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This is a fun, relaxed group for making new 'GayMates.' All are welcome, to join, regardless of sexuality etc. all you need is a sense of fun! Members currently organise social meetups: nights out, museum visits, cinema trips and a whole host of other activities. Some events are hosted others are not.
We welcome your input and suggestions in developing this group! To post events click on 'Suggest a new meetup'. To attend events click on 'YES'. If you wish to make new friends and try new things, then this is definitely the place to be.
We look forward to meeting you!
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London Gay, Bi, Trans Men's Mindfulness Meditation Group
Westminster Meeting House, 52 St Martin's Ln, London WC2N 4EA, London, GBSince 2009, 15‑40 men meet in a warm, inclusive space near Leicester Square to meditate, relax and make friends. No experience needed – we guide you step‑by‑step, and seasoned meditators are welcome.
Why gay‑men choose this space
- Safety & belonging – a private, affirming environment where you can be yourself without judgment, the core need identified by LGBTQ‑focused mindfulness programmes .
- Minority‑stress relief – mindfulness reduces the chronic stress that many gay, bi and queer men face, boosting self‑acceptance and emotional regulation .
- Community‑driven growth – connecting with others who share similar experiences lowers isolation and fosters resilience.
Click here to book or simply turn up and pay at the door.
What you’ll get
- Breath‑work & gratitude tools – instant stress relief and mood lift.
- Guided meditations that develop emotional intelligence, self‑compassion and resilience.
- Trauma‑informed compassion practices – self‑compassion exercises and body‑scan work to ease reactivity and promote safety.
- A supportive peer community – improve social skills and build lasting friendships.
Evening flow (7 pm‑9 pm)
1️⃣ Grounding movement & body‑scan
2️⃣ First guided meditation (focused attention or self‑compassion)
3️⃣ 20‑minute tea break for informal chat
4️⃣ The second meditation changes week by week and follows a rotating weekly theme (loving‑kindness, self‑compassion, gratitude, etc.)Practical details
- When: Every Monday (doors 6:45 pm, meditation 7 pm) – we run the session even if there are no Meetup RSVP. No booking required - just turn up.
- Where: 52 Saint Martins Lane, WC2N 4EA (near Leicester Square/Charing Cross)
- Seating: Chairs provided; mats & cushions available for floor sitting.
Teacher
Nick – 30 years of practice and 7 years as a Buddhist monk, teaching from a non‑reactive, freedom‑focused perspective.Fees
- First‑timer: £10
- Regular: £16 per session
- Concessions: £13 (students, low‑income, refugees, disability support – ask on arrival)
Join us
Click here to book or simply turn up and pay at the door.“The connection here is transformative – stress‑free, supportive, genuinely inclusive.” – member testimonial.
1 attendee 
Prime-Time. Summer Retreat July 2026
Queercus, 5, La Voûte, Mainzac, FRSUMMER RETREAT 2026 Pime-Time
THE CONCEPT
This year, we take a look at aging. Whilst acknowledging and grieving the things that aging may strip us of, we want to explore the idea that:- We can find a flow of continual improvement throughout life.
- The final stages of life might be the most fulfilling.
- Aging can bring freedom from society’s expectations.
- Our later years may hold fewer financial and time constraints.
- We can let go of our own self-limiting ideas.
- We can dream for ourselves, a fulfilling and abundant old age.
- We can become confident in the resources we have amassed over decades and their value to our communities.
A MODULAR RETREAT
Over 11 consecutive days we will be offering three modules, which can be combined or taken as one-off workshops.
As in previous years we will be curating a clothing optional space, blending practices and experiences taken from :- Tantra tradition
- Modern somatic and conscious sexuality traditions
- Radical Faerie Culture
- Personal growth
- Queer intentional communities
- Sacred Intimacy
- And many other traditions.
We will create a temporary, nourishing, heart-centered community rooted in embodiment, authenticity, and shared experience. A space where we can share touch, intimacy, and whatever we need to support each other in our personal growth and expansion.
THE MODULES
Module One:
Friday 3rd July - Monday 6th July
MEET YOURSELF WHERE YOU ARE - GENTLY EXPAND TO BECOME EVEN MORE
A beginner-friendly weekend combining mindfulness, somatic awareness, conscious touch, yoga, meditation, and tantric practices. Also suitable for experienced participants.
Module Two:
Monday 6th July - Wednesday 8th July
MEET YOUR RESOURCES - NATURE, FRIENDS, TOUCH AND SIMPLY JUST BEING
A relaxed, self-created mini-retreat, for those curious about community in the Radical Faerie culture.
Take time out to relax, unwind and connect.
These will be un-programmed 'hanging-out' days, focused on community living. With shared cooking, cuddling and chilling, maybe optional taster workshops, and opportunities to explore the land and beautiful surrounding areas together.
Module Three:
Wednesday 8th July - Monday 13th July
MEET YOUR FUTURE SELF - IMAGINE THE MOST MATURE AND COMPLETE EXPRESSION OF YOURSELF
A reflective, in-depth exploration of aging as gay and queer men* — embracing slowing down, compassion, and life beyond society’s pressure to stay young.
There will be chances to mourn what's lost but also to dream into being what could be.
*This retreat is aimed primarily at exploring the experience of those who identify on a spectrum of masculinity. You will know whether this is you or not. All bodies are welcome and if you are unsure whether this workshop will suit you, please send me a message, so that we can explore that together.
HOW TO BOOK
All 3 Modules // 3-13 July
We encourage participants to book all 3 modules for the full experience. Your arrival day would be 3rd July and departure day 13th July.
