What we're about

Welcome to Real Sex Education.

We want to keep your love life hot, whether you are single or coupled.

Often, couples notice that the passion and chemistry of the honeymoon phase cools off after the beginning of a relationship. Don't let this happen to you! Come learn the skills to keep your connection growing and the chemistry crackling!

And as singles, come learn the skills to find the RIGHT one, to attract the one you are attracted to, and to develop the kind of romantic relationship that gets hotter and hotter over time.

We are a San Francisco based organization dedicated to bringing sexy people together to learn about everything from cultivating Presence in relationship, to the stages of relationship to extended orgasm.

Erwan Davon has been supporting singles and couples in their love lives for 25 years. He holds a degree in psychology and after completing university, he lived in a Zen Monastery for an extended period of time and was the director of a Yoga ashram, both of which influence his spiritual teachings. He has also taught personal development for one of the world’s largest personal growth organizations, and now runs Erwan Davon Teachings (http://www.erwandavon.com/), a successful seminar business in San Francisco.

Alicia Davon holds a master’s degree in the field of Integral Psychology with a focus in women’s romantic and sensual expression. She trained as a therapist, and has led women’s groups devoted to female pleasure and life fulfillment in all aspects from career to relationship.

We look forward to the pleasure of your company!

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Upcoming events (5)

Hands-on Love-What to do with someone you can touch! - Free Online Event

Touch is a human need and desire. In the time of COVID and physical distancing, finding ways to give and receive touch can be challenging for a variety of reasons. For singles, finding someone to experience touch with in a safe way can be difficult. For couples, prioritizing touch amidst the day to day logistics in the new world can be surprisingly challenging. It can seem like touch = sex, so if we don't feel like having sex, we avoid touch altogether. Wouldn't it be nice to have a method of giving and receiving touch with many options from nurturing touch to sexual touch? Join Alicia & Erwan on August 12th for this unique event. Erwan & Alicia have developed a set of 12 touching practices that both singles and couples can practice to bring more intimacy and chemistry into their relationships. They range from healing touch to sensual/sensual touch, so people can engage in these practices at their own comfort level. Erwan & Alicia will describe and demonstrate the first 10 of the 12 practices, giving participants a clear sense of how to practice these at home. You will learn: * How to touch someone for your own pleasure and have them really enjoy it. * How to touch someone without actually touching them * How to be at ease receiving touch and asking for what you want. * How to smoothly escalate from healing touch to sexual touch, and to deescalate from sexual touch to healing touch at will- the ultimate agility. * A couple of bonus practices, like Extended Orgasm practice, will be discussed (there is another class for that demonstration!) * And more The evening will include how singles can learn how to move their online dates offline safely in order to engage in these practices. Couples will learn how to create the time and space needed for these touching practices, and how to overcome blocks to incorporating these practices into their day to day lives. Erwan and Alicia are the only Bay Area couple that has developed and taught this unique set of healing and sensual touch practices, as part of the Davon Method, to thousands of students and helped them reach their sexual and relationship goals. As a married couple, they have been teaching singles to get into relationship and couples to thrive in relationship, with an emphasis on developing a regular practice of advanced level touch for 25 years. They are the go-to place in the Bay Area for all things romantic and sexual. If you have ever wondered if taking your touching skill to the next level could improve your relationship and relationship building skills then we invite you to join them for this exciting evening. *This event will be given virtually through Zoom - we will send you the login instructions once you have your ticket. Facilitators: Erwan & Alicia have a unique approach to relationship coaching that combines their educational backgrounds in psychology and aspects of Zen Buddhism to provide a holistic method to effectively improve connection with the self and others. Erwan studied psychology after a difficult childhood and an early introduction to therapeutic work. He went on to live and study in a Zen Monastery, direct a yoga ashram, and began teaching personal development at one of the world's largest personal grown organizations. Erwan's passion for helping and teaching people led him to found Erwan Davon Teachings in 1993, specifically to help people improve their relationships. Alicia Davon holds a Master’s degree in Integral Psychology with a focus in women’s romantic and sensual expression. She trained as a therapist before meeting Erwan and led numerous women's groups devoted to female pleasure and life fulfillment from career to relationship. She met Erwan 15 years ago and started teaching with him soon after. Get your free tickets here: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/hands-on-love-what-to-do-with-someone-you-can-touch-free-online-event-tickets-113766813602

