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Last night's meeting was a great wealth of info for those who came and shared. Thanks to all!
At this point I will be out of town for the month of March but will see if any of my colleagues might like to lead a group and will let you know. And, due to scheduling issues, the Men's Only group about women is on hold. I'll be sure to let you know about it as we progress. However, in the meantime, here's a fun quiz to take to see ...
"What You Never Knew You Never Knew About Women and Sex"
Copyright by Mary Jo Fay, 2008
If it's still the world's favorite subject ... why do so many folks still have "issues" in the bedroom ... Women with all those "headaches" and frustrated men just wanting to "get lucky?"
Where are we going wrong in our sex lives that so many are missing out on keeping the bedroom "steamy" way past the honeymoon phase? Which sexual myths need to be debunked?
Take this quiz and find out what you only THINK you know about love-making, sexual response, and what women want. Then discover the surprising answers and life-changing advice:
1.Unfortunately, way too many adult men learned about women and sex:
a. During school education classes.
b. From their parents.
c. In their 7th grade locker room.
2.The "G-Spot" is:
a. An exquisite but oftentimes elusive orgasmic spot for some women.
b. Something only a few human females can claim.
c. Probably real, but nobody can find it.
3.Women who frequently say "Please, Dear, not tonight":
a. Are frigid and unable to climax.
b. Probably have normal libidos, but aren't getting what they want in bed.
c. Are over-sexed and can't be pleased.
4.The best way a gal can please her man sexually is to:
a. Shut up and do exactly what he wants. After all, guys know more.
b. Share with him what turns her on, and then enjoy his attention.
c. Fake orgasm. Otherwise he might get mad, sullen, or even impotent.
5.A woman will definitely lose interest in sex:
a. If she goes without it.
b. If she's often left unsatisfied.
6.Men will leave women most frustrated in the bedroom when they:
a. Limit foreplay.
b. Fall asleep right after.
c. Don't cuddle.
7.If they had their choice, most women would prefer:
a. Various positions, role playing, and whipped cream.
b. Inventive locations for their sex romps.
8.Here's what a guy can do to almost guarantee that his woman will desire sex with him:
a. Maximize his mojo by bragging about his size.
b. Listen to his buddies about what women need.
c. Make her feel safe and loved.
9.What percent of women report being able to climax with intercourse alone?
10.\The ultimate goal for most women having intercourse is:
a. Explosive orgasm. Every time.
b. Tenderness, intimacy, cuddling.
c. Getting it over with.
Read on for the correct answers and some amazing sexual realities.
1.c. In their 7th grade locker room! Yes, unfortunately and regrettably, most of what men think they know about sex came from their equally uninformed buddies. Too bad. How could pre-teen (probably virginal) boys know more about a women's body, her sexual response, and what works? And reading Playboy or Maxim in all the years in between doesn't always fill in the gaps!
2.a. An exquisite path to pleasure that most women have, although even some of them are a bit in the dark about it. Want to know more? Here's the history: A German gynecologist named Grafenberg first pronounced his findings about this mystical area of the female anatomy in 1950. But serious notice of "Dr. G's" work didn't resurface until 1980. Women now say that discovering the G-Spot has profoundly changed their sexual experiences -- although some of them are still seeking it themselves! (So how's a guy supposed to know where the heck it is if a woman can't even find it?!)
3.b. Have normal libidos, but aren't getting what they want in bed. Shouldn't that be easy to fix? Any man can (as they say) "get lucky" -- once he realizes that there is no luck involved in having a great sexual relationship. It's all about communicating with your biggest sex organ: The Brain!
4.b. Reveal exactly what you want, and work at getting it with your partner. No faking, no frustration, no excuses. Once the guy knows his lady is happy, he'll want to repeat his fine work. Most kind and considerate guys get huge satisfaction knowing that they are sexually satisfying to their partner. So open up gals! Quit being bashful and show the guys what makes you tick!
5.b. Most women can be just as excited about sex as men, IF they are left satisfied regularly. If not, watch out for a recipe for regular headaches!
6.This is a trick question. Every answer is correct. And each of those issues can be corrected.
7.All of the above. It's called variety and unpredictability. But since each gal is different, be sure to ask for the most successful experiences.
8.c. Make her feel safe and loved. That's a critical part of the love-making formula. Mojo motions, macho antics, and bragging about your size can have the opposite effect.
9.c. Only 30% of women report being able to climax with intercourse alone! So guys --even if you're a guy with a big package, you could be leaving your gal unsatisfied in spite of your size if she's one of those 70% who need something more!
10.b. Tenderness, intimacy, cuddling. If most women have that, their likelihood of desiring sex more often will generally increase, and after all, isn't that what guys are after to begin with?
I hope this quick quiz has given you some food for thought! For more about this tricky subject, please visit Mary Jo Fay at www.PleaseDearNotTonight.com! Or drop me an email at OutOfTheBoxxInc@aol.com. (Note: use two x's on Boxx or you won't find me!)
Happy Dating, Mating, and Relating!