What we're about

This meetup group is for women who are interested in connecting to others in a real, raw and authentic way. While so many meetups are about teaching you something outside yourself, we will learn about what is going on inside ourselves and those we love for a deeper and more complete level of intimacy and connection.

Please be truly open minded and honest.

Upcoming events (4)

Dom(me) 101 & Power Exchange All Gender Experience

Address sent upon registration

Are you curious about power exchange and don’t know where to start?

Have you been in a power exchange dynamic before and are finding it hard to explain to or incorporate with a new partner?

Is it time to try something new to spice up your time in the bedroom?

If you answered yes to any of these questions, then this event is for you!

Hi! I’m Nikki, aka Mistress Ivana. I’ve been an erotic facilitator for 15 years, and one of the roles I hold is Dominatrix.

I will be explaining the basics of setting up a scene, basic safety, and how to work with energy and head space to maximize your playtime.

Topics may include (and are not limited to):

  • Techniques for connecting with your partner and getting into headspace (Dom or sub) quickly
  • Communication tools based on the wheel of consent
  • How to craft a scene
  • Role Play
  • Various kinks and fetishes

This is a sober event, so please refrain from indulging in any recreational intoxication.

Individuals of all genders, sexual orientations, and lifestyle choices are welcomed and encouraged to join.

What to wear:

  • The entire evening is clothing optional, so dress up, dress sexy, and wear layers to get as n@ked as you like😊
  • Fetish attire is encouraged - and - it should be easy to move in as much of the play space is on cushions on the floor

What to bring:

  • Towels and washcloths to put underneath you

Optional:

  • Condoms
  • Gloves
  • Lube
  • Massage oil
  • A robe or sarong should you desire a quick cover-up.
  • Toys and tools – kink is encouraged, and all sensation play items are more than welcome
  • A snack or non-alcoholic beverage to share

Schedule

8:00 Doors open

8:30 pm Doors close. No late entry is permitted. Please arrive as close to 8 as possible in order to bring in your items and get settled in the space.

First, we will open the evening with a welcome circle where we will discuss boundaries, desires, safety, and etiquette in the play space.

Next, this will be followed by an interactive lecture full of demonstrations showing what power exchange might look like and how to have a scene, as well as exercises for you to practice and embody power exchange with others.

Third, we will have open time to play and explore with each other. All can participate to their own comfort level – and voyeurism is participation😊

Last, we will finish with a closing circle for integration and grounding.

11:30 pm closing circle

12 midnight - Event Close

Tickets at https://events.humanitix.com/dom-me-101-and-power-exchange-all-gender-erotic-experience

Super Early Bird Registration thru 4/1/23
$49 single
$69 pairs

Early Bird Registration thru 4/8/23
$69 single
$99 pairs

Regular Price
$99 single
$139 pair

You will receive a link short intake form when you register for the purpose of co-creating the best experience for all involved. It will give you a chance to share any questions or concerns you have in advance as well as express any special accommodations you may prefer. You will be required to fill this out in order to receive the address of the event.

There are some sliding scale and scholarship tickets available to people who would like to help with set up, clean up, and holding space. If you are interested in being on the team, please text Nikki at[masked]

About your facilitator

♥ Sxx Coach Nikki has 15 years of experience professionally working in the erotic arts. Wearing many different hats, she has helped thousands of people experience more pleasure through private sessions and classes. While her experience in the field is prodigious, she also has the education to back it up as a Sexological Bodyworker, Orgasmic Meditation Trainer, Desire Based Life Coach, and Energetic Sxx Facilitator. She is currently one year away from earning her Bachelor of Psychology. In addition to her professional experience and education, she also brings her personal experience of living various lifestyles, including monogamous marriage, swinging, polyamory, and lifestyle dom/sub/switch. www.NikkiLundberg.com

Art of An@l Pleasure Experience - Tantra, Lecture, Demo, Practice

An@l pleasure done right is definitely an art!

Are you the type of person that if you are going to do something, you want to make sure you are doing it right?

Are you (or do you wish you were) a curious and adventurous person in the bedroom?

Would you rather get guidance from an expert practitioner and teacher to acquire new skills quickly?

Do you enjoy meeting like-minded people and learning in an open and accepting atmosphere?

Then this is the event for you!

Couples, Singles and Poly-pods are welcome. This class will cover everything from the basics for total beginners to advanced information that will be useful for professional full-body sensual massage providers.

