Reading the entire group description would be a good idea, since the purpose of this group is not to duplicate what the larger groups do. Also, please see our "group reviews" to get a sense of what we're doing.
This is for singles, approximately 25-50, seeking to connect with others through authentic conversation.
This is for people who appreciate listening, thoughtful conversation, thoughtful silence.
This is for people who appreciate music, humor, passion, art of various kinds.
This is for people who are fair and ethical, non-dogmatic, seek a healthy lifestyle.
(By the way, "non-materialistic" in this context does not mean foolish about money; it means not pre-occupied with accumulation of things and money as ends unto themselves.)
This is not a business, and is non-religious, though we do welcome nature-worshippers, bicycle commuters, people who listen to the lyrics, thoughtful non-conformists, people who meditate, well-behaved economics (and other) students, idealists, people who stretch, science fiction fans, Daily Show watchers, Douglas Adams readers, readers of Howard Zinn, and others...
The primary activity is conversation, conversation that goes beyond small-talk. There may also be live music and/or food involved, but the main focus is interacting with other people, talking with (not at) other people; in my experience, many social environments ---in the world at large and in meetup--- do not support authentic conversation.
Personally, I'm interested in meeting people with whom I share some traits and values, and in a context which allows for more than glancing assumptions and small talk.
Re "intelligent conversation"--- maybe you're asking: "Conversation? What about bowling? Walking on the beach? What about that sweet, that funky stuff?" Well, it's not that we don't like those things, and honestly, the intent is not to have an "intee-lectual" group as such, but intelligent conversation creates an atmosphere that is different from the "single's hustle." I think someone else should start a group called "Hey Baby, Check Out My Car," for those interested in that approach. But this isn't that.
This is about using the internet to get off the internet. If you want to know people, you have to move beyond the notion that you already have them sussed by looking at their photograph.
"Midtown-ish"? Arguably it's a dorky name, but there is a reason. It's not really about geographic location or "trying new places." It is about interaction with people who are capable of reflective conversation.
Why "Midtown-ish"?
(1) What it suggests: freedom of thought, people who value art, education, intelligent discourse, as well as sunsets and petting and stuff. Yes, these cliches are not necessarily true, but they help to convey the intent of the group.
(2) Midtown Sacramento will often be the area for our meetups. --- you don't have to live in Midtown.
We'll meet in places that work for conversations that are more than "sound bytes." We'll meet usually Friday or Saturday evenings.
The cost of attendance is the cost of whatever you buy, plus a tip. If you order small, tip generously ---eg if you order a $3.00 drink, tip a buck. This is the cost of the venue.
Please be considerate of others as well as the group, and make every effort to show up when you sign up for an event. Behaviors that do not support the group's social purpose -- such as continual no-shows or last minute dropping out--- may result in removal from the group.
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