What we're about
Ponderer's Cafe is an easygoing, guided, questioning group to cultivate and share perspectives with each other.
We are challenging ourselves, not each other. We seek better questions, not better answers. We speak only for ourselves not for the group.
We are not here to judge, persuade or argue. There is no fixing, saving, advising and no setting straight.
The intention is to truly listen to and hear what each person is sharing, so please avoid cross talk, and side comments.
Please keep your comments as brief as possible so everyone has a chance to speak, and address questions to the group rather than an individual when possible.
Use discretion. The group is held in a VERY public setting and our group and message boards are open to the public.
A note about posting on the website: Communication in person is already difficult enough. Remember, once you remove voice, tone, facial expressions and body language - communication becomes extremely difficult. Please do not post anything on the website without giving it plenty of thought first. If you don't have time to think or it's a thought that's complicated to convey, try to hold those conversations for in person meetings or even chats on the phone with each other.