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Update on Polyamorous Floralia Party: May 4 : Berkeley

From: Dave D.
Sent on: Monday, April 29, 2013 10:29 PM

Hi Folks,

This is an update on the Polyamorous Floralia party,(what other kind of Floralia party could there be?) will be happening May 4, (Sat) in Berkeley, 6:30 PM -10:30 PM.

We're are COMPLETELY over quota for single males, but can still take single females, couples,triads and other configurations.

The ceremonial Floralia "decorating of the women" will start as early as 6:30 PM. This is strictly voluntary, and involves flowers being placed the lady's hair (or elsewhere) as she may request. Various species of flowers which symbolically represent various styles of polyamory/consensual non-monogamy will be provided, and each person may choose to be adorned with the flower and associated love style with which they have the most affinity. Flowers provided to males also upon request as well. This whole thing was great fun last year, so we're doing it again.



We will need to see valid Photo Id from all people who attend.

We will have to limit the number of single males this time. This does not mean that no single males will be allowed, only that we will be limiting the number. Priority will be given to those who attend in the company of one or more females, with single males permitted on a space-available basis. [Given the number of single males last time who did things like RVSP as a couple but showed up alone, RVSP pretending to be a female but were actually male, etc., or otherwise violated the rules, this policy will be much more STRICTLY enforced
from now on].

We plan to have at least one male erotic-exotic dancer and one female exotic- erotic dancer dancer. (Exactly how far they will strip down has not been determined yet, but they will be hot!!!!!!!! STILL NO CONFIRMATION From anuy of the dancers YET]

We also hope to have several professional massage folks who will be offering free "FLORALIA" massages for female attendees. (We can't absolutely guarantee this, but we're trying hard. We should have at least one, and possibly more, massages tables going. Massage is respectful and gentle, and person receiving it decides what regions of the body are to be massaged and how. (So far, this offer only extends to FEMALE attendees).


(Note we are officially ending at 10:30 PM. Permission to stay after 10:30 PM will be selectively granted on a limited and invitation-only basis).

The event is guaranteed G-rated until 8:30 PM.

This does not necessarily mean it will degenerate into a wild orgy, but simply that a G-rating is not guaranteed after 8:30 PM.

Male Exotic/erotic dancers go on at about 9:00 PM.
[Ladies, please DO be respectful of these guys this time!]Female dancer is tentatively scheduled to begin about 9:30 PM.

We shall being having the structured "PUPPY PILE" again THIS TIME. Plan is to do this starting about 10:15 or so.

PLEASE do NOT bring expensive jewlerly, prize possessions etc., and please keep track of your own purses, wallets, and other valuables, for the hosts cannot and will not be responsible if they are lost, stolen, eaten by trolls or otherwise vanish.

If you get into an altercation or conflict with some one else at the party, no matter how minor, don't attempt to resolve it yourself, but instead notify the host immediately.

Please observe the "no-nudity outside the house" policy this time.

As before, primarily due to the concerns about laundry, no exchange of bodily fluids is permitted in the South Room during the puppy pile nor at other times, but other arrangements can possibly be made upon request for those interested in crimes against nature. It is important to follow this rule - soplease do!! And remember the main rules of puppy piles (and the entire party) is: Ask AND get approval BEFORE you touch anybody: No means No; Don't means DON'T and Stop means STOP! Be RESPECTFUL!

PRIME DIRECTIVE #1:: Participation in ALL activities are strictly on a
voluntary basis. (NO PUSHINESS ALLOWED!)

PRIME DIRECTIVE #2:: Anyone acting like an asshole will be unceremoniously ejected.

Please RSVP if you are planning to attend. Exact directions and location will be provided to those who RSVP.


Because of the chronic piss-poor luck we'd getting volunteers to show up to help with setup for 2 hours on Saturday, roughly 4-6 PM, we have finally abandoned all hope of getting volunteers for this task, and are instead trying to hire a paid crew to handle the task. So this month. Anyone interested in the job?


We are requesting a clean-up donation of $6 per person from all attendees, with the amount to go towards hiring a professional crew to do what is necessary for set up and clean up after the party.

RSVP to:

[address removed]

[This means RVSP to this email address. Pressing a button or clicking on Fetlife icon is not going to do it]

See you on MAY 4 : (SATURDAY) !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


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