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• What we'll do The Ducklings in Orlando March 29-April 4th 2019 Cost is $690 (USD) for the four day weekend and $1090 the week. Upgraded rooms are more. Flying out of Ogdensburg. It’s the 2nd annual Duckling travel adventure! We are planning a group trip to the clothing optional Secrets Hideaway Resort near Disney in Kissimmee just outside of Orlando. This is not your parents Disney vacation. It’s about fun, sexy pool parties, chasing gators, dancing naked, sunshine, drinks by the pool, volleyball, beach trips, hot tubs, games with other Ducks, a Redneck night, and BBQ’s among so much more. Have a look at the 360 tour of the Secrets resort (www.optiview360.com/secrets) and choose your hotel room (either modest or newly renovated with a variety of interesting additions). Check out the video looking at our day trip to Florida’s largest naturist resort at Cypress Cove (www.cypresscoveresort.com) just down the road. That’s two big resorts and you can wear (or not wear) anything you desire. The trip includes an airboat ride to see the gators in their natural environment. Lake Toho is the headwaters of the Everglades should give you lots of PG pictures to show people at home. We are busy planning events that include a party with the Florida Ducklings, different nature excursions, magical ice cream and so much more! And throughout all this we will be based at the Secrets resort with a full disco, lounging areas, hot tubs, pool, tiki bar, playrooms, and eating area. It’s a 5 duck resort. Please note that it is not a Duckling takeover (unless 200 people sign up) therefore there will be locals and other guests partying with us. We will set up Duckling outdoor areas and indoor rooms and fellow Ducks (as usual) will be well labelled 😊 If you need a getaway with guaranteed warmth and sunshine after a long winter to laugh, sing, dance, drink, sun and play with your Duckling friends then consider booking off March 29-April 4, 2019. If you don't have the holidays we can get you back after an amazing fun-filled four days but encourage you to stay the week. Check out the www.wearetherducklings.com *** It's a 3 part system to book. Sorry for the confusion but the travel part is crazy. Some Ducks have points, some want to drive etc. So we have chunked the trip into 3 parts. Step One 1. Pay your $800 CDND here to cover activities, ground transportation, most of the food, insurance, Duckling extras etc. ***** IF YOU JUST WANT TO COME FOR THE WEEKEND Send an etransfer [masked]. It’s $350. Send us a note and we can help you. [masked] with the hotel. Step Two 2. Call Secrets. (844)[masked] Jessica or the front desk staff and give them your credit card. They can reserve either an upgraded or vintage room. Prices ALL IN including Florida hospitality and sales tax of $445 plus tax total for 6 nights with a regular (or as Barbie calls it "a vintage room") or $710 plus tax USD total for 6 nights in one of the luxury upgraded suites. You can have a look at the different rooms on the Secrets site. (http://www.secretsfl.com) These are per room. If you are single you are welcome to share a room with another single Duck. No guarantees, but we can work to put people together. You will be booking your own transportation. We are posting links on our website for flights. We found flights out of Syracuse (3 hour drive away) with Frontier Airlines for $89 and flights out of Ogdensburg for $59 and $89 respectively. Join your community and have an amazing time! Last year's tag line was "the best vacation ever". Think of summer camp only much, much sexier. And without the mean girls. Hope you can make it! Itinerary is posted on the Duckling site. www.wearetheducklings.com/events. Trip includes admissions, 90% of the food, drinks, transportation, and so much more!
