About us
YOU are an LA woman over 40! And WE are adventurous, imaginative, enthusiastic women over 40 who are insatiably curious about the people and places that make up our magical mosaic called Los Angeles. We want to go where we haven’t gone and do what we haven’t done. And we’re as diverse as this city we love! You are welcome as you are, and no one is judged.
Together, we’ll deep-dive into arts, music, dance, comedy, history, architecture, variety arts, craft fairs, antique districts, wineries, local festivals, and the occasional day trip Adventure. Of course, we’ll find fun and fabulous places to eat and drink along our way. We want our activities to be as varied as our membership.
We're also extremely proud of our three signature event series:
- Cocktails in Unique Places (CUP)— our signature event, 2) A historical based event, and 3) our casual Neighborhood Nights where we can relax, connect, and build great friendships.
Your ideas are always welcome! YOU can be an event organizer! We're always happy to help you make your event sparkle!
Some events will be free. But for others, we may ask for a small fee to cover Meetup expenses. (And of course, if you like our group vibe, you’re always welcome to make a donation on your own!) Some events may have limits on the number of people the venue will allow. But we’ll always try to have a waitlist.
Just a few rules to remember:
For the safety of all our members, we require a clear profile photo OF YOU ALONE, OF YOUR FACE (facing the camera!) NO HATS OR SUNGLASSES! -- SORRY, BUT NO EXCEPTIONS!
If you RSVP and then don’t cancel more than 24-hours before at 3 events, we’ll have to show you out of the group for 3-months. But that won’t happen because you’ll update your RSVPs and cancel with at least 24-hours notice! Right?
If you fail to make your payment on designated fee events within 24-hours or as stated we will remove you from the event. Three failures to pay and we will remove you from the group for 6-months.
If you RSVP and we never see you that’s a NO SHOW even if you were there and did your own thing. 2 no-shows and we will remove you from the group for one year.
No-shows and Last-minute cancellations put our ability to book terrific venues at risk! Your event organizers and fellow members will appreciate your courtesy especially when there's a wait list and they hope to join!
Be kind and welcoming to everyone you meet here. We ask that you never contact group members you haven’t met in person. Don’t send group emails for any reason. Be respectful in the comments.
So come join us! There’s a world of new friends here that can’t wait to meet you!
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DETAILED INFO & HELP FOR PHOTOS & SETTINGS:
Once again, we require a clear profile photo OF YOU -- ALONE -- OF YOUR FACE (shoulders-up facing the camera!)
NO HATS OR SUNGLASSES! -- SORRY, BUT NO EXCEPTIONS!
CHANGING OR REMOVING A PROFILE PHOTO:
You can change your ACCOUNT profile photo OR your GROUP profile photos.
Your ACCOUNT profile photo will be used by DEFAULT for your GROUP profiles. After a GROUP profile photo is set, changing your ACCOUNT profile photo will not update your GROUP profile. You can update each of your GROUP profile photos individually.
Profile photo requirements: The recommended ratio is 1:1. For example, a square 200 pixels high by 200 pixels wide photo. Photos must be in JPEG or PNG format and under 10MB.
TO CHANGE YOUR ACCOUNT PROFILE PHOTO:
Desktop web
1. Click on your circular profile button.
2. Select Profile from the drop-down menu.
3. Click Change your photo.
4. Upload a new photo or pick from your existing profile photos.
5. Select Done to confirm.
Android & iOS Apps
1. From the Home tab, tap your circular Profile button.
2. Tap edit profile or the Pencil.
3. Select Change or the Camera beneath your current profile picture.
4. Select one of the following options:
*Take a photo
*Select photo from your device
*Delete photo
5. Tap the checkmark or Save to confirm.
TO CHANGE YOUR GROUP PROFILE PHOTO:
Desktop web
1. Navigate to the group homepage.
2. Select Manage group or You’re a member.
3. Select Your member profile.
4. Select change your photo.
5. Upload a new photo or pick from your existing profile photos.
6. Select Done to confirm.
NOTIFICATIONS:
For the ability to communicate with you your EMAIL UPDATES and NOTIFICATIONS must be turned on in SETTINGS both on your computer and phone app. Without notifications you will miss out on newly posted events, but more importantly you will miss out on schedule changes. Important updates can include, time and meetup location changes, a rescheduled event date, and in some remote cases an event cancellation.
For instructions on how to change your settings, go to the Friendship & Fabulous Places HOME page. Click on MORE (under the portal photo), then click on MESSAGE BOARD. Select "Email and notification settings." Make certain you've checked all the boxes and allow us to email and notify you.
Please note: the Message Board is available on the Web Application, but not on the Mobile App.
To edit settings on the Mobile App, go to your profile icon (bottom right corner), then go to the 3 dots icon (upper right corner). Select "Push notifications", then select "Change email updates." Make certain all options are GREEN.
