Monthly Meet & Greet 🤝🏼🎲😃

Important Information: ⚠️

• There is no set time for members to arrive and/or leave this event.
• If you require reasonable adjustments, please inform the event organiser in advance.
• Guests must be aged 18 or over.

What to expect: 🤔
Get ready for a relaxed and friendly gathering! Our upcoming meet and greet is designed to be a low-pressure environment where you can connect with fellow members, share your passions, and make new friends.
Here is a breakdown of what you can expect during the event:

• Socialising: The floor is open for you to mingle and chat at your own pace.
• Board Games: If you prefer a structured activity or just want a "social icebreaker," we will have a selection of basic board games available. This is a great, low-stress way to keep the energy going.
• Dining: No need to worry about being hungry! The venue offers a full food menu, so feel free to grab a bite or a drink while you socialise.

If the weather is nice and space is available, we will try to gather space outside in the garden.

The conversation doesn't have to end when the event does. If you find yourself wanting to arrange follow-up gatherings, outings, or themed meetups, our WhatsApp community is the place to do it. It is the go-to spot for members to propose new ideas and stay in touch between events.

We look forward to seeing you there!

The plan: 💪🏻
We will meet at Boundary House at 2 PM. Where we are located will be shared once the host has arrived. Members will then have the choice to enjoy socialising, dining and/or gaming until the event comes to an end at 5 PM.

Q&A 👀
Here are the common questions asked relating to this event:

What makes the Abingdon Social Circle unique to other social events? ⭕
Our community is built on a social model rather than a profit-driven one. We aren’t interested in making grand, exaggerated claims about being the "biggest or best" in Abingdon just to inflate our numbers for a profit; instead, our genuine goal is to help residents across Oxfordshire build authentic social lives through our dedicated WhatsApp community. We want quality over quantity! While we maintain firmer boundaries than other groups, these are intentionally designed to prioritise safety and transparency. By requiring recognisable profile photos and insisting on accurate RSVP updates, we actively discourage "troublesome" individuals and significantly decrease the frustration of an inaccurate number of attendees.

I'm new and feel anxious. Is this group not right for me? 😨
Attending for the first time is pushing you out of your comfort zone, so it is normal to feel anxious on your first occasion. We always have a mixture of new and old faces. Regulars are very welcoming and it takes only 2-4 events for most members to feel settled in. Our advice is to give it a shot and reflect afterwards if the event is right for you.

Why is it important members update their RSVP (and not gatecrash)? ✅
Keeping your RSVP status up to date is about being a respectful member of the community. "No-showing" or showing up unannounced creates several issues:

• Venue Limits: We risk overcrowding a venue, which can lead to safety hazards or members being turned away at the door.
• Financial Impact: Some venues can charge us booking fees or require minimum spends based on our expected numbers. If people don’t show up, the event organiser may face unnecessary costs.
• Setting Expectations: Accurate numbers help other members know what kind of atmosphere to expect (e.g., a quiet get together vs. a large party).
• Basic Courtesy: It is simply polite. Think of it this way: how would you feel if you arranged to meet friends, and they didn't show up without letting you know?

How will I find you? 🧐
To find us on the day, simply check the events comments section for a description of where we are located and what the organiser is wearing. In addition, we will also post a link to a WhatsApp group in the comments the day before the event. If you are late, or cannot find us, it is highly recommended that you join this, as we will be sharing a live location tracker there to show you exactly where we are at all times. Please note that once the event kicks off, we’ll only be answering questions through that WhatsApp group.

We live in Britain, surely it's going to rain? ☔
If the forecast is not promising on the mooring of this event, we will try and reserve us space indoors as an alternative.

Can I bring additional people with me? 👩🏻‍🤝‍👨🏽
Yes you can, providing they are aged 18 or over. You are also responsible for any potential problematic behaviours from guests you bring with you. Please put them as +1 when you check-in so we can try and find us enough space.

Do I have to buy food? 🍔
With the prime focus of the event being to socialise, this is completely optional.

What games will be available to play? ♠️
The following games will be available to play:

• Jenga 🧱
• Uno 🃏
• Dominos 🎲
• Bananagram 🍌

Is this a dating event? 👩‍❤️‍👨
Whilst we recognise and accept that relationships do form in social settings, we ask members to be mindful that this is not an event specifically for dating. Therefore, if your only reason for attending is to find your soulmate, this event will not be the right one for you.

How do I join the WhatsApp Community? 📳
A link to the community will be shared in the comments section in the week building up to the event.

Why must all members have a recognisable profile photo in the Abingdon Social Circle? 🤳🏻
In the past, we have found that problematic incidents have all involved accounts with fake profiles or no photos.
To keep the Abingdon Social Circle a safe space for everyone, we require all members to maintain a clear, recognisable photo of themselves at all times.
We understand that some members may have concerns due to their profession or personal experiences. While we empathise with these situations, we cannot make exceptions. Our responsibility is to ensure the collective safety of the entire group by maintaining a transparent community.

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