What we’re about
## Welcome To Beyond the Bar
Online speed connection events for adults across South Africa.
Beyond the Bar creates relaxed, guided online spaces where adults can meet new people, build friendships, and feel connected - no weird apps, no pressure, no awkward small talk.
Join from anywhere in South Africa and connect with like-minded people who are also looking to expand their social circle in a genuine, comfortable way.
## Why Online Speed Connections Work
#### No swiping, no guessing
Just because two people match online doesn’t mean they can hold a conversation. Live interaction matters.
#### Time-efficient and accessible
Connect with multiple people in one session - no travel, no prep, no pressure.
#### You get a real sense of the person
Seeing interests and talking live gives you a clearer first impression than endless messaging.
Beyond the Bar exists to make genuine human connection easier in a world where many adults feel isolated, overwhelmed, or disconnected.
We believe connection doesn’t need loud venues, endless apps, or uncomfortable situations. Sometimes, it just needs the right structure, a welcoming environment, and shared intention.
By hosting online speed connection events, we bring people together from across South Africa in a way that feels safe, relaxed, and human.
Our focus is simple:
- Creating spaces where people feel comfortable being themselves
- Encouraging real conversation
- Supporting connection without pressure or expectation
Beyond the Bar isn’t about forcing friendships - it’s about opening doors and letting connections unfold naturally.
Upcoming events
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Unattached Social Connections (Cape Town) | 55-62 YRS
·OnlineOnlineOur online speed connection events are designed for adults who want to expand their social circle in a low-pressure, friendly environment.
Tickets cost R150.00 - meet up to 11 new connections in just one hour!
BUY YOUR TICKETS HERE
Whether you’re new to an area, working remotely, or simply want to meet new people - these sessions make it easy and enjoyable.
This social connection evening is for individuals aged 55–62 residing in Cape Town who are unattached and open to meeting new people in a relaxed, respectful environment.
Each participant will have access to the profile of the person they are chatting with, making it easy to start conversations naturally based on shared interests, values, and life experience - no scripted questions or facilitated discussions.
This is not a dating event, but a social space where real conversations can happen at your own pace. Whether you’re looking to expand your social circle, enjoy good conversation, or explore a potential connection, the focus is on authenticity and comfort.
No pressure. No expectations. Just genuine social connection.
Limited space per event, PRE-booking is essential!2 attendees
Fitness & Wellness Connections (Cape Town) | 35-50 YRS
·OnlineOnlineOur online speed connection events are designed for adults who want to expand their social circle in a low-pressure, friendly environment.
Tickets cost R150.00 - meet up to 11 new connections in just one hour!
BUY YOUR TICKETS HERE
Whether you’re new to an area, working remotely, or simply want to meet new people, these sessions make it easy and enjoyable to connect from the comfort of your own home.
Join this social connection event for individuals aged 35–50 residing in Cape Town who are passionate about health, fitness, and overall wellness.
Each participant can view the profile of the person they are chatting with, making it easy to start conversations naturally about shared interests, fitness goals, and healthy living — all at your own pace.
This is not a workout class, nor a dating event. It’s a space to meet like-minded people, share experiences, and expand your social circle in a relaxed, supportive environment.
Event Access Information
The private access link will be emailed to ticket holders 24 hours before the event, with a reminder sent on the day of the event. Please ensure the email address used for booking is correct.
Need Assistance?
Email: info@beyondthebar.co.z / WhatsApp: 083 333 2940
No pressure. Just connection through shared wellness and lifestyle interests.
Limited spaces per event – PRE-booking is essential.3 attendees
LGBT+ Connections (Cape Town) | 30+ YRS
·OnlineOnlineThis social connection event is for individuals aged 30 and over residing in Cape Town who identify as LGBT+ and want to meet like-minded people in a relaxed, respectful environment.
Tickets cost R150.00 - meet up to 11 new connections in just one hour!
BUY YOUR TICKETS HERE
Each participant can view the profile of the person they are chatting with, making it easy to start conversations naturally about shared interests, experiences, and values — all at your own pace.
This is not a dating event. It’s a space to make friends, expand your social circle, and connect with others in the LGBT+ community in a welcoming setting.
Event Access Information
The private access link will be emailed to ticket holders 24 hours before the event, with a reminder sent on the day of the event.
Please ensure the email address used for booking is correct.
Need Assistance?
If you experience any issues accessing the event or have questions beforehand, you can contact us at:
Email: info@beyondthebar.co.za / WhatsApp: 083 333 2940
No pressure. No expectations. Just genuine social connection.
Limited spaces per event – PRE-booking is essential.1 attendee
Christian Connections (Cape Town) | 24-35 YRS
·OnlineOnlineOur online speed connection events are designed for adults who want to expand their social circle in a low-pressure, friendly environment.
Tickets cost R150.00 - meet up to 11 new connections in just one hour!
BUY YOUR TICKETS HERE
Whether you’re new to an area, working remotely, or simply want to meet new people, these sessions make it easy and enjoyable to connect from the comfort of your own home.
This social connection event is for individuals aged 24–35 residing in Cape Town who identify as Christian and want to meet like-minded people in a friendly, respectful environment.
Each participant can view the profile of the person they are chatting with, making it easy to start conversations naturally about shared faith, values, and life experiences — all at your own pace.
This is not a dating event, but a space to connect with others who share your beliefs, expand your social circle, and enjoy meaningful conversation in a comfortable setting.
Event Access Information
The private access link will be emailed to ticket holders 24 hours before the event, with a reminder sent on the day of the event. Please ensure the email address used for booking is correct.
Need Assistance?
Email: info@beyondthebar.co.z / WhatsApp: 083 333 2940
No pressure. No labels. Just genuine Christian connection.
Limited spaces per event – PRE-booking is essential.1 attendee
Past events
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