There has been a request to discuss the difference between the Traits of and what Disordered means in relation to NPD.
Also, we can discuss Boundaries as viewed by Shahida Arabi, MA
B - elieve in your own worth
O - wn your agency
U - nderstand your core values
N - ame your nonnegotiables
D - eal-breakers - know them
A - ssert without apologies
R - einforce and repeat if challenged
I - mplement practically and safely
E - xit when not respected
S - ave yourself and prioritize your self-care
As per the usual, we will likely get off topic as the conversation progresses, but it is good starting point.