What we're about


This group is for people 30's-50's, who are interested in meeting new people and expanding their social network. Please think about hosting, it's not as scary as it seems, it's just being a contact point for details.

There are no gold coin donations required to attend any meet-ups at present, only the expectation that members will be courteous and change their RSVP's if no longer able to attend an event.

Three no-shows without explanation/notification will result in you being removed from the group. Harsh but your non-attendance means that someone else on a waitlist has potentially missed out plus it means someone has waited around for you!

Please also be aware that this is not a group designed to make romantic attachments! While you could meet someone and mutually decide to see where it goes, please do not misconstrue the politeness of others. Any threatening or predatory behaviour will result in removal and a lifetime ban.

Hope to see you soon,


PS ...Please note that our meet-ups are for adults only unless stated. We realise many of our members have children, but this group was started for people to socialize and network in an adult environment. Adding children to the mix, no matter how wonderful and amazing they are, will always change the dynamic of a group to some extent, and for some this is the only 'adult only' socialising they may have in their busy week.

Upcoming events (3)

🎺Synthony🎻- Electronic Dance Music and Light Show🎇

Spark Arena

Elemental AKL presents Synthony
** please buy your ticket once they become available ** https://synthony.com/auckland-2021/

Following the sell-out success of last year’s spectacular Synthony show, this euphoric dance event returns to Auckland for one night only.

Combining the immersive joy of electronic dance music with a spectacular light and laser show as well as the richness of a full orchestra, this is a magical and uplifting dance party experience.

A very special collaboration between orchestra, DJs, live vocalists and stellar musicians, Synthony features some of the best-loved dance tracks of the last 30 years - music that’s guaranteed to make you move.

This year also sees a new musical director taking up the baton, with Dick Johnson promising to deliver a fresh, transcendent version of the show fans already know and love.

With its roots firmly in Aotearoa, Synthony showcases local culture and heritage as it takes party-goers on an inspiring and uplifting orchestral journey.


Will update event once tickets go on sale, or register here >>

When: Fri 17 Sep 2021, 6pm
Where: Spark Arena, 42-80 Mahuhu Crescent, Auckland
Ticket Information: TBC but will be around $99.00 +fees

Vegetarian/Vegan Lunch

Fo Guang Shan Buddhist Temple

Update 6 Oct 2021: This event will be postponed to October next year to celebrate World Vegetarian Month 2022

Update 4 Oct 2021: Following today's government announcement, this event is likely to be postponed to a later date.

As at 19 Sep 2021: Event date time and other details to be finalised at Alert Level 2

Lunch at the Water Drop Cafe of Fo Guang Shan Buddhist Temple, which has a completely vegetarian/vegan menu. Optional stroll around the tranquil temple grounds (and maybe also a visit to the small art gallery) afterwards.

Please adhere to temple staff enforcements including scanning in and masking.

Outerfields 2021

Western Springs Park

NEW DATE OF Saturday 3 December 2022


More information/updated information to come...


Outerfields2021 opens its gates for a 12 hour long dose of Aotearoa sounds and good times on Saturday 6 March 2021 at the central city Outer Fields at Western Springs.

The event proudly boasts an incredible live music lineup headlined by BENEE and Fat Freddy’s Drop along with premium food, bars and art. The day promises to cater to music fans of all stripes, mixing many of this country’s most acclaimed musical exports alongside the freshest names on the scene.

Like BENEE and Fat Freddy’s Drop; Aldous Harding, The Beths, Ladyhawke and Montell2099 have all had substantial international plans curtailed in 2020. Church & AP, Paige and Harper Finn have taken the chance to shine in the past few months and will be ready to fly when the borders open again.

The Outer Fields at Western Springs launched as a premier outdoor venue for the last Big Day Out and Auckland City Limits. Few who were there will forget sets by Snoop Dogg, Major Lazer and of course Grace Jones. The wide open green fields and treelined slopes have also hosted Mumford & Sons, Billy Idol and more in recent times.

Outerfields2021 runs for a full day, with more than 12 hours of music from gates at 10.30am till 11pm. The event is GA, all ages, and fully licensed with abundant food trucks and Auckland cuisine on offer amongst local artist installations, complementing the local sounds in the suburb.

All this goodness for an Early Bird ticket price of just $99.

Limited Early Bird Tickets go on sale at 12pm on Monday 16 November from ticketmaster.co.nz.

Vodafone customers can be the first to secure tickets during the Vodafone pre-sale from 12pm on Monday 9 November til 12pm on Wednesday 11 November.
Go to vodafone.co.nz/music.
Vodafone is an official partner of Outerfields2021.

Outerfields2021 is proud to support the work of MusicHelps, our partner charity. MusicHelps financially supports entities that use the power of music to change the lives of New Zealanders in need, and provides emergency assistance to kiwi music people experiencing extreme hardship and illness. Through its MusicHelpsLive campaign, MusicHelps has helped and continues to help people and businesses in the New Zealand live music community whose livelihoods have been shattered by the Covid-19 pandemic crisis.

PS: Due to Covid-19 protocols, Outerfields2021 has a firm postponement date of 4 December 2021 if the event needs to be rescheduled due to the Covid-19 pandemic.

Event Summary
Gates open at 10.30am and the event concludes at 11pm.

Photographic devices with detachable lens and/or lens larger than a standard watch face are prohibited. Bag size restrictions apply

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