A place for poly, kink, and other alternative relationship oriented folks to network, create and share events, and build community.
We help coordinate and provide safe community spaces, events, educational resources, and activist efforts for the social, emotional and political benefit of the poly and alt relationship community in Jersey City and the surrounding area.
As daylight returns, we return to Pasta e Vino for drinks and good company.
As always, bring your partners, their partners, your polycule, chosen fam, open minded friends, etc. And please review the Safer Spaces guidelines, which are borrowed with permission from Open Love New York:
Poly Cocktails House Rules
Learn – Poly Cocktails is for learning about polyamory. It is not a play space. No nudity, kink or sex play is permitted at the event.
Open communications – Poly Cocktails is a place to exercise open communications with intention, foster interactive dialogue, facilitate trust, develop your listening skills, and give and receive support.
Verbal Consent – We encourage everyone to obtain verbal consent and explicit negotiations (as modeled at Cuddle Parties) before initiating physical contact (e.g. hugging).
Expectations – check them at the door! Interest in polyamory does not signal sexual availability or indicate sexual orientation.
Respectful behavior toward hosts and guests is required.
Safer Space – Poly Cocktails is safer space for all sexual orientations, gender and kink identities, as well as those who identify as monogamous. No photography, video or recording of any kind is allowed without prior verbal consent of all parties involved.