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From: Michael D.
Sent on: Thursday, January 19, 2012 4:57 PM
The Attraction Vault- January 2012 Newsletter Attraction Vault Presents: Official All Member Night - Saturday, February 11, 2012, 8:00 PM

Date: Saturday, February 11; Time: 8PM; Location: (See Forum For Complete Details) Topic: This is our monthly, fun filled night and a chance for new members and experienced members to finally meet. Meet new wings, get acquainted with the community, and most importantly – Party it up!

The Attraction Vault Presents: The Global Pickup Conference DC 2012

Date: Friday, March 23 - Sunday, March 25th; Time: 10AM - 6PM each day; When you come to the Global Pickup Conference DC 2012, you will get the best combination of multi-mentor instruction, you will get one day of instruction, in the field, with the guru’s included free along with 2 Days Of In Class Training!

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I decided to share my “Path Mindset”. The “Path Mindset” is partially based on Abraham Maslow’s (1954) theory on Self-Actualization. Maslow studies were conducted about the most successful people in the world from past to present and his theory is still widely used by many successful people today. Here is my adaptation aptly named “Path Mindset”:

1. BE WILLING TO CHANGE – Begin with asking yourself “Am I living in a way that is deeply satisfying to me and which truly expresses me?” If not, be prepared to make changes in your life to match your identity. Ask yourself this question often and accept the need for continual change because as we progress through life we grow and change naturally. It is up to you the direction you wish to head.

2. TAKE RESPONSIBILITY – You can become an architect of yourself by acting as if you are personally responsible for every aspect of your life. Shouldering responsibility in this way helps end the habit of blaming others for your own shortcomings. This is not an easy thing to do but it will help you be more fulfilled for your successes.

3. EXAMINE YOUR MOTIVES – Self-discovery involves an element of risk. if most of your behavior is led by a want to play it safe or secure, it may be time to test the limits of your needs and desires. Try to make each decision a choice for growth not a selection controlled by fear, or anxiety.

4. EXPERIENCE DIRECTLY & HONESTLY – Wishful thinking is another barrier of success. You must experience your own trials and tribulations otherwise you can block your growth. Self Actualizers trust in themselves enough to except all kinds of information without distorting it to fit their fears and desires. Try to see yourself as others do. Be willing to admin “I was wrong” or “I failed because of me”. Make sure you do not quit but rather learn from the experience.

5. USE YOUR POSITIVE EXPERIENCES – Successful experiences are temporary moments of self-actualization. Therefore, you might actively repeat actvities that you are good at…ones that cause awe, amazement, exaltation, renewal, humility, reverence, fulfillment, and happiness. This will allow you to get into state easier and will make you enjoy the process of your task.

6. BE PREPARED TO BE DIFFERENT – I feel that everyone has a potential for “greatness” but most fear becoming what they might. As part of personal growth, be willing to trust you impulses and feelings; don’t automatically judge yourself by the standards of others. Accept you uniqueness and love that you are different from anyone else on this planet.

7. GET INVOLVED – I found with few exceptions that self-actualizers tend to have a path in life. For these people, “work” is not done just for your own basic needs but rather to satisfy higher yearnings for truth, beauty, love, brotherhood, and meaning. Make it a goal to personally get involved and committed. Turn your attention to problems outside yourself. This will help your social circle grow, and make you a better person.

8. ASSESS YOUR PROGRESS – Since there is no final point at which we become perfect, it is important to gauge your own progress frequently and renew your efforts consecutively. If you become or feel bored in your approaches challenge yourself to greater heights. Otherwise you have not shouldered responsibility for your own growth. Remember that almost ANY activity can become a chance for self-improvement if it is approached in a creative way.


The Attraction Vault Presents: The Global Pickup Conference DC 2012

World class social and dating instructors will be joining us in DC this March for an epic Pick Up Artist conference.  Prices go up every two weeks.  Buy now and save!  And in the meantime check out the video about our upcoming event, The Global Pickup Conference DC.

If your looking to dramatically improve your ability with the ladies, I assure you that the upcoming conference will be epic.  You also can't beat the price, why not signup before the price goes up.

Friday the price will increase by $100, so if you are thinking about attending the conference, now is the time to act and ...



The Attraction Vault Presents: The Global Pickup Conference DC 2012


When you come to the Global Pickup Conference, you will get the best combination of multi-mentor instruction, you will get one day of instruction, in the field, with the guru’s!

These are the top pick up artists and dating coachs from America, Europe, and Asia!

You will be learning from PUA’s featured in Playboy, Men’s Health, Hustler, and other mainstream media.

Your Ticket to the Conference Includes:

• 2 Days Of In Class Training
• Train a Full Day Infield with the “Faculty”
• A 100 Page Routine Manual (Worth Over $100)
• Participate in the Private VIP Forum
• Viewing access to the VIP Video Vault (with Over 10 Hours of Secret Camera Training Footage From the Field (Worth Over $300)
• Latest breakthroughs from my Free Podcast
• You’ll get a Washington DC Guide, with all the “Hot Spots” to meet the ladys
• A FREE Raffle Ticket, where you’ll get a chance to win thousands of dollars of quality products, services & training throughout the conference.
• We’ll help you find Discounts on Hotels & Food 

• And Much More...



Don't Miss Out on this Special Offer for the Biggest DC Event of The Year.  This is an experience that will improve your life, FOREVER! Sign up NOW, before its too late.  See you there!





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