This support group is for INDIANS in Dallas area ( Texas ) who are DIVORCED or thinking about divorce(don't do it unless there is physical abuse, some Attorneys may argue that you pressed tooth paste in the middle and not at the end and it is an act of abuse), or SEPARATED. Divorce is different in every culture and also every family and also it depends on your attorney's greed level. The other side of the grass looks green even though it is dead. Everybody knows this saying, "UNITED WE STAND, DIVIDED WE FALL and WHEN TWO PEOPLE FIGHT, THIRD PERSON GETS THE BENEFIT but how many people can follow considering needs/wants/convenience/priorities/sacrifice/compromise etc ? Most of the time friends and family members are gone and you will be looking for new friends. You may enjoy the independence and freedom for a while, later on loneliness and empty nest kicks in and it may lead to depression etc.
Our goal is to support each other emotionally, share your personal divorce experience if it helps others and learn from other people mistakes. May be divorce is/was worth it for some people and may be not to some, emotionally, financially and family wise. Please note just one of the couple can be in this group, we are NOT divorce attorneys, we are NOT professional advisors or counselors or therapists.
Our goal is also to socialize and enjoy the rest of the life ahead of us. You don't have to be alone or lonely or in secured that you are still single and not young any more. Let us meet to socialize for lunch, bowling, music , short trips and may be cruise depending on the groups interest. Other groups are limited to youngsters and most dating sites won't work out because of the scam 95% of the time whom you just text not knowing who the other person is and many people give up after certain time , S0 this group was formed.
At the end of the day, the hope is to form a well-knot community that will support its members and help in the healing and growth process.
That said, we must have rules.
• Absolutely no negativity.
• Must have an open mind when it comes to religion and cultural differences. And cricket teams :)
• Do not provide any false information, including photos. That will be grounds for immediate termination.
• RSVP changes to an event must be made as soon as you know you can’t make it. Repeated “no shows” may end access to this group.