Making Room for Me in Motherhood

Motherhood has a way of stretching us in every direction. We're the ones who remember, anticipate, hold space, and hold it all together. But where do we go when our own needs whisper for attention?
This Space is about creating room—for yourself. For the parts of you that still need tending. For the quiet voice that says, I need a break, too.
We’ll reflect on:

• What self-nurturing looks like in your life now

You don’t have to do it all to be enough. Let this be your invitation to slow down, check in, and make space for you—right in the middle of it all.

"The daily work of mothering can wear down our sense of self if we’re not careful. We must remember that tending to our own needs is not a detour from being a good mother—it’s the very foundation of it."

-Untamed by Glennon Doyle

Digital Space Powered by Totem
Join us online through Totem’s free, secure platform. Designed for connection and growth, our digital Spaces prioritize participation and shared experiences. You’ll have a turn to share as you feel comfortable, ensuring everyone’s voice is heard and valued.

How It Works:

• Facilitated by Keepers: Trained facilitators guide the Space, ensuring each person has an equal chance to contribute.
• Participation is Key: Share as you feel comfortable during your turn to speak. Listening is valued, but our Spaces thrive on shared experiences.
• Confidential & Supportive: What’s shared here stays here.

Meet Your Host

Hi, I’m Heather! I’m a proud mom of a lively 2-year-old named Luke and am currently expecting my second child. I work full-time for Totem, a nonprofit dedicated to creating meaningful spaces for moms and other community groups to connect, share, and grow together.

I’ve called Asheville home for the past seven years and am passionate about building supportive communities. Bringing Totem’s unique platform to Meetup is my way of sharing this valuable resource and helping moms like you find connection and encouragement in a space where every voice matters.

Why Join Us?

• Flexible & Family-Friendly: Kids and breastfeeding are welcome in digital Spaces.
• Inclusive & Judgment-Free: Every mother is valued here, and all stories are respected.

Sign up here or for the best experience, at totem.org (it’s free either way!).