What we’re about
do you feel like you dont have many friends? or like your just the freind on standby when the "best freind" cant be there. lets be real freindships are something we want but their also like shooting stars. their doors to new experiences but those doors are hard to make.
maybe you want to go out and do something but you dont have anyone to do that with. you dont even know how to carry a friendship like that but you want to have someone with you to enjoy life with.
as someone with ASD I've struggled with this alot. thats why I want to create a group of people in a similar lonely setting to do things with and, hopefully foster actual freindships. if not that, at least we can all do group activities together that we'd have trouble doing without a social suport.
we can create a chat group and discuss the activity we'd be doing together.
where will we meet?
my game plan is we discuss this. ahead of time. where we settle on a activity. this can be anything from kareokee in a bar to a day at the zoo, to a movie or just getting coffee.
some of us may need rides to places. for instance I cant drive. it would be nice if other members. since its close by I would want to keep hang outs down town but if you can transport the ones who want to go and cant drive we can go somewhere outside those limits.
who can join?
anyone can join. this is ment to be a group for anyone who needs a social group. that being said, we want people who are nice and respect others. the main people who this group is for is people who feel left out of a social life but do want one.
what will we do at the events
whatever we'd want. thats the good thing of course the main plans socializing but if you want to go off and just do your own thing you can. if you feel the thing isnt for you or your socialed out its also alright to head out too as long as you let someone know.
group rules
if you want to join for everyones safty I want to ask you have profiles that show your actual face or a proof of identity simply because this is a vunrable thing.
we will not be hanging out at anyones home.
no peer pressure. if say one of the activities involve alcohol no one should be pressured in or out of drinking same gose with pressuring people out of drinking. its their choice first. this stretches to other things that could fall in this category.
be nice. this gose with out saying but be nice, do not judge others this is a group for forming relationships so everyones included.
no exscuding, also gose without saying everyone should be included in some way even if their quiet. this is ment to be a group against the clique mentality that includes everyone.
this is a rule for the safty of anyone younger this is ment to be a adult group if your under 18 I'm sorry, but I want to make sure no members are harrassed in anyway.
