What we're about

This is a SOCIAL group that is open to everyone in the Northern VA/DC area - married, single, gay, straight, and all in between. The only requirements are that you be both naughty AND nice, as well as open-minded.

NOTE: NOW ACCEPTING NEW MEMBERS. Come join us and help create a safe place where we can be our true un-inhibited sexy selves!

We promise to be a refreshing change from other Meetup groups. While some of our activities may seem ordinary, I assure you that our conversations are anything but! For as long as we draw breath, we are on a sexual journey. For some, it is a constant battle to be what society and others expect of us, when all we really want to do is to be accepted for who and what we are. Here you will find a place to discuss those things that in polite society (how boring!) would be discouraged, and to receive resources that may assist in your path of discovery. In all that we do, we will be engaging in honest and open conversation about human sexuality while having fun! So here, feel free to wave your freak flag proudly, or simply enjoy being in a group of warm and welcoming friends.


1. Please have a complete profile with ALL questions answered, along with a good face pic so that we can recognize you at events.

2. If you RSVP yes, show up. If you can't make it, then change your RSVP! If you have 3 No Show's you will be removed from the group.

3. While I know that the temptation may be great to contact the attractive people here, we would all appreciate if you refrained from sending personal messages prior to meeting someone at an event. This is not a dating, or hook-up group.

4. Any unwanted sexual advances will NOT be tolerated. Please respect your fellow group members! Remember - I have the right to bounce anyone who does not follow the rules, or otherwise disrupts the peace and harmony of us all. I am strict but fair!

There will be a $10 annual fee to be a member after a 60 day trial. This fee helps promote a community where folks feel engaged and invested.

Note: Susan T. has been an Meetup Organizer since 2015, and currently organizes Love at First Bite SINGLES Dinner Club, and Nova's Naughty and Nice (a group that celebrates sex-positivity).

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33 1/3 Live's Killer QUEEN Experience

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Happy Hour @ Alley Cat

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Dinner and DC Gentlemen's Club

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Raven's Night - The Coven

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Past events (464)

Dinner at The Sea Boil Crab House

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