About us
This is a fun, relaxed group for making new 'GayMates.' All are welcome, to join, regardless of sexuality etc. all you need is a sense of fun! Members currently organise social meetups: nights out, museum visits, cinema trips and a whole host of other activities. Some events are hosted others are not.
We welcome your input and suggestions in developing this group! To post events click on 'Suggest a new meetup'. To attend events click on 'YES'. If you wish to make new friends and try new things, then this is definitely the place to be.
We look forward to meeting you!
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GayMates Meetup Group is open for all members to post events, simply message Serge with your idea.
GayMates is supported by
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Upcoming events
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- £10.00
London Gay, Bi, Trans Men's Mindfulness Meditation Group
Westminster Meeting House, 52 St Martin's Ln, London WC2N 4EA, London, GBSince 2009, 15‑40 men meet in a warm, inclusive space near Leicester Square to meditate, relax and make friends. No experience needed – we guide you step‑by‑step, and seasoned meditators are welcome.
Why gay‑men choose this space
- Safety & belonging – a private, affirming environment where you can be yourself without judgment, the core need identified by LGBTQ‑focused mindfulness programmes .
- Minority‑stress relief – mindfulness reduces the chronic stress that many gay, bi and queer men face, boosting self‑acceptance and emotional regulation .
- Community‑driven growth – connecting with others who share similar experiences lowers isolation and fosters resilience.
Click here to book or simply turn up and pay at the door.
What you’ll get
- Breath‑work & gratitude tools – instant stress relief and mood lift.
- Guided meditations that develop emotional intelligence, self‑compassion and resilience.
- Trauma‑informed compassion practices – self‑compassion exercises and body‑scan work to ease reactivity and promote safety.
- A supportive peer community – improve social skills and build lasting friendships.
Evening flow (7 pm‑9 pm)
1️⃣ Grounding movement & body‑scan
2️⃣ First guided meditation (focused attention or self‑compassion)
3️⃣ 20‑minute tea break for informal chat
4️⃣ The second meditation changes week by week and follows a rotating weekly theme (loving‑kindness, self‑compassion, gratitude, etc.)Practical details
- When: Every Monday (doors 6:45 pm, meditation 7 pm) – we run the session even if there are no Meetup RSVP. No booking required - just turn up.
- Where: 52 Saint Martins Lane, WC2N 4EA (near Leicester Square/Charing Cross)
- Seating: Chairs provided; mats & cushions available for floor sitting.
Teacher
Nick – 30 years of practice and 7 years as a Buddhist monk, teaching from a non‑reactive, freedom‑focused perspective.Fees
- First‑timer: £10
- Regular: £16 per session
- Concessions: £13 (students, low‑income, refugees, disability support – ask on arrival)
Join us
Click here to book or simply turn up and pay at the door.“The connection here is transformative – stress‑free, supportive, genuinely inclusive.” – member testimonial.
1 attendee - £10.00
London Gay, Bi, Trans Men's Mindfulness Meditation Group
Westminster Meeting House, 52 St Martin's Ln, London WC2N 4EA, London, GBSince 2009, 15‑40 men meet in a warm, inclusive space near Leicester Square to meditate, relax and make friends. No experience needed – we guide you step‑by‑step, and seasoned meditators are welcome.
Why gay‑men choose this space
- Safety & belonging – a private, affirming environment where you can be yourself without judgment, the core need identified by LGBTQ‑focused mindfulness programmes .
- Minority‑stress relief – mindfulness reduces the chronic stress that many gay, bi and queer men face, boosting self‑acceptance and emotional regulation .
- Community‑driven growth – connecting with others who share similar experiences lowers isolation and fosters resilience.
Click here to book or simply turn up and pay at the door.
What you’ll get
- Breath‑work & gratitude tools – instant stress relief and mood lift.
- Guided meditations that develop emotional intelligence, self‑compassion and resilience.
- Trauma‑informed compassion practices – self‑compassion exercises and body‑scan work to ease reactivity and promote safety.
- A supportive peer community – improve social skills and build lasting friendships.
Evening flow (7 pm‑9 pm)
1️⃣ Grounding movement & body‑scan
2️⃣ First guided meditation (focused attention or self‑compassion)
3️⃣ 20‑minute tea break for informal chat
4️⃣ The second meditation changes week by week and follows a rotating weekly theme (loving‑kindness, self‑compassion, gratitude, etc.)Practical details
- When: Every Monday (doors 6:45 pm, meditation 7 pm) – we run the session even if there are no Meetup RSVP. No booking required - just turn up.
- Where: 52 Saint Martins Lane, WC2N 4EA (near Leicester Square/Charing Cross)
- Seating: Chairs provided; mats & cushions available for floor sitting.
Teacher
Nick – 30 years of practice and 7 years as a Buddhist monk, teaching from a non‑reactive, freedom‑focused perspective.Fees
- First‑timer: £10
- Regular: £16 per session
- Concessions: £13 (students, low‑income, refugees, disability support – ask on arrival)
Join us
Click here to book or simply turn up and pay at the door.“The connection here is transformative – stress‑free, supportive, genuinely inclusive.” – member testimonial.
1 attendee - £69.00
Erotic Touch and sensual play - massage and Tantra for gay men (18 - 35)
East India DLR station, Blackwall Way, London, E14 8GB, GBWho this is for
- Gay men aged 18‑35 who want to explore tantra with peers who share their generational outlook.
- Anyone seeking a low‑pressure, consent‑driven environment for deeper sexual and emotional connection.
Why this workshop matters
You’ll be surrounded by men at a similar life stage, sharing the same cultural references and energy. This creates a comfortable, relatable environment where you can explore sensual touch and emotional closeness with peers who understand where you’re coming from.What you’ll experience
- Playful, erotic, and nurturing connection – no performance pressure, just genuine feeling.
- Guided massage & intimacy techniques you can bring into any partnership.
- Presence & heart‑centred practices – breathwork, slow foreplay, and energy circulation that revitalise sexual energy without rushing to climax.
- Gentle paired activities (including nudity and genital touch) in a sober, supportive environment.
- Clear consent language – learn how to ask for the touch you want and set firm boundaries.
Who’s leading it
Nick Kientsch – trauma‑informed practitioner with 20+ years of massage experience, trained in Tibetan Buddhist Tantra and Neo‑Tantra. A former Buddhist monk, Nick brings depth, compassion, and a strong safety ethic to every session.
What past participants say
- “Nick creates a safe and positive space for exploring human connection through touch. I felt uplifted, seen, and valued.”
- “A glorious affirmation of our bodies and sexuality – gentle, open, and encouraging.” – Chris
- “I left feeling blissful and connected to myself and others.” – Sam
Practical details
- Date: Saturday 9 May 2026
- Time: 2:00 pm – 7:30 pm (doors open 1:45 pm)
- Location: Canary Wharf, London (nearest tube: Jubilee/Elizabeth line – Canary Wharf, 15 min walk; DLR – East India, 8 min walk)
Tickets:
- Full price: £69
- Reduced (students/unemployed): £39
We usually host 10‑14 men per workshop. To secure your place please click the link below - a Meetup RSVP does not book you on.
👉 Reserve Your Spot
📹 Watch a short video overview – click hereIf you’re ready to rediscover intimacy on your own terms, we’d love to welcome you.
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