Schedule

1:30 pm - Doors open.
2:00 - Event begins. Doors are locked. No late arrivals are allowed.
5:30 - Event ends

We will open with a tantric ritual where you will learn about and experience tapping into your energetic body, individually and with a partner.

The class consists of 3 sections:

Section 1: Preparation

  • Addressing and releasing body shame
  • Communication techniques for connection
  • How to clean the rectal area and prepare the body for an@l stimulation
  • Safer sex practices (lube review, glove use, how to handle health issues like pain and hemorrhoids)

Section 2: Manual Stimulation Interactive Lecture and Demonstration

  • Erot!c massage techniques for connection, relaxation, and arousal
  • How to find the prostate/sacred spot and massage (milk) it
  • Pleasure mapping of the pelvic floor
  • How to work with trauma and pain
  • Pelvic floor massage for therapeutic relief of tight hips and groin area

Section 3: An@l Sxx Interactive Lecture and Demonstration

  • How to pick out and put on a strap-on
  • Various positions for anal penetration
  • Anal training

Registration

Includes:

  • Full-color digital packet with all the information presented during the evening
  • A self-reflection tool that will prepare you to get the most out of this event. This is a 10-20 minute exercise of revealing questions and prompts for you to learn more about yourself. This will also help Nikki customize the experience for those attending (completion is required for attendance). Complete confidentiality will be used for all individuals.
  • Post-event integration tools for your holistic erotic experience (guided meditation and journal prompts for you to anchor what you learn and help it sink into your life)

Register at https://events.humanitix.com/art-of-an-l-pleasure-tantra-or-health-and-well-being-or-live-demonstration

Super Early Bird Registration thru 4/1/23
$49 single
$69 pairs

Early Bird Registration thru 4/8/23
$69 single
$99 pairs

Regular Price
$99 single
$139 pair

BONUS

10% off the evening temple party 
https://events.humanitix.com/temple-party-w-sxx-coach-nikki

What you will need to bring:

Optional: a snack &/or beverage to share during the breaks

What to wear:
Wear what you are comfortable in, and also makes you feel good looking. You are encouraged to dress in layers that can be shed according to your comfort level. Workout clothes, pajamas, and lingerie are all acceptable, but no nudity by participants is allowed. There will be nudity for the demonstrations.

There are some sliding scale and scholarship tickets available to people who would like to help with set up, clean up, and holding space. If you are interested in being on the team, please text Nikki at[masked]

About your facilitator
♥ Sxx Coach Nikki has 15 years of experience professionally working in the erot!c arts. Wearing many different hats, she has helped thousands of people experience more pleasure through private sessions and classes. While her experience in the field is prodigious, she also has the education to back it up as a Sxxological Bodyworker, Orgasmic Meditation Trainer, Desire Based Life Coach, and Energetic Sxx Facilitator. She is currently one year away from earning her Bachelor of Psychology. In addition to her professional experience and education, she also brings her personal experience of living various lifestyles, including monogamous marriage, swinging, polyamory, and lifestyle dom/sub/switch. www.NikkiLundberg.com

An@l Education Videos by Sxx Coach Nikki
https://youtube.com/playlist_an@ledu

Temple Party w/ Sxx Coach Nikki

Address sent upon registration

Are you tired of “lifestyle” parties full of meaningless interactions?

Do you wish there were better standards of communication and consent?

Are you ready to meet like-minded people who know there is more to sxx and intimacy than simply f*cking?

Then this Temple Party is the event for you!

This event is focused on communication, connection, and consent while maintaining an erot!c and playful atmosphere.

There will be an opening circle, ice breaker exercises, and a closing circle to support you in leaving feeling good and connected versus empty and confused.

This is a great event for experienced tantra practitioners, swingers, kinksters, and newbies alike, as all levels of interaction are welcome - verbal, energetic, sensual, kinky, and sxxual. Voyeurism and exhibitionism are welcome. You can come by yourself or with a partner. You can play by yourself, with a partner, with a group, or not at all. There is a lot to gain from simply being in an erot!c space.

This is a sober event, so please refrain from indulging in any recreational intoxication.

Individuals of all genders, sxxual orientations, and lifestyle choices are welcomed and encouraged to join.

