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Christmas & NY's Party Tips, Tricks & Hacks - How To Make Them Your Best Ever
Howdy. Yes, the holiday season is upon us. It's a wonderful time of the year for ugly Christmas sweaters and spiked eggnog. It's also one of the best times of the year to get out, meet people and have a ton of fun. However, many guys struggle to do so. Anxiety, fear, bad history at past parties... the list goes on. But I'm here to change all that and to give you an edge at your next outing. For this gathering, you'll get my top tips, tricks, and hacks so that you can get the most out of each and every shindig you go to this season - and every one after. MEETING & VENUE: As usual, participation is FREE & our venue is the Work Nicer Co-working Space (6th floor, 630 8th Ave SW - across the street from the BMO sign). IMPORTANT MESSAGES - PLEASE READ AND RESPECT: NOTE #1: Dress code in effect. Dress how you’d show up at a first date. Simply put and why: “The first step to being respected is to look respectable.” - Unknown NOTE #2: Please show up on time. There will be someone at the front door to let you in up until a few minutes past 7:00 (as the doors lock after hours). If you're stuck outside, text me, Burt at[masked] and I'll have someone run down as soon as possible. WHAT YOU’LL WALK AWAY WITH: - How to break into any conversation and never never run out of things to say. - How to give the impression as the 'go-to' guy at any house party. - How to mingle without it being awkward (and without the influence of alcohol). - Why the pre-show prep is key and 80/20 of getting the results you want. - And other actionable items, tools, and strategies you can start using to greatly increase your odds of having your best Christmas and New Year's party ever. WHO THIS PRESENTATION IS FOR: - Any man who'd like to improve his social game. - Any man who struggles with social anxiety. - Any man who'd like to fast-track getting traction at any event (& outing). - Any man who seems invisible in a crowd - especially women. WHAT THIS PRESENTATION ISN’T: - A sales pitch. - A lesson in “Pick-up.” - “Get laid tonight” tricks, tips & tactics. - “Magic Bullet” cures. - Thin, basic, surface level material with no substance. - Re-hashed content you’ve read before & can find on the majority of dating & attraction sites. ABOUT THE PRESENTER: As a recovering "Nice Guy" myself, I, Burt started Charismatic Gent to help smart, yet shy guys acquire the deep down confidence to meet & attract their ideal woman... from a place of authenticity, integrity, & being a man of influence. Also known as charisma. I’ve been an authorized teacher for Dr. Glover’s (of the book, “No More Mr. Nice Guy”) dating & attraction mindset programs & am obsessed with human behavior & human engineering. I'll also be helping Dr. Glover with his next book on creating PET (Positive Emotional Tension). Every day I help men (perhaps like you) to become more self-assured, take action despite the fear, & to hold the attention of really great women. Be awesome. Burt Campbell Charisma Consultant Charismatic Gent (https://www.charismaticgent.com) P.S. - This'll only be a quick talk as I want to leave room for discussion - whatever topics you'd like to go over.

Work Nicer Coworking

#600 630 8th Ave SW · Calgary, AB

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WHAT WE’RE ABOUT:

This group is for men who identify themselves as 'Nice Guys’ - as defined by author and psychotherapist Dr. Robert Glover in his book, “No More Mr. Nice Guy.”

(See Dr. Glover's site (https://www.drglover.com/no-more-mr-nice-guy.html)for more info on the 'Nice Guy Syndrome.')

THE SOLE PURPOSE OF THE GROUP IS TO:

1) Bring together like-minded men who struggle with ‘Nice Guy’ tendencies.
2) Help you to understand the/your root causes behind the 'Nice Guy Syndrome.'
3) Make you fully aware of when you’re resorting to ’Nice Guy’ tactics and tendencies.
4) Help you establish the skillset and tools to beat the ‘Nice Guy Syndrome’ for good.

We’ll also dig deep into the various aspects of social dynamics, optimal mental & physical health, and the tips, tools and strategies behind developing yourself into an attractive, confident, calm, charismatic man of influence.

MEETINGS:

We’ll host monthly, men only presentations, informal group gatherings & talks from major influencers within the men’s & ‘Nice Guy’ community.

It’s highly recommended to read Dr. Glover’s book (https://www.amazon.ca/No-More-Mr-Nice-Guy/dp/0762415339/ref=sr_1_1) before coming to the meetings so as you’re familiar with the concepts.

Dress code in effect for any and all get-togethers. Dress how you’d show up at a first date.

Simply put and why:

“The first step to being respected is to look respectable.” - Unknown

And no, this isn't a thinly disguised sales presentation. You won't be able to buy anything - even if you tried. This stuff is like crack to me. I love doing it. And, it's an area that the modern man desperately needs help and guidance on.

THE “NICE GUY SYNDROME” AS OUTLINED BY DR. GLOVER IN HIS BOOK:

Nice Guys:

• Are Givers — even at the expense of their own needs.

• Avoid conflict — which leads them to avoid speaking the truth.

• Have a dysfunctional paradigm that states:

• If I’m a Nice Guy, people will love me.

• Others will meet my needs if I meet theirs.

• If I do everything right, then I’ll have a smooth, problem-free life.

• Seek the easy life — but only doing the right thing leads to a good result.

• Are bad at receiving.

• Seek approval from others — and struggle to simply enjoy doing a job well done.

• Fix and caretake — rather than just accept and enjoy their partners and friends.

• Hide their flaws — because they believe they won’t be loved if they have flaws.

Most modern men struggle (to some degree) with Nice Guy Syndrome. If you can associate any of the above, this his group is for you.

IN ADDITION, YOU’LL ALSO LEARN HOW TO:

• Manage approach anxiety.

• Manage social anxiety.

• Never run out of things to say.

• Get out of your own head and control overthinking.

• Have unforgettable first dates (and 2nd, 3rd, 4th…).

• Get out & stay out of the dreaded “Friend-zone".

• Have the personal power to take action and actually see results.

• Create sexual tension with a woman and take interactions to the next level (escalation).

• Develop the skills to have the choice to the type of woman you want.

• Not come across as creepy or weird around people - especially women.

• Create chemistry with a woman and keep the relationship going.

• Be a natural at influencing & attracting people.

• Build a solid social network.

• Rid yourself of the demons (fear, guilt, shame, anxiety, frustration, etc.) that hold you back from getting what you want in life.

• Become the most confident & charismatic version of yourself.

WHO THIS IS FOR:

• Any man who's single, in a relationship, or married.

• Any man who wants to become a more attractive, man of influence.

• Any man who has a history of getting stuck in an endless rotation of friend zone scenarios.

• Any man who struggles with women and would like to understand and connect with them better.

• Any man who’s identified or can identify himself as a ‘Nice Guy.’

WHO THIS IS NOT FOR:

• Guys looking to ‘get laid tonight.’

• Guys looking for ‘pick-up,’ material, cheap tactics, sleazy tricks, etc. to manipulate women and people.

• Any guy who isn't into improving himself & his relationship with the people around him.

• Men who don't have an open mind & an opportunity mindset.

“No man is born good with women.

It’s something we have to learn.”

Thank you.

Burt Campbell

Charisma Coach at Charismatic Gent (https://www.charismaticgent.com)

** PLEASE NOTE **

This group is not intended to treat, diagnose, cure, or relieve the effects of diseases or mental illnesses. We advise you first to talk with your doctor before trying anything....... blah blah blah yada yada yada you know the drill.

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