What we're about

"The first thing that attracted me to the group was the title, "Flying Solo." It describes we singles in a fun and liberating way. Meaning we are willing to spread our wings and open to new things. Fits me to a tee"

Flying Solo is an inspirational concept for single people in London. We are a social group for single people. We arrange social gatherings, networking, mingles, meals and parties for our members to meet up on a regular basis, make new friends, have fun and have a great time. Our aim is to empower single people and we reflect this in our events.

Membership of Flying Solo is free and our events are free or pay-as-you-go. To register you as a member we will need to use your email address, you will provide this to us when you book tickets for our events.

If you like to socialise and want to meet new people of the same and/or opposite sex, and find a lot of your mates don't go out because they are married/partnered up, not available due to childcare commitments, are always skint or just can't be bothered to go out, or you haven't got a 'significant other' that wants to take part in fun activities, then this is the group for you.

We arrange nights out at convenient venues where so that people can meet new people & regular members, get together, have fun and get to know each other in a relaxed, non pressurised environment. It is for people who like to socialise but do not want to be patronised or pressured into thinking that they must meet someone or be the life and soul of the party (if you want to be though that's fine too!). The aim is to have a good time, meet people, make new friends, build social confidence and have an enjoyable evening with others who are in the same boat.

All events are hosted, which means you’ll be meeted, greeted, made to feel welcome and introduced to other members (if you wish) and encouraged to mingle at every single event we run.

All of our events are suitable for members who want to attend 'on their own'. In fact most of our members, including female members, arrive Solo. You will be introduced to people upon arrival, some events we have a special Ladies table - for ladies who want to make friends and enjoy a cocktail and a natter before they mingle/party. We do not do any 'introduction games' or awkward male/female introductions & you will never be put under pressure or made to feel as though you need to meet or talk to someone on our events.

As a female led group, we are very female friendly. We know attending events and walking in to a bar/club on your own can be a nerve-wracking thing to do... so if you want to attend as a lady on her own to our events you will be very welcome and well supported.....

What people are saying about Flying Solo:

“ Last nights Yager Bar event great as my first event - friendly atmosphere to meet people my age, great host and plenty of food ”

— Paul (https://www.meetup.com/Flying-Solo-Events/members/204710165/) on Jun 2, 2016.

“ Good way to meet new people. ”

— Dionne (https://www.meetup.com/Flying-Solo-Events/members/29381362/) on Apr 14, 2016.

Please see our group review page (https://www.meetup.com/Flying-Solo-Events/about/comments/?op=all)for more feedback on our social events.

So if you're stuck in on a night and you want to do something with like minded people and not feel like a sad desperado, remember: Life is a Lottery, 'you've got to be in it to win it' , so get yourself involved!

Our group has no age restrictions but you should note that most of our members are by default, overall in their 30s, 40s & 50s.

Look out for meet ups coming up and suggestions for what people would like to do are always welcome, or if you'd like to host your own events or co-host with me- great! Please drop me an email or see me at events with your ideas. Constructive feedback and ideas on how we can improve our events are always welcome and valued , please email me on sarah@flyingsoloevents.co.uk or see me in person at an event.

How to get the most out of Flying Solo Meetup Group

• Please read the meetup info before you RSVP - Sounds obvious but a lot of people don't. Some meetups may not be your thing - I try to provide as much info for you to make an informed choice - but you can't do this if you don't read the info.
• You are much more likely to make friends if you come to events regularly. People come along on our meets to see other people they have met on previous meets! & believe it or not its a small world - even on London Meetup! If you attend regularly, you will soon notice our 'regular faces' as well as meeting new people each and every event.
• Have a clear profile photo so that other members can see who you are. Nothing fancy, no cats, dogs, landscapes or other people in your pic, just a nice face shot so people can recognise you on Meetup. If you need a nice pic doing, please let me know & I'll take one for you.
• Interact with members between meets using meetup event message boards. Be friendly... say hi, introduce yourself, join in with the pre & post event banter! People will feel that you are friendly and like they know you already when they meet you at the meet!

Look forward to meeting you at our warm, fun, relaxed and friendly group!

Sarah C

Group Organiser

Flying Solo London - Social Group for Single People

Please note:

We are a very active group. If you don't want to be receiving email from me/our hosts please CLICK HERE (https://www.meetup.com/Flying-Solo-Events/messages/boards/thread/48809891).

Membership and Attendance of all events is subject to our FS Meetup Group Rules (https://www.meetup.com/Flying-Solo-Events/messages/boards/thread/50152784/0/#129636102)- please read.

GDPR compliance & Mailing List

Flying Solo is a MEMBERS ONLY social group. Membership is free and our events are 'pay as you go'. To be eligible for FREE membership you provide us with and authorise us with use of your email address, and you become a member automatically when you join us on one of our meetups (you opt into our membership when you buy a ticket/register for a free ticket). We use your email address for our own purposes, to keep you in our membership datatabase, keep in touch with you and to make you aware of news and events. The only information we keep/use is your email address. We do not sell your email address or let 3rd parties use it. If you do not want us to use your email address, you cannot become a member or attend group events. You can unsubscribe from our group emails at any time by following the unsubscribe link at the bottom of the page. You can unsubscribe from Meetup messages (automatically generated) by changing your settings on meetup - please CLICK HERE (https://help.meetup.com/hc/en-us/articles/360002863152-How-do-I-unsubscribe-from-Meetup-emails-) to see the Meetup Help article with instructions


Upcoming events (4)

Wheel of the Year -Southbank Tarot and esoteric practice.

