This is a peer support group for people struggling with the spectrum of anxious and avoidant attachment disorders. It's a group of people who understand that it is terrifying when a partner says they want some time alone. It's also a group of people who get it that you need your space and are uncomfortable spending with intimacy.
It's a safe space where you can get the stuff that's making you miserable out in the open where you can look at it, get feedback on your issues from people like you and your SO. It's a place to focus on strategies for dealing with the obstacles that are in the way of joyful relationship, with the help of others who know what you're talking about and who have dealt with the same stuff you're dealing with. It's a place to share, and laugh about, the stuff that's driving you nuts!