What we're about

Everyday Tantra is a path of life’s passions. It’s about change that matters. It’s about unfolding life in a way that brings more depth, freedom, greater love and enjoying the life you are in.

Everyday.

Looking for “how to’s” or the perfect answer may have seemed like a viable choice in the past, but you want transformation. Retrieving your individual choices, reclaiming your voice and trusting your own way, opens the doors to understanding how to make change sustainable.

Tantra is merging all parts of life. Here, we support empowerment, embodiment, and slowing down to create thriving relationships. You are the focus. It’s your life. Change is on your terms and our events and offerings invite you to profound awareness and understanding. They lay a foundation and help you remember who you are, your way. Rather than telling you how to be you. The classes, events, and online offerings help you gain deeper presence, simple integration of the body, mind, heart, and spirit. Self-Trust and Self-Care are also important parts of this integration. Everyday tantra is getting in touch with the authentic parts of who you are and expressing it with absolutely zero fear of being judged by them. This offers you the permission to surrender and allow the love of yourself to be shared with everyone.

Are you ready to stop the endless seeking and searching externally? Are you ready to return home to you?

Welcome to Everyday Tantra!

Upcoming events (4+)

Austin TX: Energetic Sxx Facilitator Training Lvl 1 w/ Lawrence, Monique & Peter

RSVP HERE: https://esftaus.eventbrite.com
*Are you ready to dive deep into Energy and Play and discover and explore your full power and expression?
*Have you always been in touch with a sixth sense in some way and want to develop that further? The ability to feel, see, taste, touch, experience the world through Energy?
*Do you love Energy Sxx and would love a weeklong immersion in the nuts and bolts, so that you can offer it to your clients, students, and lovers?
*Are you ready to awaken your passion and share it with the world in way that makes an empowered and loving way?
*Are you finally ready to heed the call and join a community of leaders, facilitators and guides doing the work to change world right now?
In this 7-day Facilitator Intensive, Lawrence Lanoff, Monique Darling and Peter Petersen will be inviting you on an in depth and lovingly guided exploration of energy in and around your body. Walk away with your own level 1 certification to offer Energy Sxx your way!
Drawing on decades of experience of living, teaching, and playing in the multiverse of energetic realms, these three internationally-renown teachers are bringing it all together!
Wherever you are at in your practice, whether you are just getting started and could use a wider range of tools, or you have been facilitating for years and have reached a plateau… Or you are going strong but in danger of settling into a comfort zone, This deep dive will invite you to new levels, to unexplored and unimagined depths.
Here is a secret...
“The opposite of pleasure is even MORE pleasure”
Each of us has a sophisticated and subtle energetic system that courses through our body.
In Indian and Yogic cultures, it’s called Nadis and runs Kundalini energy throughout an energetic Chakra system. In Traditional Chinese Medicine it’s energy meridians and Chi flow. In Western Medicine, it’s chemistry and our central and peripheral nervous systems which fire electrical impulses and synapses.
Here are some benefits you will receive through this deep and playful intensive:
*Discover and get practical experience with Real world Energy tools you can practice and play with for the rest of your life… AND be able to offer to clients and workshop attendees all over the world!
*Play with the Aliveness of your body for a lifetime of joy!
*Anchor an ability to transform life into an orgasmic playground way beyond traditional sxx…And help your current and future partners discover this new playground of bliss.
*Deepen your connection to your own energetic field so you can experience life in new delicious ways.
*Dive into Radical Self Love and Acceptance, and see it modeled all around you.
*Strengthen and hone your skills to engage and play solo and one-on-one for deeper and more grounded and ecstatic pleasure.
*Reinforce your abilities and awareness for engaging in group energetic play.
*Fine-tune, understand and speak your boundaries for deeper intimacy and authentic connection that sparks and delights.
*Explore using the energetic body to tune into and help heal your tender little child-parts within so you can sooth and empower them and yourself.
*Release shame and old stories that don’t serve you so you can stop getting in your own way and reclaim your destiny.
*Powerfully claim your right to sxxual pleasure and passion… The very soul of you that society tried to strip away!
*Tune into the energy behind Sxx magic and build a solid foundation to springboard off of.
*Use pleasure to reset the central nervous system and release old stuck traumas and fears.
*Explore and anchor communication skills that encourage asking for what you want so you can experience more wonder than you dreamed possible!
*Discover and learn all about “devouring” (using energy as fuel regardless of what you’re experiencing) so you feel empowered no matter where you are and what’s happening!
*Experience different approaches so you can select the modes best suited for you and your audience:
Meditation, Experiential, FEEL.....Integrate and Anchor
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When: July 12 - July 19, 2022
Where: Austin, Texas
Cost: $2000 (or $3000 for both level 1 and 2) ~ includes training, all materials, lunch, and bonding with amazing people for 7 or 14 days!
RSVP HERE: https://esftaus.eventbrite.com
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Explore your own sensual and sxxual energy. All activities and exercises will be guided and are optional. You can participate solo, with a partner and/or in small groups. All participants are asked to practice with each other, or by oneself, in whatever manner supports each of you best. Many options will be offered to support each individual experience. The entire retreat is clothing optional
Join us as we take you on a journey of embodied experience that can reset your heart, body, mind, soul, and energetic nature.
AND… Walk away with your own level 1 certification to offer Energy Sxx your way!

