|A former member||
Just wanted to address something for the sake of organizing and planning events.
There are generally only two situations that require you to RSVP:
1. When you want to attend an event (RSVP = Yes)
2. When you originally RSVPed Yes but need to cancel. (RSVP changed to No)
With that, we don't need to know who's NOT going, only if you ARE going, or if you change your mind from Yes to No. RSVPing No just to say No results in extra email notifications that have no real value.
With that said, please do not RSVP NO just to let us know you don't plan on attending. If you're not gonna go, just don't RSVP at all. =^D