What we're about

The mission of our group is to encourage individuals to find their true purpose with dating and relationships and to also help couples grow together and achieve love and happiness in their partnerships. Let's go!

This is only possible by growing inside-out and by connecting with our true self - which brings us back to self-work, self-care and awareness of who we really are!

We are looking for like-minded people who are passionate about exploring and creating truth in relationships that work. We believe that the most successful model for a relationship is a “partnership!”

A partnership is a victory of the human spirit! Neither women nor men default to a partnership. A partnership is always a choice. We are here to help you make the right choice for you!

Previous negative experiences often impact people who want to start dating again. They are looking for love and connection but are restricted by fears, disappointments, pain, and self-doubt. This kind of thought process causes a person to live in the past and thus creates a future for themselves based on that self-doubt. We are here to help you change that!

In order to approach dating and relationships with a healthier mindset, it's important to ask: What do I need to understand about myself before I start to look for another person in my life?

It all starts here, at Best Self: Dating & Relationships.


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Upcoming events (1)

Tantra: The Art of Conscious Connection for couples



Would you like to spend some quality time with your partner while learning how to enhance your intimacy and sex?

Tantric tools for conscious connection can open doors to exciting discoveries, and long-lasting transformations in your intimate life, no matter if you are single, have been married for a long time, or just started dating!

We invite you to spend fun, relaxing evening filled with discussions, meditations, guided activities, and meaningful communication games while learning how to be more conscious, connected, and present to your partner.

*This is an all levels event suitable for beginners.

*All activities are clothes-on, and always optional. This means that you are encouraged to exercise your choices and honor your boundaries on how and if you'd like to participate in each.


In person.

Open to all genders and sexual orientations

Open for couples.*

*To attend as an individual, you will need to find a practice buddy (and register together) or to sign up to our waiting list.

Please email Zhanna at [masked] if you have any questions, or to inquire about participating as a single


"This year one of my biggest targets is to continue to deepen the spiritual connection with my wife. Your workshop was very much the pathway to achieving that target. Last night was a massive breakthrough not only in what I want in my marriage, but what I've been hunting for my entire life. What we've learned enabled us to start refreshing the connection we have to each other in a whole new way! "

"I am very excited about the potential that Tantra brought for both me, and my wife! The exercises that you taught us have been energizing and have created a stronger connection between us!"

"Working with Zhanna opened up new possibilities and ways of connecting that I never knew were possible!!! I recommend this for happy, satisfied couples as well as new couples!!"​


$70 (per couple or couple of friends) BEFORE NOVEMBER 1st

$90 (per couple or couple of friends) AFTER NOVEMBER 1st

*The space is limited to 10 couples

PLEASE PURCHACE YOUR TICKETS AT LEAST 24 hours before the event. There will be no walk-ins.


Zhanna R Lee is a Certified Tantra Educator and Holistic Intimacy Coach. She works with singles and couples in the area of intimacy and sex using modalities including Tantra, Reiki, sensate focus, WOC®. You can learn more about her here:



The address is 216 R Newton St #2B, 2nd Floor, Waltham, MA 02453. (We are in the same building as Watch City Kitchens). Parking is on the right side of the building.


Best Self Studio is a unique place that unites individuals who want to connect and grow with like-minded people. Our events, workshops and classes are designed to expand people's potential and give new perspectives in life.

Our work is based on such things as:- self-love and self-acceptance- conscious dating and relationships- positive energy and abundance- healthy lifestyle- healing arts

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