Philosophy and individual Identity

Let us gather for a thought provoking subject next Saturday at 5.45PM. How do we develop identity? Is it nurtured over time or is there anything fundamental? How do we develop complexes? What are the stories we tell about ourselves? Someone close to me mentioned that it’s not a story but a reality? Is it really so?
We would love to hear your thoughts; See you in Café Barbera, Miracle Garden on 12th July 5.45PM