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This is the central group in the Washington D.C. regional area for transgender women, cross dressers, and transsexuals and their partners, families, allies, and friends to network, learn, grow, and come together socially in safe, trans friendly venues. So whatever interests or needs that you have as a trans lady, you should be able to find it in joining us here.  However, we do not accept Admirers as members though they are welcome to events noted as such.

On this trans women Community site, the different trans groups in the metro area post their events and activities here as do individual members who are going out or hosting events.  Below is a photo of one of our recent community-wide Soirees which we hold regularly at the Marriott hotel Lounge at Fair Oaks in Fairfax.  The broad range of social and intellectual events are wonderful opportunities to dress up and have fun, socialize, build friendships, share, explore, expand, and celebrate our femininity together in safe and enjoyable settings.

It is also an opportunity to discover and integrate your feminine side, and learn about cross dressing, being bi-gender, or transsexual.  We offer trainings and support so that you can begin making strides in developing and comfortably expressing your natural feminine side.

It is our orientation that the more often we come out and socialize together, the more comfortable and confident we become in integrating these parts of our selves.

As such, these events are for those who are passable and not so passable, as we all share something precious together in the gender continuum.  Members also offer makeovers and support in learning to dress as a woman.  This is not, however, a group for sex or sexual expression of your feminine side.  

We encourage you to become members here those who are transgender, either emerging cross dressers, bi-gender, or transsexual, as well as our significant others and spouses, any friends and allies.  And come join us in our posted events!

Concerning men admirers, there is a segment of trans ladies who naturally are drawn to a male relationship, so there are many events where it is noted that admirers are invited.  Also the bar and club events listed here put on by tgirlnation ( are public events designed for trans ladies to meet admirers.  And admirers may wish to review members profiles and reach out appropriately to those ladies only that have indicated specific interest in being contacted.  Be careful not to generate complaints.

Our Trans Ladies' events include:

Trans ladies, their partners and friends are invited to join us in monthly Soirees held in safe, lovely locations in the DC area.  Come join us in a relaxed, comfortable setting for socializing and meeting new ladies, group sharing, and discussions.  Alcoholic and non alcoholic drinks and healthy snack foods are available in the Soirees.

You are also invited to join us as we go out to trans friendly restaurants, clubs, and piano lounges with various groups to socialize and mingle together. These events are scheduled during weeknights, Friday and Saturday evenings, and Sunday afternoon get togethers. 

As a member, you can also post here when you are going out to invite others to join in. 

MONICA'S tgirlnation PARTIES! 
Once a month or so, on a Thursday evening we meet at Bar Rouge in DC.  And then on a Saturday evening we have a much larger party where we dress up we take over Tara Temple in Ballston in Arlington.  There is dinner for just us trans ladies and our significant others.  Then at 9:30pm the Party begins and is open to everyone -- friends, admirers, groupies, anyone who loves to be where it is happening.  It goes until...


We also offer the Trans Ladies Finishing School where ladies can come together to develop and practice our skills in feminine poise and movement, discover and try on the best wigs for your facial shape, or address concerns in our community  Let Christine know if you are interested.

We announce support group activities in the metro area including the Northern Virginia Second Friday Peer-Led Gender Support Group. These are free support groups for cross dressers, transgendered ladies, and those considering transitioning full time, and their partners.


We support and announce activities from other local groups who post on our site.


On our site, we offer a community resource of this week’s happenings, members’ experiences, tips, insights, questions, and reviews in areas of interest in our local trans community. Posts go out to all members to keep abreast.

You can check out all of the topics that we cover. They are located in our "Message Boards" listed under "Discussions" along the top banner.

The topics include descriptions and reviews of local transgender groups; local and regional trans friendly bars, clubs, and popular events; information on what wig is best for your facial shape, the best places to buy wigs, buying women’s clothes, large size shoes, jewelry, makeup; a descriptive list of psychotherapists who work with trans ladies; information on electrolysis and laser hair removal; transitioning full time; restroom laws in the metro area. It also include an opportunity for ladies to share their Coming Out stories for validating their experiences.

Be sure to add your experiences, insights, tips, and questions.

We hope you can join us!



If you wish to join our MeetUp, click on "Join Us" below. Then on the Sign Up box that appears, under "Your Real Name," be sure to type in just the feminine first name that you wish to be called on your Profile. Do not use your male first name and last name as those will show up in Google searches.  Also include your photo (it does not need to be a face pic) or a feminine image/ symbol/avatar that expresses your feminine side. 

Note that this is not a site for the sexual expression of your feminine side or for soliciting sexual hook-ups.  So please, no photos or sexual references in your profile.

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