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Name: Jake | Location: NY , NY |Question: Hey Moxie,
I have always been one for the "open" "non exclusive" relationships. I have dated many women in my life and have not until recently been able to commit. I met a woman, who at first, just had a casual open relationship with. She was very cool and in time I found myself drifting toward the "exclusive" side. I finally took the plunge about a year ago. This woman is incredible and I love her very much. We spend a lot of time together, weekdays, weekends, holidays, vacations have met each others family, etc. There is no doubt in my mind that I want this. Now of course you knew there was a but coming. I still feel the need to keep in contact with women from my past, either a past hook up, someone I have flirted with, etc. It is usually when I have been drinking but I will text or call these women, even when my current girl is around. I know that I would never act on anything and I feel guilty that I do this but I can't help myself. Can you share your wisdom with me? |Age: 34
My "wisdom?" Oh, honey...I hate to tell you but I really have none other than you aren't alone. I still, as recent as two weeks ago, have the occassional dirty text exchange with a friend of mine from softball who has a girlfriend. He's asked to move to phone sex and I say no. I do have boundaries :)

Although I will say that whenever he and I text, I truly believe it's because something is missing in his relationship. Maybe that's just my way of protecting my ego because, really, I am settling for the attention and nothing more. Or maybe it's just that he knows he can always get that dirty, nasty urge out via text and that I won't expect anything or try to damage his relationship. Whatever it is, he's still clinging to some aspect of his single life because he's afraid to fully let go and move past the "old" him. You're probably doing the same thing. Also keep in mind that you're screwing with those women's heads by staying in touch with them. It's not all about you, which you should have learned now that you're in a committed relationship. READ THE POST & COMMENT

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