Cuddle Events - SoCal

What and Where
A playful workshop for cuddle enthusiasts
Pasadena, CA

Pay and Register Here:
Eventbrite

How It Works
This is a social event with an opening circle and get-to-know-you with each other and then onto learning about consent and boundaries around touch! No touch is required and you can change your mind at any time. The exercises are designed for all to feel relaxed and feel comfortable saying 'yes' and 'no' to different types of touch and you may feel a sense camaraderie and friendship within the circle followed by compassion and a sense of well-being. Anyone can leave at any time and speaking for what you want and don't want is highly encouraged.

Health Guidelines
Please do not attend if you feel sick, off, like you may be coming down with something contagious. You may cancel for a refund or a credit for a future event, thank you taking care of all of us. Be advised this is a cat friendly venue.

Event Schedule
Doors open at 6:45 pm for socializing and getting seated/relaxed/snacks
The Opening Circle starts at 7:00 pm sharp, there will be no entry after 7:15
Please note that no entries will be allowed after the event starts so make sure you consider traffic, parking, weather, or anything else that may lead to a late arrival. Doors close for good at 7:15
Relaxation Exercises, Connection Activities, Cuddle Laboratory
9:45 Closing Circle

What to Wear?
Comfortable soft clothing like yoga pants, sweats, T-shirts, pajamas - if you need to change there is a restroom available to do so. Attendees must wear a minimum of mid-thigh shorts and a tank top. Hygiene is super important for getting close so please show up squeaky clean and free of smoke odors.
Please do not wear cologne or perfume ~ thank you for understanding

Event Guidelines
We will go over each of these in the workshop but here are some basics:
*No touch is required and you can change your mind at any time
*Respect your boundaries and the boundaries of others, ideally with enthusiasm
*Keep any touch rated G and chatter rated PG-13
*We will practice Ask and Wait when it comes to touch; if you want to touch someone, ask and then wait for the answer!
*Respect the confidentiality of other attendees

How Much Does It cost?
$45 per person (adults over 18 only) day of event, $40 for Early Birds (see Eventbrite for dates and pricing)

Eventbrite

Pay and Register Here:
Eventbrite

Parking
Parking is free on the street, some spots are time limited so watch the signs. The side street is best for unlimited time. If you have mobility issues with stairs, please message me for preferred parking

Cancellation
You may cancel up to 24 hours before the event for a refund or credit (less Eventbrite charges)
And if you find that you are not feeling well you can have a refund or credit any time

What do I Bring?
You are welcome to bring a pillow or blanket that is snuggly (although we will have some there), stuffies, your own water although some snacks and refreshments will be available including water. Brings snacks of your own if you like - no alcohol, please

Accessibility
My goal is to make Community Cuddles with Mare as accessible as possible so I offer preferred parking (very limited) to those who have more need for it or are unable to use stairs. I have plenty of surfaces for people to sit and lay down on and if you don't want to be on the floor, you don't have to! Please let me know if you have any special accommodations that you would like me know about - mare@pasadenahealingtouch.com

The Event Leader
My name is Mare with Pasadena Healing Touch and I am a Professional Cuddler, Reiki Practitioner, and Cuddle Sanctuary certified event leader in the San Gabriel valley area of Los Angeles! My goal is to bring accessible touch to more people who want more connection and to feel the closeness that these events bring, giving a warm sense of satisfaction. Cuddling and closeness is scientifically proven to improve mental health, lower blood pressure, help improve sleep and provide the feel-good chemicals that help to regulate our bodies.

To register and secure your spot, click here https://soulvision.as.me/Cuddle

Join us for our empowering half-day retreat designed to nurture your mind, body, and soul through the healing power of setting boundaries while exploring consensual platonic touch and connection. In our welcoming, judgment-free environment, you'll experience the joy of discovering your boundaries and deciding whether you want to give or receive nurturing touch.
What to Expect: This event features an opening circle, relaxation activities, communication exercises, cuddle etiquette, a cuddle lab, and a closing circle.
What to Wear: Comfortable snuggling attire like cozy pajamas, cotton shirts, sweatpants, or leggings. You can change clothes on arrival. Please arrive clean and free of fragrances, colognes, or cigarette smoke—some participants have sensitive noses.
Guidelines:

• Keep attendance confidential unless permission is granted.
• No touch is required; you can change your mind anytime.
• Respect boundaries enthusiastically.
• Keep interactions Rated G and conversations PG-13.
• Ask and wait for consent before touching someone.

What to Bring: A pillow, blanket, and a healthy snack to share (if you feel called).
Intoxicants: Arrive sober and stay sober. The natural high from oxytocin—"the hug hormone"—will do the rest.
Accessibility: Most activities occur on floor cushions.

Pricing - Get your tickets early for soulful savings https://soulvision.as.me/Cuddle
Super Early bird $45 (Coupon GETCOZY1)
Early bird $55 (Coupon GETCOZY2)
Week of $65

For questions day of event, contact Jules 562-682-5556.

A soft place to land during your holiday weekend; rest, renew and refresh in kind community.

Welcome to The Cuddle Sanctuary - for newcomers and seasoned cuddlers alike. First timers are amazed at how safe they feel. Boundaries are not just respected, but celebrated.

By the end, expect to feel supported, deeply relaxed, and connected.

Register here: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/thanksgiving-weekend-the-cuddle-sanctuary-tickets-1748795617769

What are the Health Guidelines?
Please skip this event if you're feeling "off" or may be contagious. You can cancel and get a refund or credit for a future event. Thanks in advance for taking care of our community!

How Does It Work?
We begin with a welcome circle, easy relaxation activities and communication exercises. The event culminates in a voluntary “cuddle lab”. Touch is always consensual, and never a requirement to participate.