Austin TX: Energetic Sxx Facilitator Training Lvl 1 w/ Lawrence, Monique & Peter

RSVP HERE: https://esftaus.eventbrite.com
*Are you ready to dive deep into Energy and Play and discover and explore your full power and expression?
*Have you always been in touch with a sixth sense in some way and want to develop that further? The ability to feel, see, taste, touch, experience the world through Energy?
*Do you love Energy Sxx and would love a weeklong immersion in the nuts and bolts, so that you can offer it to your clients, students, and lovers?
*Are you ready to awaken your passion and share it with the world in way that makes an empowered and loving way?
*Are you willing to commit 100% to step into the life you were born to live?
*Are you finally ready to heed the call and join a community of leaders, facilitators and guides doing the work to change world right now?
In this 7-day Facilitator Intensive, Lawrence Lanoff, Monique Darling and Peter Petersen will be inviting you on an in depth and lovingly guided exploration of energy in and around your body. Walk away with your own level 1 certification to offer Energy Sxx your way!
Drawing on decades of experience of living, teaching, and playing in the multiverse of energetic realms, these three internationally-renown teachers are bringing it all together!
So many of you have been asking for years for a facilitator training based solely on Energetic Sxx, now it’s here!!
We are selecting and curating the juiciest, the most divine, the most potent experiences we have learned over our lifetimes into these 7 days.
This week will push you and challenge old beliefs, assumptions and outdated ways of being… If you’re not willing to expand your consciousness and taste new experiences, this is not the event for you.
Wherever you are at in your practice, whether you are just getting started and could use a wider range of tools, or you have been facilitating for years and have reached a plateau… Or you are going strong but in danger of settling into a comfort zone, This deep dive will invite you to new levels, to unexplored and unimagined depths.
We are offering real world tools for anyone who is ready to help bring energy Sxx even more into our communities, to those who know it exists and to those who haven’t discovered the joy and connection they’ve been missing their entire life!
Get ready to peel off the layers to experience a new level of sensation and ecstasy, through your birthright of Sxx, Pleasure, Power, and Intimacy. All through the lens of Tantra, Clarity, and just how good you can feel in YOUR body.
Here is a secret...
“The opposite of pleasure is even MORE pleasure”
Each of us has a sophisticated and subtle energetic system that courses through our body.
In Indian and Yogic cultures, it’s called Nadis and runs Kundalini energy throughout an energetic Chakra system. In Traditional Chinese Medicine it’s energy meridians and Chi flow. In Western Medicine, it’s chemistry and our central and peripheral nervous systems which fire electrical impulses and synapses.
Regardless of what belief system you subscribe to, our bodies are giving off signals. These cues and clues can be read and tracked with practice, especially during Sxx! Engaging these subtle and powerful energies, and interacting with them in a focused state, can make for a deeply transformative life.
When sxxual impulses are free flowing in the body, something natural and beautiful happens in our psyche and life pulsates with aliveness. Sxxual energy is a profound whole-body healer and can bring forth delicious feelings of bliss and ecstasy from endorphin release. Bring joy, delight and powerful renewing energy to each cell in your body!
Here are some benefits you will receive through this deep and playful intensive:
*Discover and get practical experience with Real world Energy tools you can practice and play with for the rest of your life… AND be able to offer to clients and workshop attendees all over the world!
*Play with the Aliveness of your body for a lifetime of joy!
*Anchor an ability to transform life into an orgasmic playground way beyond traditional sxx…And help your current and future partners discover this new playground of bliss.
*Deepen your connection to your own energetic field so you can experience life in new delicious ways.
*Dive into Radical Self Love and Acceptance, and see it modeled all around you.
*Strengthen and hone your skills to engage and play solo and one-on-one for deeper and more grounded and ecstatic pleasure.
*Reinforce your abilities and awareness for engaging in group energetic play.

