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Touch, Tantra, Massage & Intimacy for Men - Boston & New England

(formerly Greater Boston Men's Massage Exchange)

Welcome Boston gay & bisexual men interested in healthy touch, authentic connection and Boston gay massage.

Meet with gay and bisexual men who enjoy male bodywork for men and man to man massage exchange, male massage and gay massage in the greater Boston and New England area.

Enjoy M4M Massage in Boston and metrowest gay massage and New England male massage.

Join us if you are interested in bodywork and m4m massage as methods of relaxation, stress relief and intimacy. We welcome both experienced as well as those new to male touch, bodywork and gay massage who wish to expand their knowledge and enjoyment in bodywork and massage, gay tantra, sacred touch and energy healing..

We’re a diverse group of men who want to connect with other men in meaningful and non-judgmental ways, including through touch, bodywork & socially.

The majority of participants are greater Boston gay men and bisexual men.. We do welcome all adult men (18+) who want to explore healthy touch with men regardless of sexual orientation, marital status or other characteristic.

Our group is limited to men 18 years of age and older. Our focus is men who live in the greater Boston and throughout New England, though we welcome men from other areas are welcome to join, especially if travel brings you to the Boston metro area.

This is a private group and only members can access other members profiles. See below for how to adjust your privacy settings.

Whether you go for strictly therapeutic massage and platonic bodywork, energy healing, cuddling, gourmet hugs, or a juicier sensual massage, erotic massage, or you enjoy aggressive forms of bodywork, the group is set up to support you in finding friendly men to exchange with, and to assist those who like to organize small groups.

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"It's a great place for men of varying ages and backgrounds to come together and enjoy the magic of sensual touch, definitely worth the time and effort to attend." - Derek

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Now and then we offer gatherings and workshops where you can enjoy and explore touch that is platonic, sensual and sometimes erotic -- including massage exchange, sensual touch, spiritual and tantric practices, aggressive bodywork, sacred touch, energy healing, rituals, social and personal growth events -- individually and in group settings. Currently most of our events are in Boston, MA and we have groups in other cities and periodic teleseminars on topics like gay intimacy, self-confidence and sexual healing.

Past events have included:

Touch & Authentic Connection For Men

Sensual Touch Dojo™

I Love A Man's Touch

Relationship Cafe

Heart-Centered Touch

Erotic Explorations for Men

Kink Lab for Men

Exploring Tantra and BDSM

A Gentle Masculine Body Blessing

Creating Intimacy with sensation and intensity

Bodywork Basics for Men

Trust, Touch & Body Image

Buddy Rub Sunday

A Taste of Tantra for Men

Men's Mirror Massage

My Listening Hands

Meditation, Touch & Sensuality

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"Very impressed. Had no idea what to expect and entered with a fair degree of nervousness. The pace and flow of the session were well designed and quickly eased my anxiety and I felt completely safe." - Richard

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"A wonderful experience for me.... first time I've participated in a group event of this nature. I was a bit apprehensive, but once my anxiety wore off, I felt safe in a very trusting environment surrounded by a group of men that I felt comfortable sharing with." - Joey

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Periodically we alert members to events and resources on related topics including male massage, enhancing intimacy, sexual healing and meaningful emotional connection and relationship, and other topics of interest to the group.

You must have a complete profile filled out to be approved to join this group. Please insure your location on your member profile (next to your name) is correct.

The word massage as used in this group refers to informal, caring bodywork and touch of the kind that friends share together. It does not refer to any form of professional massage therapy.

While those in this group may exchange bodywork and share ideas & techniques, participating in this group will not provide therapeutic massage, massage therapy instruction, diagnosis or medical advice. Consult a licensed massage therapist, massage school, doctor or other health care practitioner for these purposes. Any fees charged for meetings are for the use of meeting space, for supplies, promotional costs, and for the facilitation of meetings, educational personal growth exercises and men's group dynamics. Therapeutic massage and instruction in therapeutic massage is not provided by this group.

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Other Boston groups you may be interested in:

Men Growing Together

Kink Friendly Men

Groups outside Boston that may interest you:

Boston ( Men's Massage Exchange

NYC ( Men's Massage Exchange

Consent and Safety

Events offered by this group are led by a variety of different facilitators each of whom is independent. The format of each event varies. Carefully read the event description and ask any questions before deciding an event is for you. Some events are discussion based and others may be experiential. Some may involve consensual touch and somatic learning activities. Our quality standards include the expectation that facilitators ensure that the event description matches what will actually happen at the event.

All activities are done only with your consent which you may withdraw at any time. All participants and facilitators are required to respect the boundaries and behavioral guidelines set for the group experience as well as specific choices of individuals they connect with. Some events have more structure than others. To create a safe space for everyone, our events are not for spectators, and so there may sometimes be specific behavior guidelines for those who choose to not participate in a specific learning activity which could range from sitting in a designated part of the room as a sacred witness up to and including possibly being asked to leave the room. If you have questions, please contact the facilitator of that specific event.

At every point within any event you attend, you need to take care of yourself. Asking for what you want, saying “No” or asking for things to be changed or slowed down is your responsibility if you are not comfortable with what is happening. Remember that no one can read your mind. They won’t know what you need unless you ask. That said, the facilitator can help you if asked and most often the session will include helpful exercises and guidance to support your being comfortable navigating experiential activities.

Meeting new people can be great fun, but at the same time we encourage you to do it safely. As would be appropriate with any community group, please exercise caution and due diligence about who you share personal information with and who you meet with privately, which you do entirely at your own risk.

To Join, click "Join Us" in the upper right of your screen

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"A truly remarkable experience! This was my first time at any type of session like this and was somewhat anxious at the beginning. I felt welcome and very comfortable. I look forward to future sessions." - Ken

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How to update your Meetup privacy settings

Before joining you may wish to update the privacy settings on your Meetup account.

This is a private group. The group is set up so that content is not available to non-members Depending on your personal privacy settings others may be able to see that you are a member of the group.

Here's how:

1.Hide the list of Meetup groups you belong to

Here's how (

2. If desired, remove your last name from your Meetup account:

When logged into Meetup, Click "Account Settings" (upper left of screen)

Click "General" in the dropdown menu

Click the "edit" link by your name

Update and click submit

More detailed directions here (

This is a private group. You can review more detailed information about Meetup privacy here (

Regardless of your privacy settings people in other Meetup groups you join can see all your photos.

Photo Policy

In the spirit of creating community, we encourage but do not require members to share a headshot (face) photo on your group profile. If you adjust your privacy settings as above this should not be a problem.

While we're a sex positive group, we do follow the Community Standards and Terms of Service, which forbids nude photos or images of 'unclothed persons' in member profiles. The guideline applies whether the image might be considered artistic or not. This means you must be wearing at least a speedo in all photos. Members with inappropriate photos risk being removed from the group without notice.

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