Price // 1.170 GBP
Module 1 + 2 // 3-8 July
Price // 530 GBP
Module 2 + 3 // 8-13 July
Price // 830 GBP
Module 1 // 3-6 July
Price // 450 GBP
Module 3 // 8-13 July
Price // 750 GBP
It’s not possible to come just for Module 2. This module serves as a relaxed community time for those completing Module 1 or preparing for Module 3.
These prices include all teaching and workshops, 3 catered meals per day, plus one extra day’s fee to cover arrival and departure days.
ACCOMMODATION
Accommodation is extra with a range of options.
You are welcome to camp or sleep in a vehicle for 5 GBP per night.
And we have a selection of indoor rooms ranging from a bed in a shared dorm for 20 GBP per night to private en suite rooms available for 45 GBP per night.
Full details of accommodation and images are available at:
www.maevonbodywork.net
And coming soon at
Instagram @8th.sister.yoga
If you have questions, or to book your place please send an email to maevonfae@gmail.com3 attendees- £10.00
London Gay, Bi, Trans Men's Mindfulness Meditation Group
Westminster Meeting House, 52 St Martin's Ln, London WC2N 4EA, London, GBSince 2009, 15‑40 men meet in a warm, inclusive space near Leicester Square to meditate, relax and make friends. No experience needed – we guide you step‑by‑step, and seasoned meditators are welcome.
Why gay‑men choose this space
- Safety & belonging – a private, affirming environment where you can be yourself without judgment, the core need identified by LGBTQ‑focused mindfulness programmes .
- Minority‑stress relief – mindfulness reduces the chronic stress that many gay, bi and queer men face, boosting self‑acceptance and emotional regulation .
- Community‑driven growth – connecting with others who share similar experiences lowers isolation and fosters resilience.
Click here to book or simply turn up and pay at the door.
What you’ll get
- Breath‑work & gratitude tools – instant stress relief and mood lift.
- Guided meditations that develop emotional intelligence, self‑compassion and resilience.
- Trauma‑informed compassion practices – self‑compassion exercises and body‑scan work to ease reactivity and promote safety.
- A supportive peer community – improve social skills and build lasting friendships.
Evening flow (7 pm‑9 pm)
1️⃣ Grounding movement & body‑scan
2️⃣ First guided meditation (focused attention or self‑compassion)
3️⃣ 20‑minute tea break for informal chat
4️⃣ The second meditation changes week by week and follows a rotating weekly theme (loving‑kindness, self‑compassion, gratitude, etc.)Practical details
- When: Every Monday (doors 6:45 pm, meditation 7 pm) – we run the session even if there are no Meetup RSVP. No booking required - just turn up.
- Where: 52 Saint Martins Lane, WC2N 4EA (near Leicester Square/Charing Cross)
- Seating: Chairs provided; mats & cushions available for floor sitting.
Teacher
Nick – 30 years of practice and 7 years as a Buddhist monk, teaching from a non‑reactive, freedom‑focused perspective.Fees
- First‑timer: £10
- Regular: £16 per session
- Concessions: £13 (students, low‑income, refugees, disability support – ask on arrival)
Join us
Click here to book or simply turn up and pay at the door.“The connection here is transformative – stress‑free, supportive, genuinely inclusive.” – member testimonial.
1 attendee - £10.00
London Gay, Bi, Trans Men's Mindfulness Meditation Group
Westminster Meeting House, 52 St Martin's Ln, London WC2N 4EA, London, GBSince 2009, 15‑40 men meet in a warm, inclusive space near Leicester Square to meditate, relax and make friends. No experience needed – we guide you step‑by‑step, and seasoned meditators are welcome.
Why gay‑men choose this space
- Safety & belonging – a private, affirming environment where you can be yourself without judgment, the core need identified by LGBTQ‑focused mindfulness programmes .
- Minority‑stress relief – mindfulness reduces the chronic stress that many gay, bi and queer men face, boosting self‑acceptance and emotional regulation .
- Community‑driven growth – connecting with others who share similar experiences lowers isolation and fosters resilience.
Click here to book or simply turn up and pay at the door.
What you’ll get
- Breath‑work & gratitude tools – instant stress relief and mood lift.
- Guided meditations that develop emotional intelligence, self‑compassion and resilience.
- Trauma‑informed compassion practices – self‑compassion exercises and body‑scan work to ease reactivity and promote safety.
- A supportive peer community – improve social skills and build lasting friendships.
Evening flow (7 pm‑9 pm)
1️⃣ Grounding movement & body‑scan
2️⃣ First guided meditation (focused attention or self‑compassion)
3️⃣ 20‑minute tea break for informal chat
4️⃣ The second meditation changes week by week and follows a rotating weekly theme (loving‑kindness, self‑compassion, gratitude, etc.)Practical details
- When: Every Monday (doors 6:45 pm, meditation 7 pm) – we run the session even if there are no Meetup RSVP. No booking required - just turn up.
- Where: 52 Saint Martins Lane, WC2N 4EA (near Leicester Square/Charing Cross)
- Seating: Chairs provided; mats & cushions available for floor sitting.
Teacher
Nick – 30 years of practice and 7 years as a Buddhist monk, teaching from a non‑reactive, freedom‑focused perspective.Fees
- First‑timer: £10
- Regular: £16 per session
- Concessions: £13 (students, low‑income, refugees, disability support – ask on arrival)
Join us
Click here to book or simply turn up and pay at the door.“The connection here is transformative – stress‑free, supportive, genuinely inclusive.” – member testimonial.
1 attendee
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