What we're about
Adult Events is for OPEN MINDED people that what to explore their alternative side.
No Pressure environment - Gentle and relaxed intro to the Adult / Alternative scene
We strive to ensure all FEMALES that attend are provided a 100% safe, comfortable, relaxed and no pressure environment to explore.
Single Girls/ Couples – Please notify Organisers immediately if you experience any of the below from a Member:
- any Abuse, Harassment or Discrimination in any form
- Unsolicited messages over Meet Up or other means
- Unsolicited/ indecent proposals
Such acts will be NOT tolerated by any Member, whatsoever. Organisers will take swift action to removed/ report such Member – See Membership Rules below
We are committed to provide an EVEN ratio of Males and Females at our events - thus single male members may often be restricted from attending to achieve this balance.
Some Events will be strictly MF or FF Couples and Single Girls only.
- trips to parties/ clubs
- Coffee meets / Drinks meets
- private house parties
- advice for those new to the scene
- a friendly environment for those that are at the 'merely curious' stage
- males and females
- singles, couples, of all sexual orientations.
- newcomers or experienced in the scene.
We Offer our members:
- a relaxed environment to explore
- a non pressurised and safe environment
- network of like-minded people
- All members must be strictly over 18y and must be Consenting adults.
- Group rules track the rules of Clubs in the scene and rules that are usual in the scene.
- Single male members may be restricted to attend our events to achieve an EVEN MIX of males and females.
- All members (particularly Single male members) will be subject to strict approval
- All members info and profiles will hidden from NON members
- All members join on the basis of the current terms of the Group and are deemed to have accepted them.
- Group Rules also include all Event Rules and Membership Rules below.
- Organisers will have NO liability for Events, whatsoever.
- Organisers decision is final.
- In order to be permitted to attend Events – a Member MUST pass both:
1st Stage: ‘Verification’
2nd Stage: ‘Approval’
The Verification process is in place to protect Female Members and to provide our Female Members, a 100% safe, comfortable, relaxed and no pressure environment
- 1st Stage: VERIFICATION. Members must attended the Coffee/ Drinks meet. ‘Verification’ will require production of Photo ID and Proof of Address – copies of such may be taken and retained by Organisers.
- Members who attended the Coffee/ Drinks meets, in order for ‘Verification’ – will need to bring along ORIGINAL Photo ID and Proof of Address AND a Clear PHOTOCOPY of each - to be retained by Organisers.
- This Verification process is there to protect Female members and tracks the rules of Clubs in the scene and rules that are usual in the scene. It is to provide a form of ‘Verification’ that is usual in the scene, at Clubs and on Alternative Scene websites etc
- Passing of ‘Verification’ does NOT guarantee that a Member will be approved for an Event.
-2nd Stage: APPROVAL. Members who have passed ‘Verification’ may be APPROVED to attend specific Events.
- Approval to attend an Event is for that event only.
- Approval – will depend on numbers – to ensure an EVEN ratio of Males and Females at our Events
- Some Events will be Couples or Girls only – this follows the rules of Clubs and usual in the scene.
- Merely RSVP is NOT Approval to attend an Event. Members approved to attend an Event will be contacted directly via MU message or text.
- Events location may not be stated on the Event listing. A Meeting Point or Location will be disclosed to those approved to attend, often on the day of events itself. Club location will NOT be disclosed.
- We are committed to provide an EVEN ratio of Males and Females at our events - thus single male members may often be restricted from attending events to achieve this balance.
- Strictly even ratio of Guys / Girls at events - Hence single Guys may not be advised they have been approved to attend until day of Event itself.
- Cost of Event, Club entry may differ depending on Couple, Single girl, Single Guy - this follows the rules of Clubs and usual in the scene.
- Entry is at the Club's discretion. No Guarantee is given that Club will allow Entry. Club's rules apply. eg. Any drunken, abusive behavior or unwelcomed physical contact in the Club will NOT be tolerated. Organiser may also Ban any such member from this Meet Up group.
- Events may often require production of Photo ID and Proof of Address essential for entry – copies of such may be taken and retained by Organisers.
- If removed from an Event or a Club, for whatever reason, such member will not be given a refund.
- NO Refund will be offered FOR ANY REASON WHATSOEVER. Even if members cancel prior or does not show up on Event day or Club refuses such member entry for any reason on the event day or if a member is removed from the Club or Event for whatever reason, etc.
- If a Club refuses any member entry for any reason on the event day or if a member is removed from the Club for whatever reason, such member will have to wait (possibly outdoors) until Club ends at circa 2am the following day.
- WARNING: a Club’s location may be very isolated and is very far from any bars, shops or Transport. If such member wishes to call for a Taxi etc, this will be at such members own cost.
- Meeting Point and Meeting Time is strict. Arrival more than 30 min after Meeting Time on event day may mean such Member's place has been lost.
- Organisers will have NO liability for Events, whatsoever.
- Members will be fully responsible for their own actions, etc.
- Event may be postponed or cancelled any anytime at Organiser's sole Discretion.
- All members who RSVP and attend this event are deemed to accepted the terms of this event, as stated in this event listing (above) and terms of this Group (as listed in the 'About this Meetup Group' section).
- Pictures or Recording of any type (audio or visual) is NOT permitted.
- Mobiles are NOT permitted to be used in any Event (NOT even for SMS or Texting)
- Members will be vetted/ subject to approval.
- Members must have a clear profile face pic at all times (For a Couple - both faces in pic is required)
- Members are banned from messaging other members, where such is unsolicited.
- All members join the Group on the basis of the current Terms of the Group (all the above Rules) and are deemed to have accepted them.
- All members who RSVP for an Event are deemed to accepted the terms of Such Event, as stated in this Event listing and Terms of this Group (all the above Rules) and (as listed in the 'About this Group' section).
- Group is NOT to be used for any gain or financial benefit by any member, whatsoever.
- No Abuse, Harassment or Discrimination in any form will be tolerated by any member, whatsoever.
- Any Member posting Comments against the rules of the Group or perceived as against the Groups interest or benefit may be removed from the Group, at any time. Organisers decision is final.
- Members who may be removed at any time, for any reason by Organisers. Organisers decision is final.
- If a Member is unhappy about a Rule of the Group, an Event, selection to approval to attend an Events, the ‘verification’ process, or that the Organisers decision is final, such Member is free to leave the Group