What to wear:

  • The entire evening is clothing optional, so dress up, dress sexy, and wear layers to get as naked as you like😊

What to bring:

  • Towels and washcloths to put underneath you

Optional:

  • Condoms
  • Gloves
  • Lube
  • Massage oil
  • A robe or sarong should you desire a quick cover up.
  • Toys and tools – kink is encouraged, and all sensation play items are more than welcome
  • A snack or non-alcoholic beverage to share

Schedule:

8:00 Doors open
8:30 pm Doors close. No late entry is permitted. Please arrive as close to
8:10 as possible in order to bring in your items and get settled in the space.

We begin with an opening circle. Learn about consent, boundaries, and communicating your desire.

Then, we will have Tantric flavored ice breaker exercises to set the tone of sensuality and connection.

11:30 pm closing circle

12 midnight - Event Close

Tickets:
Register at: https://events.humanitix.com/temple-party-w-sex-coach-nikki

Super Early Bird Registration thru 4/1/23
$49 single
$69 pairs

Early Bird Registration thru 4/8/23
$69 single
$99 pairs

Regular Price
$99 single
$139 pair

You can get 10% off if you register for the Art of Anal Pleasure at
https://events.humanitix.com/art-of-an-l-pleasure-tantra-or-health-and-well-being-or-live-demonstration

There are some sliding scale and scholarship tickets available to people who would like to help with set up, clean up, and holding space. If you are interested in being on the team, please text Nikki at[masked]

About your facilitator

♥ Sxx Coach Nikki has 14 years of experience professionally working in the erotic arts. Wearing many different hats, she has helped thousands of people experience more pleasure through private sessions and classes. While her experience in the field is prodigious, she also has the education to back it up as a Sexological Bodyworker, Orgasmic Meditation Trainer, Desire Based Life Coach, and Energetic Sxx Facilitator. She is currently one year away from earning her Bachelor of Psychology. In addition to her professional experience and education, she also brings her personal experience of living various lifestyles, including monogamous marriage, swinging, polyamory, and lifestyle dom/sub/switch. www.NikkiLundberg.com

April Snugglefest and Communication Workshop

Las Vegas

Experience a snugglefest!

Come join us for a 3-hour event focusing on communication and non-sexual touch. Meet other people in the community in a welcoming, authentic, and caring environment while you learn and practice connection and communication skills.

What is the snugglefest?

A snugglefest is a safe space to engage in non-sexual touch while practicing open communication and maintaining personal boundaries. It is a place to learn and practice communicating around touch and asking for what we want, being vulnerable with our wants and needs, honoring our own emotions, experiences, and boundaries, and respecting those of others. It is also a place we can develop a new way of seeing rejection as an honoring of someone else’s desires and boundaries. You can come to the snugglefest to meet new people, to have a great conversation, or just to cuddle!

Some skills you may learn or practice at the snugglefest:

♥ Connecting in an authentic way
♥ Asking for your wants and needs
♥ Identifying and expressing your boundaries
♥ Hearing a no and respecting others’ boundaries
♥ Saying no to what you don’t want and yes to what you do
♥ Finding your voice
♥ Honoring your own emotions
♥ Developing a new relationship with rejection
♥ Communicating in a compassionate way

Schedule:

8 pm - doors open. Please try to arrive by 8:15 so you have time to come in and get settled.

8:30 - doors close. No late entry is permitted.

Opening circle and mini-workshop where we will discuss and practice communicating desires, boundaries, and expectations.

Freestyle cuddle

10:45 - closing circle

What to wear:

Comfortable clothing like pajamas or exercise clothes

What to bring:

• A snack or non-alcoholic beverage to share (water will be provided)

What not to bring:

• Fragrances - some are sensitive to strong fragrance
• Alcohol - this is a sober event
• Pets
• Anyone under 18 - adults only

Covid Protocols:

Please do not attend if you are feeling unwell or have been exposed to covid. There is not a requirement for vaccination or antibody status. You are attending at your own risk. If you would like to wear a mask you are welcome to but they will not be required. Hand soap and sanitizer will be amply available throughout the venue.

Location:

This event will be held in a central location in Las Vegas. The address will be sent upon registration.

Register at https://events.humanitix.com/april-snugglefest-and-communication-workshop

Early bird (until 4/14 at midnight) $25 per person

Regular price starting 4/15: $35 per person

This event will be somewhat gender-balanced.

If you see your ticket type sold out please sign up for the wait-list.

If you need a scholarship or would like to volunteer to assist please send
Nikki a text to inquire at[masked]

Past events (230)

Temple Party w/ Sxx Coach Nikki

Address sent upon registration