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When: July 12 - July 19, 2022
Where: Austin, Texas
Cost: $2000 (or $3000 for both level 1 and 2) ~ includes training, all materials, lunch, and bonding with amazing people for 7 or 14 days!
RSVP HERE: https://esftaus.eventbrite.com
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Dance and Tantra Fusion w/ Zouk, Dirty Dancing, Qigong & Tantric Connections

Please RSVP HERE: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/dance-and-tantra-fusion-w-zouk-dirty-dancing-qigong-tantric-connection-tickets-363877837407
At a time when so many of us are disconnected within ourselves and to the world, authentically, joyfully connecting to others is a practice to reconnect our body, heart, mind and soul to a place where we know what our deepest desires are regarding love and life. It is a path to falling in love with yourself, discovering who you are and what your deepest joy is in the present moment. It’s about manifesting those dreams, goals and desires of what makes you come alive, awakening us to feeling the freedom and healing in ourselves.
The outer world is a reflection of the inner world. Everywhere you look, you see your inner condition reflected in your outer circumstances and especially in your relationships. Life is a dance of relationships. There is just no avoiding it. And no relationship is more important than the one to yourself.
This 4 hour event will weave together Qigong dance flow, Zouk, Dirty dancing, or Tantric connecting through dance and we will also add in many authentic connecting exercises which are at the center of Tantra, "The Art of Falling in Love with Yourself."
In this event you will:

* Learn advanced skills for deeper INTIMACY
*Discover Zouk with Lea
* Rediscover your INNOCENCE
* Receive powerful transmissions of FREEDOM & LOVE
*Swim in the air with Qigong
* Find COMMUNITY & deep friendships
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Peter will begin with Qigong and Dance of the 5 elements. For thousands of years people have captured the essence of these simple movements to maintain balance and to heal themselves mentally and physically. Qigong accelerates healing and has a positive clinically recognized effect on almost all physical symptoms. Qigong helps heal the physical body and release stress of the mind. By moving your body, releasing trigger points, and stimulating your circulatory system, you literally become your own massage therapist. Simultaneously these movements help release negative emotions and memories that you no longer need and allow yourself to be much more present in your "now" so in a sense you become your own psychiatrist at the same time! Come learn how to build the foundation of being your own health advocate and enjoy emotional freedom and connection to all that is!
Then after the Qigong movements, Peter will take you on a different journey, an adventure through movement and connection that involves the 5 elements. This will be both inward and outward as he takes you on a trek that has destination stops at each element. Music is selected to take you through each of the five elements.
Next Lea will lead you through some basic Zouk steps......Maybe you’ve heard the phrase or even have seen the movie. The forbidden dance, Lambada has evolved over the years into a modern Sexy dance called ZOUK! Having to change the name and slow down the sexy provocative movement, Brazilian Zouk has survived prohibition and now spreading all over the world. Get ready to fall in love with the connection, flow, and all the yummy movement Zouk can provide. Together we will peel the first layers of this forbidden fruit and get a taste of the matrix.
This class is an intro into zouk movement and flow, exercises will include awareness of the body, awareness of your partner, we're gonna play with energetic ether connection, presence and safe consensual touch with your partner and of course, we'll have fun losing ourselves in the dance.
As we flow into Krysta's offering of Dirty Dancing...."Let's Break the Rules" Fusion Dance
Fusion dancing is an amazing style of dance, because there are almost no basic patterns! Instead, the focus is on listening to your partner through weight changes, push-pull dynamics, and intention. This makes it an extremely fun, co-creative, and easy dance!
We will start by learning how to "communicate" with your partner, and then move into experiential excercises in which you will have a chance to co-create a dance with your partner. Each person will get a chance to dance with their partner while experiencing the song/dance as "for them" or "for their partner." You can include intention for physical as well as emotional expression.
Then, we will add the sexy.. And create a sexy dance "scene" with your partner. We will go over desires and boundaries, and then create a sexy dance that just may include biting, kissing, or even a good strip- tease..
The options are yours to create!!! Let's break the normal "rules" of dance and explore, play, and get sexy..
And finally we will have Monique's infamous Tantric connections for you to fall madly in love with everyone in the room and yet leave realizing, they all just helped you fall madly in love with yourself.

