Where'd You Go Bernadette - Second Sunday Book Club July Meeting

The book for July is Where'd You Go Bernadette by Maria Semple.We have posted information about the author and a reading guide. It might be helpful to take a look at the reading guide AFTER you read the book but before you attend the meeting. The guides always seem to provide good insight, and help to facilitate better discussion. Please note that there has been a CHANGE to the MEETUP LOCATION! This Meetup will be held at The Pressroom Restaurant in Lancaster, PA. Hope to see you in July


About the Author   

Maria Keogh Semple (born June, 1964) is an American novelist and screenwriter. She is the author of This One is Mine Her television credits include Beverly Hills, 90210, Mad About You, Saturday Night Live, Arrested Development, Suddenly Susan and Ellen. Her writing has appeared in The New Yorker and The Los Angeles Times. She lives in Seattle.


Book Description    

Bernadette Fox is notorious. To her Microsoft-guru husband, she's a fearlessly opinionated partner; to fellow private-school mothers in Seattle, she's a disgrace; to design mavens, she's a revolutionary architect, and to 15-year-old Bee, she is a best friend and, simply, Mom.
Then Bernadette disappears. It began when Bee aced her report card and claimed her promised reward: a family trip to Antarctica. But Bernadette's intensifying allergy to Seattle--and people in general--has made her so agoraphobic that a virtual assistant in India now runs her most basic errands. A trip to the end of the earth is problematic.
To find her mother, Bee compiles email messages, official documents, secret correspondence--creating a compulsively readable and touching novel about misplaced genius and a mother and daughter's role in an absurd world. Underlying the nontraditional narrative are insights into the cost of thwarted creativity and the power of mother-daughter bonds, although a reader may be having too much fun to notice.

Reader’s Guide

1. Where’d You Go, Bernadette is told from the point of view of a daughter trying to find her missing mother. Why do you think the author chose to tell the story from Bee’s perspective? What light does it shed on the bond between Bernadette and Bee?

2. What are your thoughts on Bernadette’s character? Has she become unhinged or has she always been a little crazy? What, if anything, do you think sent her over the edge? Have you ever had a moment in your own life that utterly changed you, or made you call into question your own sanity?

3. When Bernadette relocates from Los Angeles to Seattle, she must cope with being a transplant in a new city. Have you ever moved, or even stayed put but switched jobs, and had to adjust to an entirely different culture? What was it like?
4. The idea of going to Antarctica becomes too much for an already frazzled Bernadette to bear, but the trip itself, surprisingly, turns out to be exactly what she needs to get back on track. How do other characters in the novel experience their own breakthroughs? Which character is most transformed?

5. How are Audrey Griffin and Bernadette Fox more alike than they realize?

6. Bernadette often behaves as if she is an outsider. Do you think she is? If so, do you think her feelings of being an outsider are self-imposed, or is she truly different from the other members of her community? Do you ever feel like an outsider?

7. The book has a very playful structure. Do you think it works? Why do you think the author chose it rather than a more straightforward, traditional structure? Think about other books with unusual structures and how their formats influenced your reading experience.

8. What do you think of Bernadette and Elgie’s marriage? Is it dysfunctional? Is there real love there? How has their marriage changed over time? Think about romantic relationships you’ve been in that have evolved, positively or negatively, and why.

9. Where’d You Go, Bernadette is, at its core, a story about a woman who disappears, both literally and figuratively. Were you able to relate to the book? How and why? Do you feel Bernadette’s disappearance was unique, or do all women, in a sense, disappear into motherhood and marriage?
(Questions issued by publisher.)

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  • Kathlene S.

    Excellent meal, lovely location and a lively discussion. So nice to meet so many new members. Already looking forward to August!

    July 14, 2013

  • A former member
    A former member

    As always, the evening provided good conversation and company along with a fine meal. Having five new members in attendance was nice.

    July 14, 2013

  • Ashley M.

    Sorry for the last minute change. I'm not feeling well and won't be able to make it. Hope you all have a great time.

    July 14, 2013

  • A former member
    A former member

    Sorry I didn't finish reading the book. Guess I'll catch the next one. :)

    July 13, 2013

    • Kathlene S.

      Will miss meeting you Christina. But next month;s book - Dos Star by Peter Heller is a real page turner! Hope to see you there.

      July 13, 2013

  • Susan F.

    will be there

    July 8, 2013

  • Donna W

    Looking forward to my first meeting!

    June 23, 2013

    • Kathlene S.

      Looking forward to meeting you Donna!

      July 4, 2013

  • Cathy H.

    Sorry, going out of town. See you in August.

    July 3, 2013

  • Kathlene S.

    Welcome back Sarah Richter!!!

    June 19, 2013

  • Susan D

    I just joined and wanted to say "hello". Just started reading the selection for July and excited to discuss it.

    June 15, 2013

    • Kathlene S.

      Welcome Susan, look forward to meeting you!

      June 15, 2013

  • Erin

    I'll be out in Seattle. Sorry to miss this one!

    June 9, 2013

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