20s &30s Finding Friends in PDX

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About us

Welcome and Greetings! Come find your people, your tribe, your troop.

WHY
Making friends isn’t always easy-- back in school, we mixed and mingled with a variety of people and gained access to different groups thanks to structured classes, extracurriculars, or pure happenstance while being acquainted within the same stage of life, all the time. Nowadays, even those with more extroverted approaches find that schedules and responsibilities can make finding new friends an even more difficult task.

So if:

now feels like the right time to meet new people and try for new friendships
you’d like help in getting beyond polite small talk
you’d like to take a purposeful approach
you aren’t sure where to start

Then this is where Speedfriending comes in!

WHO
Locals within the range of 20s- 30s (or those who genuinely feel young at heart-- this is not an event where I'll be checking IDs to determine who can participate) and who are ready and interested in meeting potential pals, especially as you’ll meet new people every time you attend!

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20s&30s Speedfriending
Wed, Mar 18 · 5:00 PM PDT
West Linn Library, 1595 Burns Street, West Linn, OR, US
To guarantee a seat at the event, be sure to RSVP with the library. The link in order to sign up is Speed Friending | City of West Linn Oregon Official Website

What:
The focus at this event is on meeting new people, enjoying conversation, making connections, and potentially forging new friendships. So as to not detract, please don’t bring kids or solicitations.

Who:
These events are for everyone, whether they may be extroverted with few opportunities to socialize, or are more prone to homebody tendencies and hoping to find others with whom to bond over hobbies or find themselves anywhere along the spectrum of these personality placements.
There is also a high degree of success and enjoyment found amongst neurodivergent and “Highly Sensitive” folks-- many people admit to having to force themselves to stretch their comfort zones when coming out to these events but are then amazed by how much fun they have once they’re there!

Where/ When:
The location of 20s/30s Speedfriending is currently meeting at the West Linn library in January, March, May, July, September, and November. In the future, additional locations may be used to supplement these bimonthly meetings.
Though these events will be marketed towards those who live in the nearby area, you do not have to live or work in these communities to participate. All who are willing and able to be kind, respectful, patient, and good-natured are welcome.

RSVP
To guarantee a seat at the event, be sure to RSVP with the library. The link in order to sign up is Speed Friending | City of West Linn Oregon Official Website

Please also register here on MeetUp to:
--help me gauge interest
--keep you informed of additional upcoming events, including notice of next month's Speedfriending event, as well as other social activities not held at the library

Note that the library is also promoting these events, and thus not all attendees are included in the RSVP list shown on MeetUp.

Those who choose not to register at all may drop by and see if there’s room to join in; however, priority will be given to those who've registered with the library.

How:
Speedfriending, while based on the structure of speeddating, is purely platonic, and consists of short, minutes-long conversations with different people.
First, we will warm up with a couple easy ice breakers in order to get folks engaged right off the bat. After that, within minutes, the idea is to find common ground and begin getting to know others around the room.

In addition to the ice breakers, there’ll be optional conversation starter prompts to use as everyone is paired up (regardless of gender, orientation, or status, unlike a dating event) to visit one-on-one for a few minutes, then switch partners and chat with someone every few minutes.

THEN WHAT?...
If and as you connect with others over shared interests during the event, you’re encouraged to then exchange contact info.** Once the event is over, feel free to continue chatting at one of the nearby cafes or schedule your own get-together at another time! I will not be collecting/ keeping attendee contact information and thus will be unable to help with connecting people after the event.

After attending one Speed-FRIENDING event, feel free to come back again to continue the fun and keep meeting new people!

And hopefully, in short time, you'll have many friends made through these events! Just follow up with those you've exchanged contact info and get to know each other better!

**SAFETY
Registrants are not vetted. Only share what you’re comfortable with in each instance. For example, you might share your first name vs. your full name, or offer to communicate by email vs. phone, etc. and arrange to meet in public.

COST
None, though donations are appreciated if one wishes to show support and to help with occasional material costs.

If you have any further questions or concerns, please feel free to contact me via MeetUp’s messaging system and I will try to reply in a timely manner. Hope to see you soon!
~Morgane
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