Love Exchange for this amazing event is only $99 a person or $150 a pair.
Please RSVP HERE: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/dance-and-tantra-fusion-w-zouk-dirty-dancing-qigong-tantric-connection-tickets-363877837407

Temple Party w/Zouk Dirty Dancing Intro w/Monique, Peter, Favian, & Lea

Please RSVP here: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/temple-party-wzouk-dirty-dancing-intro-wmonique-peter-favian-lea-tickets-362268834837

This is an all gender play Temple Party with a dance movement introduction.

Let’s get ready to open our hearts and move our hips.

Favian and Lea will guide us through a workshop building trust and flow.

Explore lead and follow dynamics while we play with the movements of Brazilian Zouk.

So what is a Play Temple Party?

This is an experiential party for the sensually adventurous. This special evening welcomes ALL and is very gender friendly. This is an invitation to dive deeply into yourself and each other in ways you may have been afraid to do in the past. This is the party you want to come to even if you've never been to one before. We create an expansive, feeling-full environment charged with electricity, yet warmly grounded and earthy. A safe and sacred container for exploring kisses and hugs in a relaxed space. This party encourages your curiosity about taking your own sensuality to the next level. The evening is a celebration of imagination and curiosity, so you may experience as many flavors as you dare. Come dressed in something that makes you feel sacred and feeling good about yourself!
Next let us lead you through a welcome circle where a room of strangers slowly opens up and winds up on the same page, having the opportunity to be seen, heard, and understood in ways maybe you have never even imagined!

What does temple party mean?

In short, it is whatever it means to you. We attach the word ‘sacred’ to any practice, experience, or way-of-being that slows us down and deepens our experience of being alive. Our sensuality is a manifestation and expression-of our vital life-force and creative energy. It can play, move, and be shared and enjoyed in many ways. You are invited to co-create whatever feeds your soul. Participation with a capital "P" can mean many things and voyeurs are as warmly welcomed as the most actively engaged. It's a sensual space where participants are encouraged to explore themselves and others in ways that are stimulating, nurturing, exciting, safe and FUN!
This is the party you want to come to if you've never been AND this is the party you want to come to if you want to experience how to take generating safe play space for you and your loved ones to the next level.

ONLINE REGISTRATION AT: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/temple-party-wzouk-dirty-dancing-intro-wmonique-peter-favian-lea-tickets-362268834837

WHO SHOULD ATTEND:
You are sensually and emotionally savvy enough to Play nicely with others. You're a good sharer, you take good care of your toys and you use your words.

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You are somebody who knows your own wants and boundaries and can communicate them clearly...... and/or you're someone willing to work and explore these areas for your own growth and enjoyment! You treat yourself and others with respect and kindness.

If you're reading this, thinking, "I would love to come, but I don't want to play," PLEASE COME and enjoy the pressure-free company of like-minded individuals and exit whenever you wish. Really. There will be no pressure for you to do ANY activity at this party at any time.

My biggest request is that you come with a fun-loving, warm, caring, open-minded, generous, thoughtful, compassionate, non-judgmental attitude and that you conduct yourself with the highest level of integrity possible.

This will be a very chill, fun, playful event. Come relax. Come smooch. Come play. Come watch. Bring some popcorn.

All genders, bodies, and orientations welcome. Come as you are and have a great time!

We especially welcome trans, intersex, queer and other folks living anywhere within the spectrum - we understand how heteronormative spaces can be and aim to challenge this through our conversations and actions..,

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