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Hello Dear International* Lesbian!**

Welcome to the International Lesbians Community!!!

We have gone online for the foreseeable future, to help the social distancing so needed at the moment.

“May you live in interesting times”

I’m going to do my best to write an introduction that is fit for the times we are living and as fun as the international lesbians are.

The serious part:

Regardless of where you live, you are experiencing some sort of social distancing, and perhaps worrying about yourself or someone you love or know. At the LIL we would like you to know that by becoming one of our members you will be joining a community of very caring women who will welcome and support you as much as we possibly can. We are in this together!

If the next few months go anywhere near what the predictions are at the moment, we will be spending a lot of time keeping distance from each other.

The International Lesbians is a community that works hard at preventing social isolation!- we felt, it was our duty to make sure you stayed connected and had a safe space where to share your concerns and worries with other like minded women. But we are also about chilling out and having fun with other ladies, so we have worked out some ways to interact online [pretty much in the same way as we’ve done in real life for almost 5 years], and will keep working on finding more ways to keep you connected to other women in our community.

We will be having lots of online events and a few of us have been working tirelessly to “translate” as many of the events we run in the group into online events… The great news is that we have managed to translate a lot! You will be spoilt for choice and very connected :)

Now the fun stuff...

You are joining the warmest and most welcoming community of women who love women in the world..! We haven’t done the survey yet but we have met members and they are amazing ladies…

We are here to help you fulfil as many of your social needs as we can a -lot of of our members also fulfill romantic needs- ;)-

Would you like to meet and mingle [online] with some like minded women?

Are you an international* lesbian** or interested in socialising with an international mixture of lesbians?

Are you feeling disconnected from the lesbian scene in this time of social distancing?

Are you willing to join us and experiment having socials online?

If you’ve answered “yes” to at least one of these questions then you should join the International Lesbians Meetup group NOW :)

London International Lesbian Meetup is a group for women who love women, the internationals are women with attitude, open, curious and interested in meeting a wide range of women. The aim of the group is to keep you connected to the Lesbian Community and to share our life experiences and stories!

We welcome all nationalities and encourage you to join us from wherever you are in the world. We will meet regularly online for socials, [food], drinks, culture, [sporting events] and virtual trips. If you’re looking for like minded women from all over the world, this is the group for you and you may even get to practise a new language or just broaden your horizons in a fun and relaxing environment, all of this online for the time being.

Let us keep you connected to other women in these uncertain times!!

*For the purpose of this group International means: a group of women representing the international community. Our members are from many different countries, yes including Britain!! We love the British and they are about 40% of our members :) We are not the "Foreign Lesbians Meetup" but the Internationals Lol! :P

**The word Lesbian in this context is used in its widest possible meaning and doesn't intend to exclude Bi, Trans, Queer or any other woman who loves women. The internationals is a very inclusive group and we will always welcome any woman who identifies as a woman (and who lives as a woman) who loves women. Dear Bi, Trans, Queer, women who love women you are very welcome to our group and any haters will be almost literally "kicked out" by Clara herself (me) and banned from the group.

Haven't you joined yet? What are you waiting for! Join the International Lesbians now!

Warmest Wishes


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