Your Imperfections Make you Adorable!

ARE YOU A PERFECTIONIST?
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ARE YOU ALWAYS BLAMING YOURSELF WHEN SOMETHING GOES WRONG WITH YOUR RELATIONSHIPS?
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ARE YOU WAITING UNTIL YOU'RE PERFECT TO FINALLY LOVE YOURSELF WHOLEHEARTEDLY?
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One of the most common mistakes I see in the women that come to me is the belief that they need to be perfect in order to be loveable.
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I get it.
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Often, in childhood, when we didn't get the love we needed - and our parents were constantly criticizing us - we internalized the belief that the reason they didn't love us was because we were not perfect.
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As a result, we grew up with the illusion that if we would achieve perfection, then they would love us.
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Of course, none of that is true.
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They couldn't love us simply because they couldn't give us what they didn't have.
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The problem is that many of us are still carrying around those beliefs...
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Thinking that if we could only be better... more beautiful.. nicer... etc, then love wouldn't be a problem.
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And when we are aware of our imperfections, we believe we are not worthy of love.
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When in fact... our imperfections are exactly what makes us loveable!
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They are the things that make us human... vulnerable... uniquely charming.
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But if you don't believe that.. and you're hiding them, feeling ashamed of them...
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Then YOU are putting up a barrier to love...
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And repelling the very thing you want most.
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It is when you learn to LOVE your imperfections, that LOVE cannot stay away from you!
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Like my client N who realized that her "weaknesses" were exactly what her future husband found most charming about her!
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Or like my client M who thought that she was too princess-like... but her fiancé finds she is exclusive and high-class.
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Or like myself. I used to think that i was too chaotic.
But guess what? I manifested a man who finds that totally adorable.
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When you love yourself despite it all, that's when YOU become magnetic to TRUE LOVE!
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So...
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Stay in your pyjamas on this lazy Sunday, grab your favorite drink, and come join us on this cozy morning where we will fall in love with ourselves like never before...
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And in the process, give permission to others to do the same!
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See you soon!!!