Needs a location


Also advertised on Tarot Forge Meetup.
The focus of this workshop will be the lore and mythology around Beltane and the significance of this time of year in Pagan lore. We will also practise Tarot. Bring all your questions and answers relsting to Tarot, esoteric matters, witchy stuff etc etc.
It is strongly recommended that you bring your own Tarot deck. If you do not have a deck let me know. I have some spares.

Event begins between 19.15 and 19.30, please be flexible about start time as people can be delayed or need more time to settle in.
The practice will take 2 hours, followed by socializing and conversation if participants wish to do so.
Royal Festival Hall has a bar where you can purchase drinks and snacks.

I ask for voluntary donations for this event. Anything you give will go towards running Flying Solo and also my time, knowledge, and any resources that I invest in this workshop, for example photocopies, printer ink, etc., and just basic exchange of energy.


Any questions please message me.
With Tarot blessings of wisdom,

Tarot readings are for entertainment purposes only.
Public safety regulations apply.
This meetup takes place in a busy public space and I am not responsible for crowds, noise levels, quality/prices of refreshments on sale or temperature. There might be loud announcements halfway through the evenings as the venue hosts a theatre.
There will be different people with different viewpoints present. The joy of Tarot lies within the variety of human imagination which is limitless. Please be kind, flexible and tolerant of others at all times.

Friday Night Drinks in Chiswick at the Bell and Crown/later at Steam Packet .

This Friday we're at the fabulous BELL AND CROWN , which is just a short walk along the river from Kew Bridge .
We'll meet at this gorgeous riverside location for a drink together and then at about 9 pm , we'll walk across the road to the STEAM PACKET for some live music and a very lively atmosphere !
What could be better on a summer's evening ?
There is a fee of £3 for this event : please bring the correct money in cash on the night .
Thank you .

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Boat Party on the Tattershall Castle - Official F S Event ! LIMITED PLACES!

Needs a location


TONIGHT we'll have a great event with lots of fun/dancing/music and positive party people!

The on deck DJ will be back this month , playing all the music we love and there will be dancing on deck !! How we've missed that through the winter !

From 11 pm the clubroom will be open for more dancing !

We can’t wait to party the night away with you at the TATTERSHALL CASTLE - Pub/Boat on the Thames (moored boat doesn't move anywhere)

**Please bring photo ID such as a driving license or passport. No ID, no entry! These are venues rules, not ours-



We will be outdoors on the fore deck . As you come down the steps on to the boat , you will see the bar and the DJ straight ahead of you . I will be standing between the bar and the DJ on the river side of the boat .

  1. Arrival time is 8-10pm. There will be a mixer 8-10, music and dancing all evening on the foredeck . If you want us to introduce you to other members please SEE AN EVENT HOST.
  2. This is a BAR/NIGHTCLUB please expect loud music/busy atmosphere. Capacity IS LIMITED on the boat. If it gets full security staff may have to refuse entry until the boat becomes less crowded. If this happens to you please return back to the boat in 15 to 30 minutes and try again.
  3. Payment of £3 is required for this meetup. PLEASE BRING THE CORRECT MONEY IN CASH .
  4. THANK YOU .
    This is to cover Hosts Expenses/Meetup Costs/Travel Expenses & towards all the costs of the group that were paid during the 2 year closedown/free events - If you don't want to pay please attend an alternative FREE MEETUP.
  5. Please bring a POSITIVE ATTITUDE and be ready for a great night out- thank you! We can’t wait to see you there!


Needs a location



Flying Solo Summer nights are back on!! Just like it used to be.... come and re-acquaint yourself with your Mojo... and meet some fabulous people.


  1. We will be in the COCKTAIL LOUNGE - it's downstairs at the SWAY BAR - Please ask RECEPTION STAFF FOR FLYING SOLO/LOOK FOR OUR TABLE SIGNS
  2. Arrival time is 7:00 - 9:00 latest- Mixer/Mingle will be from 7:30 - 8:30 - Music starts around 8:30 pm we are told - If you want us to introduce you to other members SEE AN EVENT HOST and arrive at that time as we can't do it later when it's noisy. Please see event hosts if you would like introductions.
  3. Free pizza taster will be served between 8:30 and 9:00. This will be a slice or two of pizza and not a full meal, but if you do require something more substantial you can purchase food at this venue.
  4. This is a NIGHTCLUB please expect loud music/busy atmosphere
  5. PLEASE BRING PHOTO ID = PASSPORT OR DRIVING LICENCE in case the club asks for it - THESE ARE CLUB RULES , not ours .
  6. Payment of £3 is required for this meetup. You must pay cash to the event host when your arrive.
  7. Dress code - Smart Casual MINIMUM- no hoodies/sportswear/ripped jeans
  8. Please bring a POSITIVE ATTITUDE and be ready for a great night out- fun is what you make it. Thank you!


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