What we’re about
Connect with our Austin-based community to meet like-minded folks and to discover sex-positive, sexual empowerment, and consent-oriented events in town!
Sex positivity is about two things: (1) affirming that sex can be a healthy part of human life, and (2) affirming the *consensual* choices others make regarding sex, even if they differ from ours.
We're excited to meet you!
Community Guidelines
By joining this group, you are agreeing to the following guidelines:
- We are not a dating or hook-up group. We are a community. While dating and hooking-up is welcome if it occurs naturally with people you meet in person, it is not the focus of this group.
- We not discriminate on the basis of race, sex, ethnicity, gender identity, age, religion, creed, sexual orientation, or national origin. However, we reserve the right to refuse entry to any person at our discretion. We will refuse entry to anyone who represents a credible risk of harm to the safety of others in attendance, to themselves, or to the integrity of our events.
- Do not message members you have not met in person - you will be banned from the group. No exceptions.
Upcoming events
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Kinky Coffee (Central Austin) @ Kick Butt Coffee
Kick Butt Coffee, 5775 Airport Blvd # 725, Austin, TX, US# ☕ Kinky Coffee!! ☕
Looking for community and connection? Join us for a relaxed social gathering! Whether you're curious about exploring different lifestyles, looking to connect with like-minded individuals, or simply seeking a friendly and welcoming atmosphere, this event is for you.
We host Kinky Coffee events to provide a regular meetup, and we also have a FetLife group to help us stay connected between events!
https://fetlife.com/groups/311301/about
#### 💗 WHAT TO EXPECT AT KINKY COFFEE 💗
- A welcoming space for all gender identities and expressions
- Friendly faces and genuine connections
- Real-life socializing and community building
- Diverse conversation topics and interests
- A comfortable, consent-focused environment where everyone can feel safe and respected
#### 💜 OUR VALUES 💜
- Positive and inclusive environment for everyone.
- Respect, kindness, and open-mindedness.
- Any behavior that disrupts, including harassment or discrimination of any kind, will not be tolerated.
#### ✅ GUIDELINES ✅
To keep things social and freely flowing please observe the following guidelines at the event.
- Connect, Don't Cruise: This is a social event first.
- Respect Space: Be mindful of personal boundaries.
- Chat Comfortably: Avoid overly intense questioning.
- Be Welcoming: Help make this space safe for everyone.
- Thank you for helping maintain a respectful atmosphere!
#### 👕 DRESS CODE 👕
- Casual, comfortable clothing that makes you feel authentic.
- Please be mindful of the public setting.
#### 💲 COST 💲
- Free to attend. No obligation to purchase food and beverages.
#### 🔍 FINDING US 🔍
- Look for Saxy Daddy - you can't miss his gloriously loud and colorful shirt!
#### 😥 Still Nervous (Terrified)? 😥
- We understand! Some of us are introverts too, and we get it.
- You absolutely don't have to talk to anyone if you aren't comfortable. We want you to feel welcome and at ease.
#### ❓ QUESTIONS? ❓
- Please contact Jonathan Malkin (a.k.a Saxy Daddy) who's right here in this group. He's happy to answer any questions. Feel free to reach out – even if you’re feeling a bit shy! Everyone is welcome!
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Find Your Inner Yes
South Austin, Address given after ticket purchase, Austin, TX, US[TLDR] All info and tickets here: https://JoyOfConsent.com/yes
Turn down the world’s noise so you can hear your truth.
When was the last time you paused long enough to feel the difference between what you truly want and what the world has taught you to want?
Most of us live with so much noise - expectations, pressure, obligations, opinions - that our own inner knowing gets buried or ignored.
Find Your Inner Yes is an invitation to slow down, listen inward, and rediscover the wisdom that lives in your body.
This workshop offers a practical, playful exploration of desire, boundaries, and embodiment. You’ll learn the language of your body’s “yes” - that unmistakable sense of rightness, aliveness, and alignment. And just as importantly, you’ll learn to recognize your no, your hesitation, and your internal limits with compassion and clarity.
Through guided embodiment work, platonic touch practices, gentle imagination exercises, and consent frameworks inspired by the Wheel of Consent, you’ll begin to hear the messages your body has always been sending. You’ll practice honoring those signals in real time, in ways that feel safe, grounded, and empowering.
Together, we’ll explore:
- The body sensations that signal yes, no, maybe, and not-yet
- How to reconnect with desire without pressure or performance
- How to ask for what you want in a way that feels natural and honest
- How to receive without shrinking, guilt, or self-doubt
- How finding your inner yes creates clarity in relationships, work, creativity, and daily life
If you’ve ever felt disconnected from your own wants - or found it hard to voice them - this workshop gives you the tools, awareness, and practices to come home to yourself.
Turn down the noise. Tune in to your truth.
Your inner YES is waiting for you.
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DATE: Saturday, January 10th, 2026
TIME 12:30 - 4:30 PM (doors open at 12:00, locked at 12:30)
A 20% Early Bird Discount will be automatically applied to your love contribution through January 7th.
The South Austin address for the event venue will be sent to you once you register.
Learn the details and sign up for our explore-shop at https://JoyOfConsent.com/yes2 attendees
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