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Welcome to The Original Divorced Separated Widowed Desis W/W/0 Kids-Est.2/2014!

I'm Tony and I created this Original group for divorced or separated or widowed Desis in February 20th, 2014!

You will see other meetup groups with similar names. (Likely copies by ex members. As they say replication is best form of flattery :-)

This is The first and "ORIGINAL" group for Desis who are: "Divorced, Separated, and /or Widowed. " This group is based in Jersey City, NJ and many members are in the tri-state area of NJ NY PA but we are open to potential members from all states across USA joining.

To be a member of this group:

*****You must Be of Desi/Indian Decent or mixed Indian Decent to join this Group*****

I am Tony and I have 100% Sole Custody of my daughter! I know the challenges of being a single parent!

At my ( Tony's ) discretion I will try to ask new members for their valid phone # before accepting them as a new member.

Please Join us to build Deep, Authentic, and Rich Friendships that leave you feeling Breathless knowing others have been or are in the same boat as you. You don't have to be alone! We are here for you because "You Matter" "You Are Special" and "You Deserve to be Happy Again."

If you know of a location you would like to have an event, please send me all the details and I will take the ease of having you post it and will try post it for you if it's a location that will work for the group. I will try to list you as the contact person and members will contact you at the venue when they arrive if I cannot make it. Simply introduce yourself in a professional manner to the arriving members and take multiple group pics and send them to me so I can post them. Seamless, why go thru the hassle of posting an event when it can be done for you. Just give me 1 to 2 weeks notice beforehand to make sure there are no conflicts.

Most people who attend events are repeat attendees. The Reviews speak for themselves! Quality control is #1 in the group to make sure all members are comfortable, aren't being harassed and reached out to by members who they haven't event met to circumvent the designed "Meetup process."

Please Keep in mind I don't promote this as a singles group or dating group or matrimonial group in anyway shape or form. It's a support group and you should join for support only and no other expectations.

***Please include a face picture when you join, it must be a clear,close up, in color pic without sunglasses***

We are an Equal opportunity meetup group when it comes to an ex husband or ex wife, and future ex husband and future ex wife joining our meetup group. This means if you are part of this meetup even before your ex wife or ex husband or future ex wife or future ex husband, and they suddenly apply they have a right to join our meetup group and will not be declined or removed because you are here first. Everyone has a right to fair support and a right to make friends. If and ex husband or ex wife or future ex husband or future ex wife was declined in the past or removed in the past, they will be considered to rejoin if they reapply. If you see that your ex husband or ex wife or future ex husband or future ex wife is in this group they will not be removed because you feel uncomfortable. As adults you both can decide which events you both want to come to per comfort or not come to. ( In the 4 years of this group's existence, from what I can tell in my opinion, not many exes have tried to join but it does happen time to time and I wanted to let you know the terms above )

Remember, in my opinion even if 2 exes were not in this Meetup group, they will likely be in another meetup group and chances are, your friends from here may still likely run into and meet your ex. In my opinion this cannot be avoided.

We are also LGBTQ friendly because support is support regardless of your Orientation as long as the member is separated, or divorced, or widowed / widower. No judgements.

Harassment policy: If you receive a private message from a member that you have never met or if you have met and feel uncomfortable with it either way, please simply let them know not to private message you and you rather socialize at events. If they continue private messaging you, you have option to block them and also please take a picture of the continued harassment and send message to me on meetup.

By joining Divorced Separated Widowed Desis USA w/wo Kids Meetup you agree to the following terms.

You understand that during your participation in any Meetup Event or Activity organized by Divorced Separated Widowed Desis USA w/wo Kids Meetup , you may be exposed to risks that include, but are not limited to, the dangers of serious personal injury, property damage, and death (“Injuries and Damages”). You agree to WAIVE, DISCHARGE CLAIMS, AND RELEASE FROM LIABILITY Divorced Separated Widowed Desis USA w/wo Kids Meetup Group and its Organizer(s), Event Host(s) Meetup Organizing Committee,Admin(s) and Leader(s) from any and all liability on account of, or in any way resulting from Injuries and Damages, in any way connected with the Activity you participate in through this meetup. As a member of this Meetup Group, you voluntarily participate in the events and you completely understand, the Meetup Group is not responsible for any damage or injury happens during the event or activity. You further agree to HOLD HARMLESS Divorced Separated Widowed Desis USA w/wo Kids Meetup Group and Organizer(s) leader(s) from any claims, damages, injuries or losses caused by your own negligence while a participant on the Activity or at any meetup event. You understand and intend that this assumption of risk and release is binding upon my heirs, executors, administrators and assigns, and includes any minors accompanying you on the Activity.

Lastly, If you bring approved guests to participate in the event , you agree to take full responsibility of the guests and agree to all above terms and conditions. You acknowledge that you understand that Divorced Separated Widowed Desis USA w/wo Kids Meetup Group is not responsible and liable for any damage, loss, injury , or death that may occur / happen during any of our Meetup events. You are responsible for you and your child(s) if you have any and only you will be responsible. No one else will be responsible. When you attend an event(s) it's thru your own free will.

By signing up for this meetup group or remaining in this meetup group, you agree to all the above. As Organizer of this meetup I have the right to remove you at anytime for any reason.



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