What we're about

Gray Wolf's Den Charlotte is a BDSM/Kink based venue where the Kink community can gather, socialize, learn from and support each other. The focus is on community. There are events for focused on Rope Play, Trans/cd, Photog, Play Parties, etc. Demos are offered relating to anything from suspension to fire to impact play.

Gray Wolf's Den is a gathering place for all things (well most things) KINK, "Fetish" and BDSM. We are located in a private home in the Charlotte area. Your hosts, Master Gray Wolf and AbiRose have created an awesome play space in a relaxing, comfortable setting. Vetted Members are treated to many amazing rooms and a social atmosphere that combines the intensity of kinky play with the coziness of home.


Game Room with Billiards and Darts.

Social Areas for chillin', chewin' and chattin', and the occasional Sybian Rodeo.

Intimate Soft Rooms including the outer dungeon room which has an awesome bondage bed.

Dungeon/Play Room with a St. Andrew's Cross, Spanking Bench and more.

There are some house toys and equipment you may borrow for the evening, however, you are certainly welcome to bring your own toy bag.


Gray Wolf's Den is a Vetted Membership ONLY space. The address is not posted nor will members give it out to those who have not been vetted. See below for information on becoming a vetted member.


In order to be permitted to join in any Gray Wolf's Den parties, you need to be vouched for by one of the Gray Wolf Den's core members, or attend a Vetting Munch prior to attending an event. An orientation is given at each Vetting Munch where the House Rules will be discussed and prospective vettees will sign a waiver. Vetting in detail... https://docs.google.com/document/d/1DVNf1rMll5HEcRZJ4vlP2hBcj_vTJhD1yWb6aImLKos/edit?usp=sharing

NO DRAMA: Gray Wolf's mantra is "This is supposed to be fun."

Please be polite and respectful in discussions. No discussion containing hate speech will be tolerated.

We are looking forward to meeting all y'all at Gray Wolf's Den.

Gray Wolf, AbiRose and the Wolf Pack

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