What we’re about
Connect with our Austin-based community to meet like-minded folks and to discover sex-positive, sexual empowerment, and consent-oriented events in town!
Sex positivity is about two things: (1) affirming that sex can be a healthy part of human life, and (2) affirming the *consensual* choices others make regarding sex, even if they differ from ours.
We're excited to meet you!
Community Guidelines
By joining this group, you are agreeing to the following guidelines:
- We are not a dating or hook-up group. We are a community. While dating and hooking-up is welcome if it occurs naturally with people you meet in person, it is not the focus of this group.
- We not discriminate on the basis of race, sex, ethnicity, gender identity, age, religion, creed, sexual orientation, or national origin. However, we reserve the right to refuse entry to any person at our discretion. We will refuse entry to anyone who represents a credible risk of harm to the safety of others in attendance, to themselves, or to the integrity of our events.
- Do not message members you have not met in person - you will be banned from the group. No exceptions.
Upcoming events (2)
See all- Kinky CoffeeKick Butt Coffee, Austin, TX
# ☕ Kinky Coffee!! ☕
Looking for community and connection? Join us for a relaxed social gathering! Whether you're curious about exploring different lifestyles, looking to connect with like-minded individuals, or simply seeking a friendly and welcoming atmosphere, this event is for you.
We host Kinky Coffee events to provide a regular meetup, and we also have a group to help us stay connected between events!
https://fetlife.com/groups/311301/aboutKinky Coffee is hosted by Saxy Daddy - see his mug in the event photos, and look for his brightly colored shirt when you get there!
#### 💗 WHAT TO EXPECT AT KINKY COFFEE 💗
- A welcoming space for all gender identities and expressions
- Friendly faces and genuine connections
- Real-life socializing and community building
- Diverse conversation topics and interests
- A comfortable, consent-focused environment where everyone can feel safe and respected
#### 💜 OUR VALUES 💜
- Positive and inclusive environment for everyone.
- Respect, kindness, and open-mindedness.
- Any behavior that disrupts, including harassment or discrimination of any kind, will not be tolerated.
#### ✅ GUIDELINES ✅
To keep things social and freely flowing please observe the following guidelines at the event.
- Connect, Don't Cruise: This is a social event first.
- Respect Space: Be mindful of personal boundaries.
- Chat Comfortably: Avoid overly intense questioning.
- Be Welcoming: Help make this space safe for everyone.
- Thank you for helping maintain a respectful atmosphere!
#### 👕 DRESS CODE 👕
- Casual, comfortable clothing that makes you feel authentic.
- Please be mindful of the public setting.
#### 💲 COST 💲
- Free to attend. No obligation to purchase food and beverages.
#### 🔍 FINDING US 🔍
- Look for Saxy Daddy - you can't miss his gloriously loud and colorful shirt!
#### 😥 Still Nervous (Terrified)? 😥
- We understand! Some of us are introverts too, and we get it.
- You absolutely don't have to talk to anyone if you aren't comfortable. We want you to feel welcome and at ease.
- Austin Tryst Temple Party with Monique and AmberAustin, Austin, TX
Monique is coming back to Austin, one night only!!!
You’re Invited to: The Tryst Temple Party A Sacred Night of Eros, Exploration, and Play with Monique Darling & Amber Caskey
RSVP : https://www.eventbrite.com/e/austin-tryst-temple-party-with-monique-and-amber-tickets-1481682946579Come curious. Come bold. Come home to your body.
A tryst is a secret or private rendezvous—a meeting of hearts, bodies, and desires. A temple is a sacred space where every part of you is honored. This night is where the two meet.Together, we’ll co-create a shame-free, body-positive, soulfully erotic playground. A space to explore the edges of your curiosity…To witness and be witnessed…To celebrate your YES and rest in your NO.
What to Expect:
Erotic and kinky free play
Sensation stations and BDSM exploration
Cuddles, conscious touch, and sweet surrender
Consent-based connection games to open the heart
Yummy snacks to nourish your body
A grounding welcome circle to set intentions
Whether you come to play, to rest, to be held, or simply to soak in the energy, you are welcome here.What Makes This a Temple?
This isn’t a performance. It’s not a show. It’s not about how you look, it’s about how you feel.
We call it a temple because we treat pleasure, presence, and truth as sacred. Your whole self is invited: your boldness, your stillness, your joy, your grief.
Here:• Your boundaries are honored• Your NO is just as celebrated as your YES• Your desires are valid and welcomed• Your curiosity is a holy gift
This is a space for reverent Eros, for embodied play that honors your spirit as much as your skin.Who This Is For:
This is for all bodies, all genders, all orientations. Especially welcoming to trans, queer, non-binary, and other often marginalized identities. We’re here to co-create a container that feels safe, expansive, and deeply real. Come solo, partnered, or with a pod just come as you. This night is for you if:
• You’re open to deepening your sensual and emotional awareness
• You respect and clearly communicate boundaries
• You’re curious about sacred kink, conscious connection, and playful Eros
• You’re ready to co-create a space rooted in consent, care, and liberation
Event Details:
Location: East Austin
Time: Doors open at 7:00 PM — Close at 7:30 PM sharp
No late entry to preserve the safety of the container
Cost: $89 solo $150 pairRSVP : https://www.eventbrite.com/e/austin-tryst-temple-party-with-monique-and-amber-tickets-1481682946579
Text Monique at 619-601-8852 if you’re running late
The evening includes a grounding welcome circle, open play, and a closing ritual around midnight.
What to Bring:
• A towel, sarong, or comfy robe• Your favorite toys or gear
• Protection that makes you feel safe
• Whatever food or drink you’d like (non-alcoholic only)
• A playful attitude and an open, present heartDress to express, or undress to impress.
You can come in your Eros finery or your coziest cuddle clothes.
This is a night of sacred mischief and soulful pleasure.
A space where Eros is revered, play is intentional, and every body is holy.
Come be met. Come be seen. Come be free.
