What we’re about
**Please note, this is NOT a group for men who are looking for more unconscious sex. This is a tantra and kundalini practice group which uses our rejuvenating energy for intimacy, healing and growth, and a group for naked socials to enhance connection.**
There will be no new events until May 2024 when I get back from India.
My personal vision is to authentically enable myself and others to take steps towards awakening. My vision for this group is to be the go-to community for men-who-love-men in Scotland seeking awakening.
This is a group for men who want to better connect to their bodies, and to the bodies of other men. We will be working with breathwork, energy sensitivity and expansion, meditation and visualisation, undertaking tantric and naked practices. We will be working from the heart to bring love and compassion to all that we do, while bringing joy to our embodied experiences.
There is a balance to be had between not getting too attached to the mind but utilizing the mind to inform our practices. Immersion is paramount to engaging fully in our embodied experiences. Engaging in our own pleasure and sharing that pleasure with each other enables that loving energy to flow into and from the universe; something sorely needed at this time.
So please come to tantric workshops prepared to engage in a range of practices with the intention of connecting energetically to a loving and healing state of awareness.
This will be a place to drop the ego, or connect to our own resistance, and see what we can learn from the experience. And above all, this will be a space where we can revel in the here and now through our self-loving and shared-loving embodied practices where we can connect to our sensations in the moment.
Our naked social gatherings will be a place to share with other men who love men in a space where we can chill out, chat and generally feel free in our nakedness to connect to our naked self and to create a sense of connection with others.
Rules of participation and informed consent.
- Stay within the Taught Structure: Please make sure you stay within the structure of the workshop, because this will mean that we know that everyone is within safe practices.
- Saying No & Saying Yes: Be clear about what is ok for you and what is not. The worst thing is that you do something or allow something to happen to you that you did not want. At any time in any of the sessions and rituals, if anything is not ok, please say No. It is your responsibility to take care of this, and I would much rather someone said No to everything in a session than someone not saying No and doing something that felt wrong for them. If you are giving a massage or similar and you are unsure if your partner is giving you a Yes, please ask him! It is your responsibility to check in with the person(s) that you are sharing with, so that you are sure everyone is consenting to what you might be offering them.
- Respect confidences (you can talk about your own experience and about Pink Tantra, but do not talk about others in the sessions).
- Recognise judgements (towards others and towards ourselves) and change behaviour or language when recognised.
- Participate as fully as you can, but always take responsibility for your own consent.
Your Health.
Although there are no longer requirements around Covid, to ensure a Covid- and Monkeypox-safe group, please ensure you are showing no signs of either before attending any face-to-face workshops or events.
Safety considerations.
- Safe Sex: No practices taught in these workshops or events involve the passing of fluids. Please respect this at all times.
- Emotional Safety: Tantra is designed to bring up all kinds of stuff. That’s why it is the fastest pathway to enlightenment. Sometimes something might come up that takes you by surprise and you just need some space to be with that. It’s always ok to sit out of an exercise and take a breather!
- Physical Safety: Please look after your physical limitations. If sitting on the floor is uncomfortable during an exercise, stand up. If standing up is uncomfortable, please sit down. Please do whatever you need to do to stay well and within your physical boundaries.