What we’re about
🌈 Barnet Gays is a relaxed, welcoming social group for gay men living in the Borough of Barnet and nearby areas – including Enfield, Haringey, Harrow and South Hertfordshire.
🍻 We host a friendly pub meetup in High Barnet once a month, giving local gay men a chance to socialise close to home. It’s a low-key, easygoing way to meet new people and catch up with regulars – no need to head into central London.
👬 Whether you're coming on your own or with gay male mates, you’ll find a warm and inclusive group. All are welcome – single, partnered, new to the area, or just looking to expand your circle.
🤝 Our meetups are fully hosted, so there’s always someone to say hello and help you feel at ease – no awkward moments.
🏡 We’re the suburban cousin of London Gays, which runs regular events in central London – including a big social every 2nd Saturday of the month and quiz nights every 2–3 weeks.
🎉 Join us for a drink, a chat, and a chance to connect with friendly faces in your area. We’d love to meet you.