What we're about


We are a diverse meetup group providing a platform for New Jersey singles (male and female) over 40 to meet other singles for friendship or maybe even find someone special, while participating in fun activities. We know it can be difficult taking that first step to get out there and meet people you don't know. However, by providing fun, social events in a comfortable, non-threatening atmosphere, we can take that step together. You've got an automatic built in set of friends! This is YOUR meetup group and it is only as good as its members. We welcome all suggestions for activities and possible venues, and we encourage people from all ethnicities and backgrounds.

In order to ensure a pleasant experience for all, please note the following:


We are a RSVP YES ONLY GROUP. Please let us know when you are able to attend an event by responding Yes. If you are unable to attend, please do not RSVP No--There is no need to respond. (Can you imagine if we received 120 No’s and 20 Yes’s? The event would certainly look unpopular and no one would be interested in going.)


If you RSVP Yes and can't make an event, please change your RSVP to No. It is a policy of this groups that anyone who RSVP's to a dinner event and does not show will be removed from the group. This is especially important when reservations have been made with a restaurant and there is a waiting list. Please be respectful of the organizer and the other members.


By attending any of this group’s events, you are assuming responsibility for your own safety. Everyone should drink responsibly, and make sure that you are physically able to attend strenuous activities like bowling, tennis, etc.

Upcoming events (3)

Long Island Chauffeur Driven Wine Tasting Tour!

Online event


Enjoy a leisurely Sunday afternoon as we sip our way through some of Long Island's best wineries. Wine tour features : Premium chauffeured transportation Visits to 3 wineries with tastings at each stop Professional chauffeur LIMIT 10: Trying to gauge interest in this event. More details to follow if there is an interest.

Anyone "fore" golf at the driving range? No experience required!

My current absolute fun thing to do is going to the driving range. I hope that you'll join me. Tuesday's are half price. No golf experience required FUN FOR ALL SKILL LEVELS! When it comes to the game itself, players hit micro-chipped golf balls that track each shot’s accuracy and distance while awarding points for hitting targets on the outfield. Whether you’re an aspiring golf pro or picking up a club for the first time, golf is everyone’s game. It’s fun and it’s competitive.

Halloween Tour of Mt. Pleasant Cemetery

375 Mt Pleasant Ave

Join us at historic Mt. Pleasant cemetery to celebrate Halloween, grab some candy and get a bit of a fright while exploring some of Newark's most hallowed history. Come dressed in your best costume and take guided tours - or wander alone (if you dare) - through the cemetery and perhaps meet a ghost or two.

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