If you have any questions please don’t hesitate to ask. Send me a private message.
Upcoming events
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The Most Unique Speakeasy Distillery Lounge in LA: THE OBSCURE
The Obscure, 1356 Palmetto St, Los Angeles, CA, US⚠️VERY IMPORTANT RSVP INSTRUCTIONS⚠️
B-E-F-O-R-E you RSVP you must purchase your ticket. See link below. Individual tickets are sold out. TICKETS ARE NOW ONLY AVAILABLE WITH A TWO TICKET MINIMUM PURCHASE. Bring a friend or pay me directly and I will buy tickets in pairs as more people join. Post your ticket# or send me a PM with your TICKET#. I must have all ticket #’s for our group reservation.BRINGING YOU THE B-E-S-T OF LA
LA’s most unique speakeasy cocktail tasting experience!
Take a look 👁️
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2 Part Event
Part 1: THE OBSCURE SPEAKEASY
Part 2: Dinner at The Girl and the Goat
See separate post.Why do ordinary when you can do extraordinary? Come join me as I celebrate my birthday at a very unique speakeasy experience! They encourage all-black attire!
Your $3 Meetup contribution helps support the cost Meetup charges Organizers annually. See payment info below. A pop-up window will appear with payment info. Thank you!
🎉Reserve for April 25 5:00 PM. You will not be confirmed until you post in comments your ticket #. You will be removed within 12-hours otherwise. I have to make special arrangements for our group reservation.
TICKETS $64.08 (with fees)
https://feverup.com/m/169678?cp_landing=cta_banner&cp_landing_term=cta_banner&cp_landing_source=experience.theobscure&utm_source=direct⭐️Magical Distillery & Cocktail Tasting Experience in the LA Arts District
Join 50,000+ enchanted guests who have ventured into The Obscure—the world’s highest-rated cocktail experience with over 2,000 five-star reviews. This hidden sanctuary invites you to step inside and lose yourself in a realm of magic and mystery. Embark on a multi-sensory journey of expertly crafted spirits and cocktails, whereevery sip reveals a story steeped in legend and lore.
👉 What's Included:
- Tasting Menu: Each ‘season’ features six (6) drinks—three in-house spirits & three original cocktails
- Tax & Tip Included: No hidden fees
- Live Art & Storytelling: An inspired world of creativity featuring guest artists and guided tastings
Highlights
✨ Be Part of the Magic: Join a renowned immersive experience enjoyed by tens of thousands.
🔮 A Mystical Realm Awaits: Enter candlelit ruins and be transported to a place where creativity and story intertwine.
🍹 Award-Winning Mixology: Enjoy three unique house spirits paired with three hand-crafted cocktails from celebrated bartenders.
🌠 Legends & Lore: Uncover forgotten tales and hidden histories with each tasting.General Info
🪞 Dress Code: all-black attire welcome
❓ Please consult the FAQs of this experience here👉 Season One and Two tastings can be enjoyed in order or as standalone experiences.
👉 Zero-proof cocktails available upon request. See FAQs for details.✨What’s the difference between Seasons 1, 2 & 3?
🍷Each Season is a unique tasting chapter🍷**Season 1 **→ Where it all began. The original chapter & menu. Great for first-timers.
**Season 2 **→ A new six-pour menu + story; doubles down on what made Season 1 a hit. Ideal follow-up or standalone.
Season 3 → Just released! A lively continuation with new surprises. Start or end here, it's a great time either way! Note: Start times are staggered for greater flexibility and an expanded experience.Description
Step into the clandestine world of The Obscure, an exclusive distillery and cocktail bar where spirits both ethereal and distilled mingle amidst the shadows. Surrounded by cascading waterfalls and otherworldly ruins in the gentle glow of candlelight, you’ll embark on a multi-sensory odyssey through history, legend, and lore. Each spirit and cocktail holds an enchanting narrative, and with every sip, you’ll enter a portal to forgotten tales and untold legends. A hidden sanctuary where mixology meets storytelling, The Obscure offers an unparalleled cocktail-tasting experience, promising delightful surprises for the curious soul. Get your tickets now for The Obscure: Distillery & Cocktail Experience in Los Angeles!$3 RSVP PayPal, Venmo or Zelle (NOT if waitlisted) to reserve your spot. NOTE: Fee is NOT refundable and NOT eligible for re-sale. If you need to cancel immediately update to “not going”.
Payment contact provided upon RSVP made within 12-hours or immediate removal. This gives everyone a fair opportunity to join events and will expedite the turn around time to fill the event.
AT TIME OF PAYMENT INDICATE: The Obscure
PARKING
Street parking. Give yourself plenty of time to find parking.7 attendees
Past events
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