The Pleasure Course - An Online Interactive Workshop for singles & couples

Join us August 15th and 16th for an online interactive workshop for singles & couples. Each of us has a personal relationship blueprint buried deep in our unconscious mind. Left undiscovered, this blueprint can steer the course of your love life without your knowledge, and you can end up lost and frustrated. Understanding your relationship blueprint can help you see relationship problems coming, but only if you know how to distinguish your blueprint from reality, and what is possible outside of your blueprint. Otherwise, it will steer you into the same problems again and again. The Pleasure Course online is a two-day online seminar that will help anyone – from singles to those in long-term relationships – discover that blueprint and learn to transcend it. You can then learn to create and sustain an “eternal date” with your partner – a romantic relationship that reaches higher and higher peaks of intimacy, sexual attraction and spiritual union over time. In the Pleasure Course, you’ll: Uncover your personal relationship blueprint Make deep contact with yourself and learn who you really are. Gain the understanding and skills needed to succeed in all of the stages of a relationship, from the first date to long-term commitment. Unlock your potential for sexual pleasure and begin exploring Extended Orgasm, one of Erwan and Alicia’s specialties. The Pleasure Course teaches the skills and knowledge that spark deeper romance and better communication. It is the first few steps on a journey of romantic, spiritual, and sensual growth and development, and offers the basic knowledge and skills you’ll need for Erwan and Alicia’s more advanced programs. Join us on this extraordinary journey where you will reset your relationship blueprint, develop the skills necessary for each stage of romance, and create an exceptional sex life and exhilarating love life. Your Facilitators: Erwan Davon has taught thousands of singles and couples how to have exceptional romantic relationships over the last 17 years. He is the founder, senior teacher, and president of San Francisco based Erwan Davon Teachings. Erwan, who grew up in New York, has a straight-talking style that gets through to anyone so you can see your blind spots in your romantic relationships and then take your romance to new heights. He graduated with a degree in psychology and soon began teaching personal development for one of the world’s largest personal growth organizations. He then branched out on his own to support people in their relationships, and in 1995 founded Beyond Education, which later became Erwan Davon Teachings. Thousands of people have taken Erwan’s Pleasure Course and advanced programs to move past their limitations in relationships and make their romance shine. Alicia Davon has leading the Pleasure Course and other programs with Erwan since 2004. Alicia graduated with a Masters Degree in the field of Integral Psychology from John F Kennedy University, with a focus in women’s romantic and sensual expression. Prior to teaching the Pleasure Course with Erwan she was a facilitator of women’s groups devoted to female libido, pleasure, and fulfillment in all aspects of life from career to relationship. She was drawn to the “work” of Erwan Davon Teachings because of the enormous difference the organization had made in her life and the lives of so many around her. Purchase your ticket for this event here: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/the-pleasure-course-an-online-interactive-workshop-for-singles-couples-tickets-83284573401