It's FREE for Duck members and $10 for non-members. EVERYONE IS WELCOME! We are back at Absolute Comedy downstairs with three comics. Our Meet and Greets are about connecting (and re-connecting) with each other, learning about Ducklings, and laughing with comedy and creative ice breakers. We always have a great time when we gather and this meet and greet plans to be especially interesting. You have a chance to grab a drink and get to know us all the while laughing your ass off. Coming to a meet and greet also gives us a chance to get to know you. If you are a single guy you HAVE to meet us before you can come to a 4 or 5 Duck event. No need to pre-register, you can pay at the door. Although most meet and greets have been free to members, it's $10 for non-members (which can be applied to your membership if you want to join that night). This event should be a giggle. We have snacks and a fantastic ice breaker along with the comics and community. We are making gingerbread brothels complete with chocolate penises. It's a great way to meet new people. It's for beginner Ducks wanting to get to know us (and each other) but about a third of the group are long-standing Ducklings who simply can't miss an opportunity to connect. We are charging $10 a person if you are NOT a Duckling member. Comedy alone is usually $15. We will also let you apply your entrance fee to your membership on Wednesday if you choose to join us. Here's your opportunity to be warmly welcomed into the gaggle of new friends. We'll have a quick, super-fun icebreaker (they are now a tradition at Duckling events and everyone laughs) and promise it won't be awkward. Come find out if we are your community. Feel the love! Find out more on our website at www.wearetheducklings.com. Looking forward to meeting all the recent new members (and some more seasoned Ducklings). We always have fun, laugh and regularly average 40-60 people. Find out if we are your group! Feel the warm fuzzies and loads of love! ps. check out the website (wearetheducklings.com or our Facebook page) for more details.
Kick off the spring with a Night of the Living Dead! Bring dusty body parts back to life. The zombies are invading Almonte. This house was the location of a real-life triple homicide, and has been the setting of 40 horror movies. This is an amazing location for a zombie party unlike any other! We will have a cuddle area showing Dawn of the Dead (and Shawn of the Dead), there will be brain moulds, zombie music (playlist suggestions are welcome), prosthetic applications, and lots of sexy Ducklings in the building. It's potluck and BYOB and zombie ripped clothing is encouraged but not mandatory. Just come and have fun. It's a 4+++++ bordering on 5 duck rating. There is four acres of spooky woods, and a chance to join the apocalypse. The house is amazing and it will be full-moon Saturday night. Come and howl at the moon with the coolest group in the city. $30 and membership is required.
You can read definitions online of what swinging, or polyamory might be outlined as. But what do they really mean? We have a new non-monogamy course starting later this month. It’s like being in the best class you have ever attended where everyone has read the book and participated. Read below for details. The non-monogamous clients tend to be couples in long-term relationships who don’t want to split up but are desperate for more or different sexual experiences and partners. And there is no one-size fits all. Examples of non-monogamy can be: ~Living with a third (or triad) and how do you deal with that? ~Two couples connecting with each other (quad) ~Heterosexual couple Bringing in an extra male (hot wife) ~Swing clubs where everything from gentle touching on the dance floor to full blown orgies (and everything in between) happens ~Polyamorous. Means to love more than one person. But can be someone who is married and has a girlfriend/boyfriend or more. ~Alternative relationships in all kinds of ways. Asexual while one partner has other sexual interactions, monogamous but in different cities. ~One relationship two dwellings. Or having their own dedicated space within a dwelling. ~Friend with benefits for an occasional hook up ~periodic hall passes. ~Group family or commune. And so many more examples. Trying to navigate it is hard. Consider joining us for a small group starting a few weeks from now. It’s the tool kit for managing non-monogamy without blowing your relationship up. It is great if you can join us in person but easy of you need to video in. Monday April 15, Monday April 22, Monday April 29, Monday May 67-9(ish) pm 81 Pooler Ave. Very limited enrollment. $240/couple, $180 individual. 1. Intros, purpose of workshop, specific models of non-monogamy, ways of finding one’s own voice. 2. Specifics of sharing, Jealousy (Swing, poly and other non-monogamous forms). Rules, what works, contracts etc. Non-Monogamy checklist. What is the wish lists and deal breakers 3. What do you need/want. How do you negotiate that? How do you ask for it and how do you find it? Sharing and tools for understanding boundaries. 4. Group discussion about finding potential partners. A chance to practice skills and role play in a safe way. Stories about successful (and not-so-successful) models of play. An informal social has happened in the past with the group and will be organized later following the completion of the workshop. etransfer to [masked] or on the wearetheducklings.com site