their attraction; others have been aware of it for many years. Some are very comfortable with the public knowing about their dual attraction; others are rather uncomfortable with having others find out about it. Some have the attraction come and go; for others, it’s a part of their life. Some act out their attraction in many different levels; others are more monogamous or don’t act out their attraction at all. Some of the women in this group already have a primary relationship with a man, yet need an outlet for that part of themselves attracted to women. We have polyamorous women, swingers, duogomous, and monogomous women in this group.

Due to the fact that the group is made up of women from all different walks of life, it provides an interesting mix of people... which in return provides a great support structure to the members of the group. However, due to the various levels of attraction and comfort levels, there is a need for some structure to accommodate all members.

If you are discovering a dual attraction, however, you are not ready to be open about it, you don’t need to put up your picture... but please be aware it makes it difficult for the organizers to reach out to you. (At least put up a picture of something you like, to give your profile character!) If you'd rather stay anonymous and just want to see what this group is all about, we suggest to try one of our social Meetups, which are geared towards an activity such as museum trips, movies, workshops etc. The topic of dual attraction may not even come up, since the Meetup is geared towards an activity which will take the focus. This way you will get to know some of the members in an environment of your choice and comfort level. If you are comfortable with your attraction or, conversely, you feel the need to talk to someone about it, our newbie Meetups, which are held once a month or every other month (depending on demand) is geared towards such conversations.

We often meet for dinner or drinks, which usually turns into open discussions about all sorts of topics. You should be somewhat open-minded, since you will hear a large number of different opinions. Still, these are not Meetups designed for any kind of "hooking up," these are simply Meetups of a bunch of girls who are comfortable with each other because they know they are not being judged on any level. However, any Meetup which is labeled as “wild party” means anything goes (short of an orgy, of course!!). If you choose to attend a Meetup which is labeled as “wild party,” you can expect open conversations, trips to strip clubs and gay bars, etc... If a woman ends up hitting on you, you should take it as a compliment instead of being upset.

We hope this helps you determine which types of Meetups might be right for you. Things might be further fine-tuned down the line. It's our goal for everyone to meet and be happy that they have found other women they can instantly bond with, because we all share that thing called Dual Attraction.