Extended Orgasm~ How to give & receive the ultimate pleasure - ONLINE

Have you always wondered how it would be to take your sexual prowess up a notch? If you are single and still looking for your soulmate learning to give and receive Extended Orgasm makes all the difference. Are you in a relationship wondering how to keep it exciting? The Extended Orgasm practice can keep you in an ever-increasing Honeymoon period where the attraction and sexual satisfaction keeps increasing! In this one-day workshop you will witness the pre-eminent teachers of romance and sexuality demonstrate the technique of Extended Orgasm and teach you the basics of how to do it. There is no nudity or explicit sexuality on the part of the participants so that everyone can be at ease and comfortable in their introduction to one of life’s greatest pleasures, orgasm, taken to new heights. This one-day workshop will give you the skills to: * Have extended orgasm in your body and produce extended orgasm in a partner’s body * Translate the technique, which will be demonstrated on a woman’s body, to either sex * Discuss the technique to attract dating partners if you are single * Develop a daily sensual practice that can keep a relationship reaches new heights of pleasure instead of crashing after the honeymoon period * Increase your attraction to a partner and have them be more attracted to you * Begin overcoming the habit of orgasming too soon or not being able to get there at all * Achieve full body orgasm Orgasm is a very personal practice that requires real care and attention. Erwan and Alicia are the only Bay Area couple who have taught Extended Orgasm to thousands of students and helped them reach their sexual and relationship goals. As a married couple, they have been teaching singles to get into relationship and couples to thrive in relationship, with an emphasis of developing a regular practice of extended orgasm for 19 years. People are sometimes concerned about whether they will feel comfortable studying sex. Erwan and Alicia are masters at providing a safe environment where everyone learns at their own pace and comfort level, for example, relationship partners generally choose to do any touching exercises together. Most of the exercises are individual or verbal and people are always welcome to step out of any exercise, for example if their partner is not there or they are not comfortable discussing a certain topic. Singles, couples and those in relationship but whose partner is not able to attend are all in attendance in the Intro to Extended Orgasm Course. There is no nudity on the part of participants. The course is confidential. Lastly, you will receive a thirty minute follow up coaching session with Alicia or Erwan after the course to help you integrate what you learned! Our commitment is that the information is practical and applicable for you. So, if you have ever wondered if taking your sex skill to the next level could improve your relationship and relationship building skills then we invite you to register yourself today! Click here: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/intro-to-extended-orgasm-a-sensual-skills-workshop-for-singles-couples-tickets-83325469723

Extended Full Body Orgasm-Live Demonstration!

The Loft

What most of us associate with orgasm is seconds of deep pleasure, release and the post-release relaxation & joy. Even in multiple orgasms the way most people experience them, is mostly about getting aroused and 'reaching' orgasm again & again in irregular intervals. With Extended Full Body Orgasm we use a whole different paradigm. The whole experience is an ongoing state of orgasm. It is moving away from trying to 'get there' in order to have a pleasurable ecstatic release...and move towards an already existing state of pleasure in the body, and letting go into that at deeper levels. Psychotherapist & Relationship Coach Meriana Dinkova is bringing in Erwan Davon, who played a fundamental role in the creation of One Taste (he is the "Buddhist Monk" in Nicole's story of how One Taste and OMing was started), and his wife Alicia, who will explain the principle of Extended Full Body Orgasm and demonstrate it live in front of the group. The demonstration will include exposure of a woman's genitals, so you can see the techniques as they are being explained and practiced. Many of the principles and techniques to pleasure a man there are comparable. The differences will be addressed and explained (there will be no demonstration of male full body extended orgasm) By purchasing your ticket you are agreeing that you are comfortable with this kind of demonstration. There will be no nudity or sexual touch between participants Singles & Couples are welcome. Price: $30 if prepaid..The room has capacity for 45 people, so make sure to secure your spot; if the event gets sold out it will be announced on this page. Things to keep in mind: Our Loft building does not have an elevator; you will be walking up a few flights of stairs. Doors open at 6:30pm; please arrive by 6:45pm Event starts at 7:00pm This event tends to sell out, and given the amount of space and chairs, we may only have standing room for latecomers. If this is an issue for you, please arrive early to get a seat. If you have any questions or concerns, please be in touch with us ahead of time. Facilitators: Erwan & Alicia have a unique approach to relationship coaching that combines their educational backgrounds in psychology and aspects of Zen Buddhism to provide a holistic method to effectively improve connection with the self and others. Erwan studied psychology after a difficult childhood and an early introduction to therapeutic work. He went on to live and study in a Zen Monastery, direct a yoga ashram, and began teaching personal development at one of the world's largest personal grown organizations. Erwan's passion for helping and teaching people led him to found Erwan Davon Teachings in 1993, specifically to help people improve their relationships. Alicia Davon holds a Master’s degree in Integral Psychology with a focus in women’s romantic and sensual expression. She trained as a therapist before meeting Erwan and led numerous women's groups devoted to female pleasure and life fulfillment from career to relationship. She met Erwan 15 years ago and started teaching with him soon after. Together, Erwan and Alicia developed The Pleasure Course, which has helped thousands achieve their ideal love lives. They provide a safe place to explore psychological inquiry, pleasure, and sexuality. They have spent 20 years perfecting their curriculum and techniques and are excited to share their expertise with newcomers so they can help improve chemistry, connection, communication, and passion in others lives! Purchase your tickets here: https://tinyurl.com/tm6yc4c

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