What we're about

The Thoughtful Gay Man Chicago is a community of gay men who want to live a life of more meaning, purpose, intention, and brotherhood. We value empathy, openness, honesty, integrity, compassion, and building a real community. We are also wholeheartedly invested in our own personal, spiritual growth, as well as the growth of others. The purpose of this group is to encourage, uplift, and guide one another through this journey called life. Share your own life experiences, offer advice, and find support from other gay men. Join us if you're looking for deeper conversations, vulnerability, and other gay men who want to be their best selves.

During these Meetups you can expect:

-conversations and ideas that will challenge you to grow as a person

-Leaving each Meetup with more awareness of yourself and new perspectives on how to live the life you desire

-Time and space to explore, challenge, and discover your own assumptions and beliefs

-Meeting people that have similar and different experiences of life than you

-And an opportunity to make new friends!

**There is no age, "race," or gender identity discrimination tolerated in this group - all are welcome!

**This is not a "singles" group. But should you happen to find love...then, yay for you!

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The 5 Languages of Love

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Masculinity: Does it Matter?

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How to Be Fearless

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Gay Loneliness

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