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What Does It Mean To Be Your Best Self?
Congratulations! You’ve decided you want to be your best self… Now what! What does it actually mean to be your best self? How will you know you’re moving in the right direction? How do you know if something really is your best?
Good news, we’re going to explore this topic through discussions, activities and reflections.
As far as your ‘best self’ goes, there is no one-size-fits-all definition. Instead, the description is entirely personal. Your best self will never be the same as someone else’s - so resist the temptation to go down the comparison route. That never feels good! Instead, remember that we’re all different. We all have different talents, skills, challenges, and journeys. So when it comes to defining your best self, know that you get to choose what that means for yourself.
Better still, your definition doesn’t need to be fixed in stone. Instead, it will almost certainly change over time. As you achieve goals, check through your bucket list, and revise your ambitions, you’ll uncover more and more about who you really are.
And as a result, your best self definition will expand.
I think that’s one of the most beautiful things about being human. We’re never really ‘done’. There’s always more we could do and explore. In short, our comfort zones can expand infinitely, which makes your best self a journey, NOT a destination. That’s right; there’s nowhere specific you need to reach because your best self is a state of BEING.
More About Me, Alika Victor
I am excited and thrilled every time I can assist someone in improving their work and home relationships, careers, and day-to-day lives. Through the content, format and topics chosen for this Meetup, I aim to help you be the best possible version of yourself today and tomorrow.
Certifications I Possess to Assist You to Be Your Best
- Mastermind Facilitator - Since 2016
- Life Coach Certified - Since 2016
- DISC Profile Certified - Since 2016
- Real Colors Certified - Since 2016
- ACE Group Fitness Instructor - Completed Study, Exam Scheduled Oct 2022
- ACE Health & Wellness Coach - Underway 2022
Meetup Participants Informed Consent Notice
Alika Victor is the facilitator of the Be Your Absolute Best Meetup with the mission and intent of providing information on topics that can help individuals be their best at work and home. All participants who join this meetup acknowledge that different topics that represent one’s home and work life (work, finances, health, wellness, activity, self-care, goals, intentions, etc) are offered as meetup talks for educational and information purposes only. Participants are also aware that topics and meetup talks are in no way to be construed or substituted as psychology counseling or any other type of therapy or medical advice.
By joining this meetup, participant accepts that all topics, materials and formats used by Alika Victor, Guest Speakers, Partners are providing information “as is” without warranty of any kind, either expressed or implied. It is the responsibility of the participant to create their own results and to make their own informed decision about all the material that is provided by Alika Victor, Guest Speakers and Partners.
Upcoming events (2)See all
- Don't Be Alone on Thanksgiving Day (Online ONLY Gathering)Link visible for attendees
Want to connect with others on Thanksgiving Day virtually?
There are many reasons why people feel may find themselves alone this Thanksgiving. The reasons vary: relocated to a new city, no relatives in town, processing grief and loss, traveling, experiencing major life changes like moving or divorce. This doesn't replace doing something in person yet provides some social connection time with others.
Will be opening up Zoom for 2 hours to gather ONLINE only. Join and leave at any time. Invite as many guests.
Optional: Bring food and drink to the call.
- Thanksgiving Guided Meditation
- Thanksgiving Bingo or Trivia
- Share 5 Things You are Thankful this Year
- Share Any Thoughts You Have on this Day
- A Few Yoga Stretches
- 2023 Year in Review - Let's Do this TogetherLink visible for attendees
Before you ring in the New Year, participate in conversations with others to review how 2022 went for you. This activity will help all of us, learn from each other, be inspired or be in awe. In some cases, we will just have fun.
Types of Questions We Will Answer in Round Table Format
> Most Embarrassing Moment this Year
> Favorite Photo of the Year
> Favorite TV Show of the Year
> Favorite Song of the Year
> Favorite Movie of the Year
> Favorite Book of the Year
> Best Moment of the Year
> Biggest News Story this Year
> Something New You Learned this Year
> Something New You Tried this Year
> Something that Inspired You this Year
> Most Popular Internet Video this Year
> Toughest Decision You Made this Year
Much Much More