Who Is A Narcissist?

Narcisstic Personality Disorder is a Cluster B Personality Disorder defined as a pervasive pattern of grandiosity, need for admiration, and lack of empathy, beginning by early adulthood and occurring in a variety of situational and social contexts. They also may struggle with vulnerability which can make individuals very sensitive to criticism or defeat and although they may not show it, those experiences may leave them feeling ashamed, degraded and empty. People with the disorder may react to criticism or defeat with disdain and defiance, or with social withdrawal or an appearance of humility, which masks grandiosity.

People with NPD often have relationship difficulties because of problems related to self-preoccupation, need for admiration, and insensitivity to others. They are at higher risk of depression, anxiety and substance use disorders alongside increased risk for legal, work and relationship problems. One study highlighted the variability in the disorder, noting that “Individuals with narcissistic personality disorder may be grandiose or self-loathing, extraverted or socially isolated, captains of industry or unable to maintain steady employment, model citizens or prone to antisocial activities”.

Casual use of the word narcissist has brought into question if its become the new buzzword to demonize people with whom there have been toxic interactions. According to studies, 1-2% of the US population would consider their former partner a narcissist. What is the distinction between clinical narcissism vs holding narcissistic traits? How much can these traits affect interactions with another person? What causes NPD and how can it be resolved? Do you think you have ever interacted with a person with NPD?

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