Newcomers, please fill out our Release Form and review the Event Guidelines. (Might as well do it now!)

At this event, you may experience an increased sense of well-being and belonging, a boost in compassion, a decrease in blood pressure and a better night’s sleep. And you can leave at any time for any reason. : - )

At this event, you may experience an increased sense of well-being and belonging, a boost in compassion, a decrease in blood pressure and a better night’s sleep. And you can leave at any time for any reason. : - )

What's the Schedule?
1:45 Doors Open
Note: Please be sure to give yourself time to park, arrive and join the opening activities. Doors close at 2:10pm.
2:10 Welcome Circle, Thanksgiving Inspired Relaxation Exercises, Connection Activities, Optional Cuddle Laboratory
4:40 Closing Circle

What Do I Wear?
Dress in clothes that are comfortable for snuggling. Think soft, cozy pajamas, cotton t-shirts, sweatpants, leggings. Tank tops and shorts are fine (and that is the minimum clothing requirement).

If you can arrive already in your cuddly clothing, that would be super. (That will minimize the line to the bathroom!)

Hygiene is important at cuddles – it’s easier to get close that way. Please come free of perfumes, body wash, or colognes.

What Are Some Event Guidelines?
-There’s no touch required, and you can change your mind at any time.
-Respect your boundaries and the boundaries of others, ideally with enthusiasm.
-Keep any touch Rated G and use the Ask and Wait Method: If you want to touch someone, ask. Then wait for their answer!
-Respect the confidentiality of others attendees

Parking
Follow the underground ramp which will lead you to two levels of free underground parking. Walk to the center of the lot where you can take the stairs or ride up the elevator to the top floor.

How Much Does It Cost?
Super Early Bird: $45 (until Nov. 14th or until we run out of these tickets, whichever is sooner)
Early Bird: $55
Day of Event: $65
Pay it Forward: $80 (This price supports the offering below)
Community Care: $30 If this is the highest price you can comfortably afford, please choose it with our compliments.

What if I Need to Cancel?
You can cancel up to 24 hours before the event for any reason and get a refund (less the fees that Eventbrite charges).

And if you’re not feeling well and concerned you may be contagious, we will credit or refund you.

What Do I Bring?
A water bottle would be great. We'll have tea and healthy options to snack on. If you'd like to bring a treat, feel free. (No alcohol, please.)
To increase the square footage of our cuddle space, bring along a yoga mat and blanket if you have them handy. (If it's not convenient for you to bring these things - no worries - just bring yourself.)

Intoxicants
Please arrive and remain sober throughout the event. You may find yourself getting a natural high on oxytocin – often called the Hug Hormone.

Getting Up and Down
Our event space is covered with cushions on the floor and most of our exercises are on these cushions. We'll have some chairs available, too. If you are concerned about your ability to be included in this event, please contact me to discuss accommodation at CuddleSanctuary@gmail.com.

Who's Leading This Event?
I'm Jean Franzblau – AKA Cuddle Queen Jean , and I'm the Founder of Cuddle Sanctuary which has hosted hundreds of cuddle events since 2014. I've studied facilitation with Cuddle Party and the Association of Talent Development.

I've trained with Dr. Betty Martin who teaches the Wheel of Consent and appeared as a cuddle expert on Dr. Phil, BuzzFeed, Keeping Up the Kardashians, The Bachelorette and Rolling Stone. As far as schooling, I graduated cum laude from UCLA with a BA in Communications. I proudly give presentations to universities to teach students about boundaries and consent. You can find my writing in the Consent Guidebook. Find out more at CuddleSanctuary.com.

Got Any Reviews About These Events?
Being immersed in this world, I'm totally biased about my cuddle events! So let these Yelp reviewers do the talking:

“It was hard for me to wrap my head around what a "cuddle" was and why it would "change my life" but that's exactly what happened. As a single mom and full time caregiver for my disabled child, I had truly stopped taking care of me. Coming to these cuddle nights was the best advice I ever took!”

“This place is an amazing, safe, nurturing container for platonic touch and cuddling...It is a very well run program based on respect, consent and connection. Everyone was warm and friendly and I was completely welcome and comfortable. I'm counting the days to my next workshop.”

I'm a Woman or Nonbinary Person - Got Any Tips for Me?
Yes! Here's a guide for attending cuddle events.

I'm Concerned About Gender Balancing - Got Any Advice?
Check out my blog on this very subject for tips, ideas and strategies to make the most of your experience.

Community Guidelines
1. Before meeting up with or reaching out to someone you’ve just met at an event, give yourself and that person a few days without contact for your “cuddle chemicals” to settle. Consider five days as a good time frame.
2. Once that time has passed, if you want to hang out with someone socially, and the other person says “No thanks,” be gracious and move on.
3. If you experience an issue with a person during an event, speak with them about it if you feel safe to do so.
4. If need be, you can contact the event leader who may put together a Community Care Team to help resolve the issue with a restorative justice process.
5. Any type of discrimination or harassment is prohibited.
Here's Cuddle Sanctuary 's Code of Ethics.

Register here: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/thanksgiving-weekend-the-cuddle-sanctuary-tickets-1748795617769

Land Acknowledgement
This event is located on the unceded lands of the Tongva, Gabrielino, and Kizh peoples. You can discover whose land you’re on by visiting this site.

How Can We Be In Touch?
FB: @ CuddleSanctuary
IG: @CuddleSanctuary
Jean@CuddleSanctuary.com

When Are Other Cuddle Events Happening in Southern California?
Here's a calendar: https://tinyurl.com/LAcuddles