We have hosted close to 52 Meetups as a group and
we can tell you the #1 mistake men make on their first
date (Triple S-Spartans call them Get-to-gethers)!!!!
Here's the #1 mistake, are you ready...they take the
woman on a "Dinner Date" for the first Get-to-Gether!!!!
On the surface this might look like a harmless event!!!
Have you really thought through this entire process???
Here are 7 things to think about before making the #1 sin in dating!!!!
1. Are you paying or is she!!! (lets be honest if you brought it up your paying)
2. What message does this sends out to a woman?
Allot of guys actually think they should get some play from a woman after they purchase dinner
which is a huge NO NO!!! She's not a prostitute and will only proceed further if their is a connection!!!
3. Do you know the person well enough to spend 90 minutes with them over Dinner?
4. What do you do if half way through you want to discontinue the evening and the main course has yet to come out?
5. Your not even yourself on this kind of date which means your not your authentic self...Women can smell this a mile away they will and usually bolt!!!
6. What are you trying to prove with Dinner? Most women are unimpressed with an expensive meal especially in today's dating world guess what guys!, "They can buy their own!"
7. In 2010 A dinner date is OLD....Here's a few great 1st time (get-to-gether) dates that we
1. Do a Coffee or Tea get-to-gether, it's quick and easy for both parties.
2. Go out for Drinks at a local place around town during happy hour or lunch. (you may buy the first round)
3. An Ice Cream or dessert date!
4. Do the "Super Dater" Bookstore Get-to-Gether!! (details of this date can only be given at Triple S in person it's a surefire winner! The mechanics of it are mind blowing!)
This is just a little Sample of what is covered at Triple S!
Make sure to Join and RSVP for this weeks special Presentation...http://www.meetup.com/SecretSpartanSociety/
P.S. Started by Spartans for Spartans!